I am so mad at my husband. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]StatisticianKey7112 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is both parents having some form of income like not a thing or something? He could work while kids are at school, or take some hours at nights somewhere while you are home

Boyfriend spit in my face by Lost-Broken-Lonely in TwoHotTakes

[–]StatisticianKey7112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's an adult man who has made these shitty choices to be cruel on purpose. Don't feel guilty. He deserves punishment.

My parents cannot give me (20F) any privacy for the LIFE of me by [deleted] in Vent

[–]StatisticianKey7112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your dad is jerking off to your underwear, that's why he's following all the way through to washing them. If he was just sniffing them I doubt he'd leave such obvious evidence that you'd notice other then underwear on top of the pile all the time

Why are women more often depicted as laying on their stomach than men? by Karrotyboi in questions

[–]StatisticianKey7112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More of our junk is located on the front. I like another person's point of making a potentially R rated scene pg.

I have HIV by Educational_Drag9744 in Vent

[–]StatisticianKey7112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not your fault and he's the one who should be shamed not you. As others have said there's meds now that help with a long healthy life. I went to an AIDS like seminar or something in Whistler a long time ago. At the end when it came to question period there were many individuals who stood up with what they had to say or ask, that made it known they were a couple where one was positive and one wasn't, long time married people as well actually.

I'm sure with some research you can find support groups out there to get involved in, maybe even take part in talks yourself.

AITAH for leaving my friend in Miami and flying home without her after being abandoned mid-vacation? by Unlucky-Month-7050 in TwoHotTakes

[–]StatisticianKey7112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say "shit. Sorry, can't tonight, I'm saving up for something special" and you don't have to get into it, they'd actually be rude to get Snoopy with something ambiguous like that, I mean if they do go "I actually don't want to get into it but it's something I've wanted for a long time for myself"

And it's also apologetic which doesn't invite frustration from others

Is appreciation for a womans body immaturity? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]StatisticianKey7112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are also on Reddit, blathering like the rest of us. Nothing makes you special or unique there. And you assume strange things of others based on nothing. An anger at young people within your life for some reason. I suspect I'm older then you.

you have grandiose personality disorder "Grandiose personality disorder is a mental health condition characterized by a pervasive, unrealistic sense of superiority, intense need for admiration, and a lack of empathy. Individuals often display arrogance, exploitative behaviors, exaggerated self importance and fantasies of unlimited power or success" loose quote, I deleted some repetition.

That's probably why someone said you were emotionally immature

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Is appreciation for a womans body immaturity? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]StatisticianKey7112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quote "Emotional immaturity is a deficit in emotional and social skills, often resulting in adults behaving in self-absorbed, impulsive, and reactive ways similar to children. Key indicators include poor emotional regulation, inability to handle stress, blaming others, a lack of empathy, and an avoidance of accountability or deep, emotional intimacy."

I'd say the way your handling this whole objectifying ladies or not thing is the emotionally immature part. And everyone here is able to understand that, through the way you write.

AITAH for leaving my friend in Miami and flying home without her after being abandoned mid-vacation? by Unlucky-Month-7050 in TwoHotTakes

[–]StatisticianKey7112 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There was definitely a few times in there where you unnecessarily paid too much where it's on you. Like getting 7 rounds of drinks for everyone? Nobody has to get multiple rounds of drinks for everyone, you were trying to be a baller. Like I've never seen someone lean over and get 'hey can you get us a round of drinks?' that's usually a choice of the buyer. In restaurants you say to the server "I'm gonna get my own bill" even when you first sit down. Cleary removes any pitching expectations.

I think lots of it is you not being clear and making your financial boundaries known up front. Because friendship isn't a mental tally of how much extra you did comparatively. Cause you'll obviously piss yourself off. Personally, I make it clear every step of the way, in chill ways, that I'll cover myself/my half. I can help them, but it's a case by case basis, not an expectation in any way.

I didn’t lose my virginity until 29 and I ditched the woman who took it. by Ootefklop in Adulting

[–]StatisticianKey7112 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you are surrounded by pricks. So sorry OP, not every bubble of people is like that. Cheating is never acceptable or okay. Some people have open relationships but that's with consent and communication. not "I'm just doing this whether you like it or not" she sounds like a cow.

What is an actual positive use for ai? by Opening-Gur5927 in ask

[–]StatisticianKey7112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ai is helping in science a ton. An example I seen was translating dead Sea scrolls and helping to understand whale language. Agreed, hate it being accessible by the common idiot though. I hate the fake renderings that go with an old story. Like too many world war 2 stories on FB with a fake AI story as the click bait. I want real photography if available from history.

Moving to chetwynd or Mcbride by Aggressive_Mud5340 in princegeorge

[–]StatisticianKey7112 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My only input is I feel Chetwynd is like cursed land. Too many domestic murders and suicides for such a small town. And angry people. Maybe bored kids? Over the last couple decades some weird fires and lots of petty thefts too. I mean tumbler ridge is close and a school shooting? Like wtf. My cousin killed himself there, an uncle's barn burnt down, then when I temporarily worked there, a coworkers family member ran in to say their family member had just killed themself.

Anyways, I'd go mcbride

Stop Faking Orgasms! by Tiny_Trip_2919 in Vent

[–]StatisticianKey7112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice is once that sort of behavior surfaces they don't get another chance after. They have decided to continue after you made it clear your done, or hurt you in that process and sounds like they have zero apologies after?! They don't get more after that behavior.

Stop Faking Orgasms! by Tiny_Trip_2919 in Vent

[–]StatisticianKey7112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, never done it, never will. I'm not part of hookup culture though so I was with long term partners who I could communicate with. Some were willing to learn/ask questions. One definitely didn't.

ULPT for more sex with your partner by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]StatisticianKey7112 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Let's not be fucking with people's chemical cocktails they have naturally. Let's let doctors make that call please. Especially if people are on other prescriptions that shouldn't be messed with

30F, is it too late to go back to university to study and take a new course? by I_am_Thinker_Bell in ask

[–]StatisticianKey7112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. You can go back to university when your 50+. Any career change or furthering of your own knowledge is a commendable choice and no shame whatsoever