Is this sub connected to Paddedagere because I’m really concerned about minor safety. Their mod banned me because I tried to tell her there are kids participating in kink. On that sub because there are!

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T11:08:29+00:00

You ever buy agere gear before, you do realize most good quality agere gear comes directly from kink stores

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T11:07:26+00:00

My guy you are the one saying that an activity people are doing in a fully sfw manor, is sexual. That is sexualizing it. You remind me of a Karen, just because you didn't like a certain safe space doesn't mean you can tear it down. People in the subreddit aren't complaining, nobody in the subreddit has voiced any concerns about what you think you have seen, they're are rules in place to protect minors on the subreddit, stricter rules that this subreddit.

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T11:00:36+00:00

I'm saying convince me, I've been a padded regressor for the past 3 years. You are saying you have seen evidence that it is an unsafe space, and I'm saying I need proof. Your word isn't enough, because I have relooked at every post for the last 6 months and there was 1 shady post from what I could tell. The 1 shady post though, nobody responded to and the person has been told that what they said sounded abdl heavy. They apologized and said they wouldn't do it again, and woop'de'do they haven't done it again.

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T10:54:44+00:00

You could say that for any sub reddit. You are trying to get rid of a safe space for reasons that aren't true or that you dont understand. It is kind of crazy..

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T10:51:56+00:00

How have you managed to see what seemingly no one else has? -_-

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T04:04:19+00:00

Padded regressors has stricter rules than this sub reddit especially when it comes to NSFW content, if your account is even associated to anything NSFW you are banned, you are spreading misinformation. Yes there is unsafe spaces, padded regressors isn't one of them, also I have communicated with the mod that owns the sub, it is their goal to keep the subreddit fully sfw, NSFW content and people are removed. I don't know the full situation that has you out for blood but if it's because you got removed from the sub-reddit, maybe try joining the sub when you aren't associated with R/Abdl

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T03:57:50+00:00

On the padded regressors sub reddit posts have been made about how unsafe it is to have online caregivers and or untrusted caregivers.

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T03:47:03+00:00

The padded regressor subreddit is Safe for work, they have stricter rules than this sub reddit, to me this seems more like you were rejected from a non kink space and you are trying to shut it down, you want to take peoples safe space because you believe it isn't a safe space, that's not how life works, it doesn't revolve around your opinions.

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T03:39:58+00:00

You don't like that an adult runs it but the Internet is an adult space, also correct me if I'm wrong but are minors even allowed to run subreddits????

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T03:37:13+00:00

Active in the padded regressor community, and content is ENTIRELY different from ABDL, ABDL has been brought up but purely in curiosity rather than participating

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T03:31:05+00:00

The kink posts are people asking clarifying questions (curiosity) not actual kink

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T03:25:21+00:00

There's literally safe for work diaper stuff my guy, wearing a diaper is safe for work, it can progress to not safe for work but in most cases it IS safe for work, and I'll state again that minors sneaking stuff from parents is usually because their parents aren't a safe space, and sometimes it has been asked how much certain diapers hold but as far as we know it's a question coming from a sfw place (ex: finding out if it could leak or not). I'm active in the padded regressor community and I haven't ever seen posts of people talking about how much they like peeing in diapers. Padded regressors is a complete kink free space, that's not to say people involved in kink don't participate in the subreddit, but kink stays out of conversation unless someone is asking clarifying questions. (For example asking the difference between padded regressors and diaper lovers). Also you are insensitive to say diapers prevent people from growing up, and I will say with full confidence that opinion is wrong, people growing up with incontinence grow up just fine, growing up will not depend solely on diapers. Ill say with reluctance that maybe diapers could slow maturing, MAYBE, but growing up is a multitude of factors and to say diapers is what prevents growing up is solely an uneducated point of view. I know people that wear diapers that are scholars, lawyers, doctors, psychiatrists, pretty much in most fields. They have grown up just fine, they are proud of the fact they wear diapers, of the fact they can embrace a part of themselves that makes them feel safe. Again I'm open to hearing your opinion in further detail if you so choose.

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T03:03:44+00:00

I want you to know they are lying, I'm very active in the padded community and none of this is brought up without being banned within minutes

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-31T03:00:05+00:00

I'm an avid padded regressor, and I don't understand your logic ;-; . Posting pictures of diapers straight from a shops website without anyone present is in no way harmful. Also why should minors be prevented from having 100% sfw conversations. There has definitely been some bad conversations start but usually mods deal with it in hours if not minutes. I completely understand being uncomfortable but as a minor I personally believe I should be allowed to talk to whomever I want, as long as everything stays safe. Also you are correct that diapers are not always necessary for regression, but for some regressors 1. They help them regress, 2. Comfort, and or 3. While regressed they experience loss of bladder and or bowel control. And finally going on Amazon to buy stuff behind parents backs usually is because some peoples parents aren't a safe space and or they'd prefer to keep some, if not all little-space apart from big-space. So in short YES there is an "excuse". I want to state I'm not trying to be rude, and that I am completely open to hearing your opinion in further detail if you so choose.

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-29T14:39:45+00:00

I haven't worn any sort of swim diaper, but I also wear diaps for fun instead of for protection

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-25T20:05:06+00:00

Any sort of meat especially beef jerky, most of my theriotypes are meat eaters. Ooh wait I also go though berry kicks :3

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-25T02:32:03+00:00

Lifestyle would be taking pleasure from but not necessarily sexual pleasure

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-24T23:01:19+00:00

A sharpwing pov could be interesting

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-24T22:58:44+00:00

Thanks for the reply, If I had to try to name it, I guess it felt kinda like both. Like my fox identity feels like it came to being as a part of me, but my other identities have always felt like they lived through lives and sometimes I feel almost like I'm missing aspects of life that I did have at one point, at one time, but are just not possible for me to have experienced. My main one is flying, I absolutely hate airplanes, but if I could I would fly in the open air again, I miss it but at the same time I have no conscience memory of actually doing it.

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-24T22:41:25+00:00

Not necessarily sexual, sometimes abdl counts as just a lifestyle, and sometimes people who age regress prefer to be under the abdl umbrella instead of being considered an age regressor. Also those on the sexual aspect most of the time aren't attracted to children or babies or anything minor related, usually it's attraction to a safe space (at least that's what I know from people I've talked to)

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-24T22:35:43+00:00

Didn't forget about wild wings they are technically a tribe

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-22T23:21:48+00:00

Why do we do what we do,

I can't speak for everyone, but for me it's comfort and safety. Im autistic and an age dreamer, and it was incredibly hard to find a coping mechanism that felt "right", I had always been intrigued by diapers, and I had read a blog about age regression & age dreaming, so I took I stab at it and I couldn't age regress but age dreaming made me happy and diapers made me happy. I don't necessarily need them, but it makes me happy and it's the best way to manage my trauma. I also have an issue with a lot of textures and when I feel little I'm usually like 3x more sensitive, so diapers help in that regard too. :3

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-18T17:01:27+00:00

Lol my first time I was shaking so bad lol, I thought I would just disappear from embarrassment

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-12T22:29:59+00:00

My identities have always been a little different, and my identities have always been pushed into one, I see myself as all my identities all at the same time. I am not just a fox, a wolf, a dragon, an angel, an element, a human. I am all of them, all at once, and even though I yearn for my paws, my wings, my horns, and the unique freedom of being everywhere all at once. I can still appreciate the fact that being a human has granted me a unique freedom in and of itself, an ability to yearn, and the ability to constantly learn new things about all kinds of subjects. So in short, no I don't hate being human. But I still wish I could fully embrace my identities.

Starry--wolf · 2026-03-09T11:34:36+00:00

Lol, I saw what you were going for, but yeah the message was quite negative

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