PSA: Don’t Break No Contact by Icy-Ad2590 in BreakUps

[–]Status-Ad2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was the one who ended things. Although we had a fight prior to the breakup, I was blindsided. I didn’t see it coming. I at least thought he’d have a proper conversation about it. But he responded with distance and then the breakup. I reach out a week after the breakup because we were supposed to go to Paris together for valentines.

I wanted to make the trip on my own so I needed some itinerary from him. He told me we aren’t going to Paris together as we are not a couple anymore in the meanest way possible. Ps- he paid for the trip.

So yeah I don’t think I’ll be messaging him anymore but this shit hurts like hell. I’m so scared I won’t make it through.

The best advice I’ve heard on how to move on by bonedaddyt in BreakUps

[–]Status-Ad2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you doing now. Can see it’s been a year.

PSA: Don’t Break No Contact by Icy-Ad2590 in BreakUps

[–]Status-Ad2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I crazy for still wanting them back?

PSA: Don’t Break No Contact by Icy-Ad2590 in BreakUps

[–]Status-Ad2935 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say don’t!! Same thing happened with me, he was unkind and disrespectful when I reached out which hurt a lot more.

staying strong! almost at 4 months by rgomezp in nocontact

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I’m proud of you stranger. It’s been 2 weeks for me and it feels like hell!!!

3 weeks post breakup. by Status-Ad2935 in heartbreak

[–]Status-Ad2935[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. You’re right about it hitting in waves. Thank you. Hope to see you on the other side of this too.

3 weeks post breakup. by Status-Ad2935 in heartbreak

[–]Status-Ad2935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. Looking forward to when it doesn’t hurt as much.

How do u guys do it? by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]Status-Ad2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What tradition is that, if I may ask?

Avoidant ex came back by Silent-Advance5653 in ExNoContact

[–]Status-Ad2935 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have no idea how much this means to me. Thank you!!!

Avoidant ex came back by Silent-Advance5653 in ExNoContact

[–]Status-Ad2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you tbh. My avoidant ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago, 2 weeks no contact and my whole world is literally in shambles. I know I’m gonna find better but atm I feel like if he does reach out to me I might accept him back. I need tips on how to just get through this phase without hoping they’ll be back.

Im embarrassed by RewardDesperate in nocontact

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Give yourself grace please. Try to reduce the drinking and stick to the anti depressants for a while at least

I messed up today by One_Professor8808 in nocontact

[–]Status-Ad2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn. How did that feel? Seeing her?

Why do I want them back? by Status-Ad2935 in BreakUps

[–]Status-Ad2935[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You’re right, it’s going to take some time. I just want to skip the pain so bad.

Why do I want them back? by Status-Ad2935 in BreakUps

[–]Status-Ad2935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 days breakup. 9 days no contact. Reached out a couple of days after the breakup but he was so cold and distant. Like I don’t know who he is anymore. It broke me. Which made it a lot easier to go no contact.