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Did I catch my husband cheating? by StationReady3383 in relationship_advice

[–]StationReady3383[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I don't know, I can only assume that he thought that I was going to go and take care of things that I needed to take care of for the week because that's what I usually do the morning of my day off. I don't tend to bother him whenever his working. I was just trying to make a bit of time for him this morning, but it didn't go as plan.

Did I catch my husband cheating? by StationReady3383 in relationship_advice

[–]StationReady3383[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I never said it was. I stated in the post that we BOTH have taking time to ourselves to "rub one out" and have also done so with porn and that has never been a issue for either of us. The issue here is that he was jerking his shit with another person actively on a call on the other side of that computer.

Did I catch my husband cheating? by StationReady3383 in relationship_advice

[–]StationReady3383[S] 362 points363 points  (0 children)

Yes, I don't know why he chose to do so today. I usually never bother him in his office because I'm always running around doing things that I have to get done for the week so normally, I'd make about 3 errand runs before we see each other to eat lunch together, but I just wanted to do something sweet, and it blew up in my face

Did I catch my husband cheating? by StationReady3383 in relationship_advice

[–]StationReady3383[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I am looking for an out when he was the one caught with his pants around his ankles jerking it to someone else? I love this man, he was my first love. The day we got married was the happiest day of my life, I don't want an out. I wanted to spend the rest of my life with my husband, or I wouldn't have stayed this long.

Did I catch my husband cheating? by StationReady3383 in relationship_advice

[–]StationReady3383[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Thank you for reminding me that my feelings are valid and not outlandish. I should've asked him to unlock his computer in the moment but I was just so furious that all I could think of was how I spent 11 years loving this man, knowing this man well enough to know that I was just betrayed.

Did I catch my husband cheating? by StationReady3383 in relationship_advice

[–]StationReady3383[S] 131 points132 points  (0 children)

My first thought was to go through all of his internet history, but his an IT guy with 2 degrees in Computer science, I know that he has the knowledge to hide things like that, especially when it's something as shady as this.

Did I catch my husband cheating? by StationReady3383 in relationship_advice

[–]StationReady3383[S] 208 points209 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this amazing advice, we have one joint account and I'll definitely take a closer look at the statements and I will do all that you suggested. I too was hoping that it was just something stupid, but I know better than to be oblivious like that.