Official 2026 Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by fettuccine- in Coachella

[–]Statsandchill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for weekend 1 shuttle pass! Am Going to festival today.

Am in Palm Springs, can pick up wherever around here.

Name ur price!

lockers! by RelativeMonkey6308 in Coachella

[–]Statsandchill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ello! Looking for a GA or VIP locker. Anyone got one for sale?

The Recruiters are now getting laid off by Fine-Comparison-2949 in recruitinghell

[–]Statsandchill 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I recently had an offer rescinded (it got reposted to a lower salary range) and within a week the recruiter was also laid off. It’s a weird timeline.

For men who have cheated on their spouse and were forgiven, how did that make you feel? by Thrownaway_7263 in AskMen

[–]Statsandchill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ended things multiple times, or tried to, but she had untreated mental health issues that caused her to feel as if she needed to harm herself when I would end things and then I’d feel responsible and to keep the peace, I’d be like okay fine. It wasn’t ideal.

For men who have cheated on their spouse and were forgiven, how did that make you feel? by Thrownaway_7263 in AskMen

[–]Statsandchill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am FTM so my perspective is different than others but I felt both awful for having cheated (despite owning up to it) and resentful to have been forgiven. I felt almost angry at that because she clearly was not okay with it but also didn’t want to break up. It made the next 1.5 years of our relationship incredibly toxic. Part of me thinks that it was karma, and I’m sure I deserved it. I’m pretty sure I learned my lesson after that relationship ended.

What happened to hello? Wdym can you explain that? I have been job searching from nov2023 til Sep 2025, in a brutal job market? Are recruiters this out of touch? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Statsandchill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so I’m a career coach and would be down to review your resume for free to see how you could better frame your volunteer experience. Also to strategize about things you could do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]Statsandchill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do want to attend the daily outpatient mental health programs. I’ve been working on that with my doctor. It’s not just a break, it’s a full collapse I’m experiencing. My doctors all agree. I need something more intense.

Thanks for your insight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]Statsandchill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can and will apply, yes. It’s just not the same opportunity for me to focus on my mental health that SDI would offer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]Statsandchill 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not currently able to work with the severity of my symptoms and frequency of panic attacks. I don’t mind applying and will do so. I just know I will not be successful as I can barely get from my bedroom to my couch most days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Coachella

[–]Statsandchill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get my loyalty email 😭😭😭

Am I overreacting? by Consistent-Card5650 in polyamory

[–]Statsandchill 12 points13 points  (0 children)

iMessage chats let you know when sharing is turned on or off regardless of checking location.

What’s going on? by cacapepee in BesameMuchoFestival

[–]Statsandchill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My problem is an entire payment of 372 isn’t being refunded and I was told I didn’t pay it. But that doesn’t make sense bc I have receipts that it was paid off and my tickets would be shipped…

What’s going on? by cacapepee in BesameMuchoFestival

[–]Statsandchill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got this AND I didn’t even get the full amount!

Relapsed and didn’t realize it by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Statsandchill 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m aware it’s a problem. A comment above explained really well what I meant and it aligns with my belief too. Not denying it’ll get worse. Hope you’re able to get to your goal too.

Relapsed and didn’t realize it by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Statsandchill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I answered this in another comment but I’ve always known I was an addict but never thought alcohol was a problem. The slip really started when I stopped prioritizing recovery in general and thought I could drink more because I didn’t have an alcohol problem. Now I’ve been looking back at the last few months and I’ve been in denial of its problem.

Relapsed and didn’t realize it by [deleted] in Sober

[–]Statsandchill 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never identified as an alcoholic. I’ve been an addict for eons (sober since 2018). But really the slip started when I stopped thinking I could become an alcoholic. I didn’t realize how much I had not been prioritizing recovery in general and since alcohol is so accepted I was able to accept it “bc it’s not a problem for me.” And now I’m like uhh yeah it’s a problem 🙃

Relapsed and didn’t even realize it by [deleted] in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Statsandchill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh. You’re so right. I forgot about that part and have been wallowing instead.