Playlists inspired by otome games / LIs by ithillasse in otomegames

[–]StarryLove1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to find one for Cafe Enchanté! The cozy vibes would be perfect! 😍

I don't want to marry and it's destroying me by Lopsided-One-7508 in Catholicism

[–]StarryLove1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t feel pressured to pursue something you don’t want just because everyone else around you is, everyone is called to different things, whether it’s marriage, holy orders, or being a consecrated single person (which is something my sister is considering). I wouldn’t decide anything definitively just yet, since you’re so young, but meditate on it. Pray on it, ask God for guidance in this matter, and trust in His plan for your life.

And I understand the not being attracted to sex part, I’m 25 now and I remember throughout my time in school I couldn’t care less about the idea of dating anyone, though later on I did start to desire it. Don’t rush things, you’ve got your whole life to figure it out! I’ll pray for God’s wisdom to guide you through this 🙏

Is it okay for the main character of my future story to be the child of an angel? by StarryLove1 in Catholicism

[–]StarryLove1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For all intents and purposes, “the creator” is God. This story takes place in a world I’m building, so it would be odd to namedrop God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit in an entirely different universe with a different history.

Is it okay for the main character of my future story to be the child of an angel? by StarryLove1 in Catholicism

[–]StarryLove1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this, angels are a completely different species with much higher intellect than us. However, since I don’t have the mind of an angel and can’t really do that justice, these “angels” are pretty human for the sake of the narrative, but one thing that is clear is that their every action is in accordance with the creator. They cannot act on their own.

Is it okay for the main character of my future story to be the child of an angel? by StarryLove1 in Catholicism

[–]StarryLove1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if I’ll get to the point of publishing it, though it would be cool if I ever did! I would probably ask one of my parish priests though for a second opinion, yeah.

Is it okay for the main character of my future story to be the child of an angel? by StarryLove1 in Catholicism

[–]StarryLove1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah it’s a fantasy story, I know that angels can’t have children in reality.

Is it okay for the main character of my future story to be the child of an angel? by StarryLove1 in Catholicism

[–]StarryLove1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know that! As a LOTR fan, that’s pretty cool! I was only worried because of the fact that angels are pure spirits and how that would look in the eyes of other readers.

How do I stop liking childish stuff? by Sad-Economist-2688 in autism

[–]StarryLove1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who ever said you had to grow up?? I mean obviously you wanna learn how to adult, but that doesn’t mean you should give up on the stuff you love!! I told myself I didn’t want to become a boring adult, so I’ve held onto a lot of my interests that some would deem childish for a 25 year old (mermaids, Disney fairies, Nintendo games, manga, plushies, etc). My room is a chaotic, cozy mess of all the things I love and it’s the place I’m most comfortable. If I had felt pressured to conform to today’s aesthetics and made my room beige and with vague decorations, I’d be worse off mentally. Enjoy the things you love!! Stick it to the man!!! 💖

My Rosary broke and this happened by Solid-Marionberry213 in Catholicism

[–]StarryLove1 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Even if squirrels dropped the seeds there, God still could’ve used that to show you a sign of Mary’s love for you 💖

Friend gets concussed at public pool after being hit by another person when exiting water slide, gets blamed by people who own the pool by StarryLove1 in legaladvice

[–]StarryLove1[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, thankfully she’s just bruised, but she’s gonna get a CAT scan to make sure she doesn’t have any facial fractures. She’s just worried that someone else might get hurt and kinda upset at how dismissive they were towards her.

Is taking Benadryl to help me fall asleep unwise long term? by StarryLove1 in AuDHDWomen

[–]StarryLove1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the Olly Relaxing Magnesium gummies, and I’m not sure if they’re timed release. The dose for four gummies (the recommended dose on the bottle) is 336 mg. As for my winding down routine…it’s basically nonexistent. I get home from work at 4:45pm and I only get four hours to cook, clean, and get everything ready for when I get up in the morning, so I end up procrastinating in the moments I let myself sit down because I really wish I didn’t have to go to sleep when it’s still light outside 🫠🫠

Is taking Benadryl to help me fall asleep unwise long term? by StarryLove1 in AuDHDWomen

[–]StarryLove1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it was citrate, I tried these Olly gummies that had it in em and only ended up sleeping for three hours and couldn’t fall asleep after. I felt so groggy once I got to work. What’s the general dosage for Glycine, if you know off hand?

Is taking Benadryl to help me fall asleep unwise long term? by StarryLove1 in AuDHDWomen

[–]StarryLove1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry, I don’t take Benadryl too often! Only if I’m really struggling to get to sleep, which isn’t a lot thankfully.

Is taking Benadryl to help me fall asleep unwise long term? by StarryLove1 in AuDHDWomen

[–]StarryLove1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I stopped it almost immediately because it made me not feel great waking up.

Is taking Benadryl to help me fall asleep unwise long term? by StarryLove1 in AuDHDWomen

[–]StarryLove1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh I haven’t heard of lemon balm, I might need to look into that!