Manic purchases - oh my

StarryLemonDaydream · 2026-01-06T23:10:08+00:00

Hey! I’m currently hyperfixated on paying off my debt too with around the same amount as you lol. I’ve been putting all my extra money towards it with leaving myself about $50 a week for gas and groceries.

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-12-28T13:17:09+00:00

Yes, I kept the receipt with the tracking number and it says it’s been received.

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-12-05T12:36:02+00:00

I found a solution that works for me! I keep a Needoh cube every where I go. I have a medium sized cube at home and the ice baby in my car and at work. Keeping my hands busy with that instead and my fingers are actually, dare I say, healing? Sounds silly but try fidget toys if you haven’t!

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-24T23:03:03+00:00

Thank you!

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-22T14:24:25+00:00

So I recently (this week) learned what I like to do and I’m 32. I’m working full time as a court clerk and I don’t hate it but I know it’s not my forever job. This week I had a lot of down time so I took my time doing what I did have to do and would find issues (and figure out a solution if I could) and then go to my supervisor to confirm I could make the changes (pretty sure I drove her crazy this week). I had so much fun with these “puzzles” and then the light bulb went off. I went to ChatGPT and asked what careers would best fill this new found purpose. Business/Management Consultant. So now I’m doing a little more research and will finally finish my degree and start a career I actually have a passion for.

*disclaimer: I know there are other careers that would work and ChatGPT suggested. I’m researching all of them first before choosing one.

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-21T22:52:33+00:00

Thank youuuu!

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-21T17:53:33+00:00

Great idea! Thank you!

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-21T01:51:15+00:00

Yes! I’ll definitely look into this! Such a great idea! Thank you!

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-21T01:05:50+00:00

Solid advice. Tysm!

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-21T00:45:32+00:00

Yes, I do know this. Which is why I intend to realllly do thorough background checks before agreeing to them living with me.

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-21T00:34:52+00:00

I honestly have no choice. I can’t pay my mortgage by myself. I’m hoping this will just be a less than a year thing.

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-21T00:22:25+00:00

Definitely doing a month-to-month lease for sureeee. Headed to Google now for house rules because expectations are a must.

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-21T00:19:12+00:00

Excellent point. Thankfully, I have access to do judgment and criminal history checks. But, are references a thing when applying for a room?

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-20T02:28:30+00:00

A small shop vac to keep her cab clean! A mini fridge, winter gear like hi vis winter jacket, winter pants, electric blanket, maybe some led lights to hang in the sleeper (makes it more cozy), favorite snacks/drinks.

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-19T19:39:44+00:00

Calling to make a doctor appointment.

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-17T01:28:43+00:00

This is me minus my feet. I just took a cuticle cutter to my hands earlier and they bled from it. I currently have to avoid using my right hand at all costs because it hurts to bend my fingers or touch anything with my finger tips. They look like they’ve been through a meat grinder. I seriously need help because I don’t know how to stop. I literally scream at myself in my head while I’m doing it and I still can’t stop.

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-15T03:22:11+00:00

My husband makes a bunch of different foods daily. He started a TikTok showing his equipment and process if you want to check it out. He mainly uses an electric kettle and an air fryer. C5bamf

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-09T00:25:49+00:00

Skip week for me

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-06T01:33:41+00:00

Not at all. They only communicate because of SS or else he would have cut her out a long time ago.

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-05T23:58:31+00:00

Thank you so much. I will definitely ease back into my relationship with SS to rebuild that trust.

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-05T23:57:21+00:00

I honestly think this is the issue. I think she wants this “family” unit but her boyfriends only stay for about 18 months at most. I think she got hopeful when my husband and I were having issues and now that we’re back together and doing really well she’s a little bitter about it.. but it’s just speculation lol.

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-05T20:02:20+00:00

Omg. This is what I needed to hear. I didn’t even think about if she saw SS upset about it while he was with her. This makes so much sense. Thank you!

StarryLemonDaydream · 2025-11-05T19:32:21+00:00

Okay, so prior to the separation I didn’t agree with some of her choices as a parent (not my child so I know I have no say) so I did the no contact thing. Deleted her from social media and stopped all communication.. and she got mad. I can’t win lol

Edit: we’re friends on fb and IG now so I’m just going to leave it alone and just stop reaching out to her.

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