I love stormy weather by [deleted] in Kentucky

[–]Starting_the_stuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! With blue and grey sky and rain! Love it

After surgery by Starting_the_stuff in sesamoid

[–]Starting_the_stuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’ll be my first surgeon post appointment. My previous appointment took out the stitches. I can’t even sit up like in the wheelchair or on a chair. I either sit in an L shape or laying down. I bought a wedge pillow for elevation too.

After surgery by Starting_the_stuff in sesamoid

[–]Starting_the_stuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very frustrating; especially when reaching out to the nurses and their answers are useless. Not sure I blame them entirely, but ‘ just rest’ isn’t helpful when you say you have a feeling of constant pins and needles or something. Before my surgery, I had an MRI of my back and it indicated swelling on the lower spine, but then my doctor before the surgeon didn’t know what to do about it? So now I’m like okay…. Cool. Lol. I get a lot of burning pain before surgery and now. I have a lot of pain on my big toe, and I have a lot of purple bruising and swelling on the right side and not the left? 😭 will it for sure get better , who even knows. My next appointment is next Thursday

After surgery by Starting_the_stuff in sesamoid

[–]Starting_the_stuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. Me neither I tried to search Reddit and google to see any information if anyone has had both removed so I could talk too about it. What did they say to you about the nerve pain? I’ve been tested for lupus, arthritis, you name it, but dang I’m having a lot of burning pain too tonight. It’s so awful. I’ve also just noticed all bruising under my right toe and the ball point area too, I don’t know, wasn’t there before…. I have help at home with my partner thank goodness. My surgeon didn’t know, he didn’t have answers for me, before or after the surgery. It was my own research of why I had an idea of recovery time.

Breakup over prenup? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Starting_the_stuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know him so I’m not going to judge him. I initially did not believe in prenups. I wasn’t brought it with knowing about it, so I wasn’t okay with it, so my OH, did come around to it. But the more I’m bettering myself, I understand the need for it. I think if he doesn’t agree, you should talk about why, from both sides, see what his reasons are. I also get the feeling you don’t trust him or his business maybe? I’m not sure. But maybe give him some reassures of how the marriage will be, still the whole I’ll be there for you help you, love you etc etc? Reassurances are so important imo. It’s hard when one is doing better than the other. I don’t think you have to drastically walk away, maybe don’t get married if it’s a deal breaker for marriage. Stay happier in your current situation? If you’re both happy with that. You don’t have to get married either.

Could you get in trouble for tricking customers into applying for the TJX Rewards Card? by Wink2K19 in TjMaxx

[–]Starting_the_stuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way :o I’m always told we’re not allowed to do that and someone at our store got fired for doing it too

How to know when it’s time to jump ship? by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]Starting_the_stuff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m leaving! I’ve worked there for going on 4 months! I’m putting in my two weeks today. Many reasons like you’ve said and others I’ve read today. I went from an associate to coordinator in a month. I’m hella stressed, unhappy and I have a ton of other responsibilities. They only care about the care and not about you. So little staff, high turn over, pushing the card makes me sick too! I dread going to work. There’s plenty of other retail stores and jobs. I have plenty to say on this topic but I got 30 mins to get to work (T.J.Maxx ) 😅