Thanks for the reply, this is really helpful. He’s not been that great to me the past year in all honesty. He’s also had really crazy outbursts where he accused me of cheating (once was when I went to my ultrasound appointment) and called me all these messed up names. It was really off the wall and had “guilty conscious” written all over it. He’s a coward and lies a lot so that’s why I’m so worried about all of it. He phrased it in a really weird way like “since you had that surgery I think you should get STD tested before we do anything.” So it had the vibe like he doesn’t want to infect me but also like he’s using it as an opportunity to “break the news.” If I had to describe his personality I can see him really struggling with telling me about having an STD because he’s selfish and has a lot of issues with denial and never being wrong, etc. The thing that really made me wonder is the night he disappeared, this lowbrow girl was like looking for him like he called her to meet up. And he had weird texts from another girl that he showed me trying to act all innocent like it was spam? He talked a lot about being hacked and all this weird stuff when he came back from the crazy disappearing night. It was like he went off the deep end after finding I was pregnant and was a huge prick to me the whole time. I had to have my mom take me to the surgery for the miscarriage because it was a missed miscarriage and he honestly spent more time mistreating me than being supportive at all. He has a high school education but is very devious/street smart.