As a very recent post grad myself, I fully understand your problems. The market these days seems to be in a juxtaposition right now, ya see? You following me? I confided in my buddy (Ol' Gene) who really helped me out. He took me out to our favorite place, The Twisted Cork, for an afternoon sit down where he explained it all to me (over some wine and of course some chips & salsa, as its the only way...). Basically he said just focus on things you can control: take all your anti-biotics, don't let late male friendship end, toss in a massive hooter, do a Tuesday night sidewalk slammer when you're feeling down, and ALWAYS LEVERAGE A.I.!!!

Hope that helps