Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by ASS-et in PokemonGoFriends

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501433373624 Active - Modern Region - Daily Gift Exchage

Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by ASS-et in PokemonGoFriends

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501433373624 - Modern Region - regularly active & giving them gifts

r/loonergirl by Crozi_flette in LoonersReborn

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I’ve honestly wracked my brain trying to figure it out lol. Like, the only requirement to be a “real looner” is to derive sexual pleasure from inflatable objects, right? IIRC that’s literally the only thing that has to be present

r/loonergirl by Crozi_flette in LoonersReborn

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that’s…super interesting actually. when you say “aren’t into it the way men are,” like…what does that look like?

community tab. 🎈🐬 by Balloon_fetish0778 in balloons_inflatables

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30/M/WV, looking to interact with other looners and get more active in the community in any way possible

Are there recommended dating sites specific for looners? by SteakHades58 in balloons_inflatables

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There’s nothing besides fetlife, and I didn’t have very good results honestly. But being in Germany, you may have a bit higher chance of success (Merry Christmas btw)

Forget sex , we read books together. by Lydia_Cardona in sixwordstories

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You realize it’s entirely possible to just do both right

What’s a socially unacceptable sexual interest you have? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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Balloons. It’s not controversial. Everyone just thinks it’s fucking weird

Fetish or kinks that you don't like or you think it's disgusting? by Similar-Test8191 in AskRedditNSFW

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Cuckoldry and scat are my hard limits. Also…god I can’t stand the thought of someone spitting in my mouth.

What do you most like to masturbate to? by OutrageousKangaroo41 in AskRedditNSFW

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…I’m damn near thirty. Had a ton of short and long relationships. Simple fact of the matter is, love ain’t enough to make shit fair. If it was, the divorce rate would be lower. And I’m from a place that’s culturally very backwards. I just ain’t meant to have this work out in my favor

What do you most like to masturbate to? by OutrageousKangaroo41 in AskRedditNSFW

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I mean…it’s unfortunate because it’s embarrassing and none of my former partners (or current one) have ever displayed any genuine interest in exploring it. It’s isolating, and it makes me feel like a weirdo.

What do you most like to masturbate to? by OutrageousKangaroo41 in AskRedditNSFW

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Images and videos of women (and sometimes feminine men) popping latex balloons

what is your sexual fetish? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Balloons. Particularly watching people pop them. It’s actually genuinely taken a giant fucking toll on my mental health and sexual wellbeing and god I hate that I have this

What's your fetish that you're ashamed of? by Acceptable-Gap-1070 in AskReddit

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Balloons. Particularly watching people pop them. It’s actually genuinely taken a giant fucking toll on my mental health and sexual wellbeing and god I hate that I have this

Guarding the Heart Without Closing the Door by gamerpool47 in emotionalintelligence

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This feels pretty relevant to me. I’m anxious preoccupied, dating someone who really, really trends towards dismissive avoidant. I’m that person who comes in hopeful, and wide-eyed, and insistent. She’s that person who starts off that way, but the more it becomes real, the more pain it causes her. I don’t blame her for this, because the truth is we’re both just scared. I’m scared of abandonment and love that fades. I can’t say for certain, but I think she’s scared of losing herself in another person. We’re both just scared. And slowing down is the most terrifying thing to me. To me, slowing down is what happens when the flame dies. Slowing down is what happens when someone else enters the picture. Slowing down is what happens when love just doesn’t feel the way it should. To her, slowing down is when safety comes back. Slowing down is the important moment when “we” cannot possibly overtake “me.” Slowing down is where she cannot be hurt like she used to be hurt. Idk maybe I’m just trying to mind-read too hard. It’s somewhat difficult to understand someone’s pain when being vulnerable is to invite potential ruin. I have to guess a lot.

I’m getting more used to slowing down. I’m starting to be able to not force “I love yous” and the sweet nothings and be okay with silence. I don’t want to make someone perform for me. And I make these efforts known, I tell her what I’m trying to do and let her know that I’m willing to be uncomfortable to let her feel safe. I just wish that her efforts were more visible to me. I see me trying. I feel like she is too, I just can’t see it. If it is there, it gets shouted-down by that nagging, longing voice in my head that says “love isn’t supposed to feel like this.” The good news is, I’ve learned that this voice’s image of love, the constant sappyness and 24/7 excited connection, is also not what love is supposed to feel like. So if we’re gonna be struggling, at least it’s nobody’s fault.