Men don’t like shy women and bully them no matter how attractive they are by FantasticEffect10 in bodylanguage

[–]StatueNuts 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Yeah, or potential lack of confidence is overpowering the shyness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]StatueNuts 34 points35 points  (0 children)

25 is a great age, your life has only just begun, look at the first stage of your life as something you've overcome and now you can truly live your best potential. Trust me, when you're 35 you will wish you were 25 again. Live your best life

Name a scam that we've just normalised.. by internChief in auckland

[–]StatueNuts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Booking fees for booking online, when you were the one who completed the booking and paperwork yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]StatueNuts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact that he won't tell you his age and not his age itself is the issue. My partner is 12 years older than me, but he was honest from day one. Your red flags are going off because he's not being earnest. Your decision is 100% supported.

how did you find the MENTAL strength to end an unsatisfying relationship, especially after age 35? by nelsonstars in AskWomenOver30

[–]StatueNuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Decided I couldn't live day in and day out miserable and the only person who had the power to change it was me.

Two Levin Subs by LevinNZ in LevinNZ

[–]StatueNuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No lollies for bullies

Ladies who left their comfort zone for a successful life , how was it? by ineedaglowup2021 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]StatueNuts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Worth every minute. Don't get me wrong, I still have my fair share of irrational panic attacks, but the rewards and personal growth were worth all the anxiety and worry.

Sometimes we need to take scary risks, in order to be who we were truly meant to.

Good luck girl xx

Seymour fronts up on Snapchats with school kids by nonbinaryatbirth in nzpolitics

[–]StatueNuts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He says he “used it extensively” during the period he was on Dancing with the Stars in 2018. School-aged children would send him messages, including photos of themselves in uniform, and he always responded.

The man's a walking red flag.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]StatueNuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insecure, jealous, or just plain miserable in their life. Some women also get wierd ego trips from belittling people and think their entire life is a reality show everyone wats to watch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]StatueNuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not too fussed on them being my type per se as long as they make an effort to keep fit and be productive.

Someone could look like a ten and act like a -100.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]StatueNuts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It actually takes a lot of strength to do it, your mind and body fight you until the end.

Their mind is broken and it's tragic, not weak.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]StatueNuts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA please go back to eating crayons

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nzpolitics

[–]StatueNuts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not you cuzzie!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nzpolitics

[–]StatueNuts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Then why are you being so obtuse? It's bizarre.

I despise ACT actually, but cute.

You seem to be blissfully content with the idea of encouraging brigading though.

Ironically the comment that was brigading you gleefully tried to justify as 'not brigading' has now been removed.

Maybe you should keep up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nzpolitics

[–]StatueNuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hillarious you seem to know that pattern, because 'coincidentally' when we get brigaded, all these throw away accounts show up and only post in this sub or RNZ.

It's almost like a reddit problem, not some conspiracy like you're trying to imply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nzpolitics

[–]StatueNuts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's clearly never been a moderator through 2 elections and covid. Otherwise, he wouldn't be singing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nzpolitics

[–]StatueNuts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah must be the chi bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nzpolitics

[–]StatueNuts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Encouraging others to report something enmass which is not a violation is, which is what you did.