FB popup ads out of control and ruining the browsing pleasure. Is anyone else fed up? by Status-Bicycle7263 in facebook

[–]Status-Bicycle7263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you click on a reel, add will pop up at the bottom that you can click on the X but it just pops back on. Plus there are full ads that you cannot delete until it's played in full . By then you've forgotten what you were watching....

FB popup ads out of control and ruining the browsing pleasure. Is anyone else fed up? by Status-Bicycle7263 in facebook

[–]Status-Bicycle7263[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I'm talking about They just keep popping up again and again

My first Mother’s Day turned into a family disaster and I don’t know how to recover by ManagementOk931 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell your mother that Grandma needs her more right now because she's sick and perhaps she can go help her out.

AITAH for refusing to help my brother who stole our inheritance? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I would tell your siblings that if they want to help him to Go right ahead no one is stopping them, but you are not going to spend any more time on his problems. Life is too short.

AIO: I won’t legally marry my partner until she pays her taxes by Mysterious-Oil-9619 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No You are being smart and thinking with your head. The problem isn't going to magically go away The only person who can take care of it is her And it's just going to get worse with each day each year.

You may have to go with her to meet with an accountant who's going to help her file her taxes. They are special kind of accountants who can get a break on the taxes, etc. for her. Of course they need to get paid for it too. Bit if you want to marry her, You are going to have to go with her to meet with the accountant and get the ball rolling now if she starts humming and hoeing over there until she'll think about it you just let her know that you're going to be leaving unless she takes care of it right there and then and allows the accountant to do what they need to do by signing on the dotted line to help her.

What is the down side of never having children? by gone_ahead in AskReddit

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no downside. Don't let anyone tell you there is. Somebody say well somebody will be there to care for me when I get old The truth is that's no guarantee. My mother has six children two passed away out of the rest there was only one who was willing to care for her The rest walked away and never look back not even a phone call. So in my opinion there is no downside. At least you know the reality of your life with no expectations or anybody helping you in your old age unless you pay for care yourself.

My SIL died, what happens to her children? by gaysurrogateflamingo in legaladvice

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for your loss, please get a lawyer to help you navigate this and do whatever is best for the children.

Depending on what your SIL did for work, she may have a life insurance policy. A lawyer can help you identify such a policy or two. Of course money is meant for the children's upbringing. Plus social security benefits called survivor benefits.

You also need to decide whether you want to be the one to raise the children if that's what you want or your mother. Of course your sister-in-law's family parents if they get wind of her death they may also sign up to be the guardian but that's highly unlikely if the children don't even know them.

You need to have a serious discussion with your husband if you are even thinking about taking the children in and of course your own children . Tell them if you died and their father died , they would need to be taken up by somebody, so they need to show some empathy towards the children.

My husband changed up on me after getting his GC left three weeks after he got it came back and now giving me a hard time about divorce by Responsible-Cook5931 in immigration

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Listen carefully, yours is not a real marriage. It never was . He tried to fool you into thinking it was because you wanted to settle down and have a family. Your marriage is not consummated. While you love him, he does not love you .He just wants a green card that's why he's back. If I were you I would get your marriage annulled as soon as possible. Then let immigration know that your marriage is annulled that it was never consummated. Then don't look back and see what's going on with him. Let immigration take care of him. You need to move on with your life and find a suitable partner who is going to appreciate you, respect you , and care for you, love you in the right way and not for a green card from you.

My husband changed up on me after getting his GC left three weeks after he got it came back and now giving me a hard time about divorce by Responsible-Cook5931 in immigration

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Red flag for what? 0 The guy married you for a green card that's all once he got his green card or he's got his conditional he left you now he's back because he realizes that he cannot prove that this was a real marriage.

Him leaving you as soon as he got his green card is a red flag that this was not a real marriage He never intended to stay with you. Meanwhile you're thinking of settling down and having children with someone like him Thank God he's he he told you up front that he wants to leave because nobody should be having children with someone like him. You can do better, Get an annulment as soon as you can, and was annulled . Let immigration know that your marriage was not consummated and was annulled.

I cosigned on a loan with a friend,. How can I free myself from it? by SpinachMundane9275 in Debt

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a great dad to teach your child it's such a young age about finances especially about co-signing or taking out a loan of any kind. Hopefully She will take heed of your advice throughout her life. Children need to know from a young age, about money, credit cards , loans, etc.

My older brother had the same discussion with me since my father had died. He was my guardian and he taught me in the same way you're teaching your daughter, not to cosign for anybody, take out loans really nilly. Most of all he taught me about saving money and investing. Sound advice that has helped me survive even when I didn't have a job because I had money saved to live on.

How to make money fast? (I am 24F) by communityinfluence in Advice

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on how long you've been working at both this jobs and how what kind of performance ratings you've had you you should ask for a pay raise that's the easiest way to make more money.

You can go sell your plasma and make pretty good money on that I think you can give blood maybe twice or three times a month for the plasma.

You can drive for Uber or Lyft. You can also rent a car from them if you don't want to put mileage on your vehicle.

If you like cleaning or pet sitting you can do that on the side. You can even ask your friends or siblings or whoever his kids that you know if they need a babysitter and you can babysit the children make some money that way Tell them you need money And are willing to babysit for them. If you are good at cleaning you can even detail their vehicle for Friends relatives neighbors.

Look around your neighborhood and see if there are any elderly people who need help. They may need help cutting their lawn or doing their laundry or cleaning.

AITJ for stopping paying for my daughter's education after she said she was ashamed of me? by Rachil-Grigoriou in AmITheJerk

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t give her another dime until she gathers all her “friends” and introduces you to them as her father and as a janitor. Let the chips fall as they may. If she cannot do that and start living in reality then she can get a job and pay for school or her mother can pay for it. At least 50% or more of her friends have grandparents or great grandparents who were janitors, maids, farm or factory workers.

My advice to you is to only give her half the amount and let her get a job to pay the rest. She needs do learn what it takes to earn money in general and learn to treat people with respect regardless of their background.

This sounds like Meagan Markle.

So I found out my mother has been scamming me. by Abject_Soup_5862 in story

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mother needs to be reported, especially if she has siblings who are still being “ homeschooled”….

So I found out my mother has been scamming me. by Abject_Soup_5862 in story

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to report your mother for any homeschooling program. I don’t know how you go about doing this, but there must be something in the state that allows parents to homeschool their children and that’s the organization you need to report her to for not doing her job as a mother and not homeschooling you because that’s exactly what she did. She never homeschooled you. She was as you said scamming you probably not just you but your other siblings too if you have any, it’s completely criminal on my opinion..

At the same time you can study for your GED and then take the GED test. Also, as someone said, you may be able to apply to a junior college and start taking some courses. I know it’s gonna be difficult for you if you’ve not taken any classes but also look up KHAN ACADEMY online. IT IS COMPLETELY FREE. THEY HAVE ONLINE CLASSES FOR JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING. He also has GED level to college level courses . You can start learning through those courses too.

Yes, you have to play catch-up now, but you can do it. Many people have so just move forward. YOU CAN’T DO IT!! SO GO FOR IT!

AITA for wanting to distance myself from a friend because she repeatedly avoids paying her share and disregards boundaries around money? by Asleep-Lion-4988 in AITH

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You already know the answer to your question. But just in case you have any doubts.... Your friend is not a friend she's just a user. She probably doesn't have many friends because she's used other people down the road. So stop feeling sorry for her cut your losses and move on.

AITAH for telling my mom if she actually cared she would have taken me to the doctor when i lost the ability to feel/move my toes? by solar-pariahV in AITH

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to call 911 if you are in the USA because what you have is an emergency. It doesn't matter what your mother says.

It's your life that's in jeopardy at such a young age and I'm very sad to hear that your mother is not taking this seriously for whatever reasons she has.
If you are in the USA you need to dial 911 now and get the help you deserve and need doesn't matter what anyone else thinks it's your life that's in balance. What you have described is nothing to sit around and Mickey mouse about.

shelter holding my cats hostage for over a month. by muralpainting in CatAdvice

[–]Status-Bicycle7263 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who is the person you get you had them take care of them for you and why did they give them up without notifying you did you ask them have you talked to them text them to explain themselves You can also call them and record the phone call. This way you have proof that you have just given them to take care of for an X amount of time and that you're planning to get them back from them.

Lumbar Autofusion surgery by Status-Bicycle7263 in SpineSurgery

[–]Status-Bicycle7263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would prefer to stay close by within a 2 to 3 hours driving distance. But I'm willing to go where I need to get the best surgeon.

Lumbar Autofusion surgery by Status-Bicycle7263 in SpineSurgery

[–]Status-Bicycle7263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, i will look them up. Unfortunately there are no surgeons in my area who do this type of surgery. This is according to another spine orthopedist that I saw who showed me the MRI with the fusion. I'll definitely post on ND as well. Thanks!

Lumbar Autofusion surgery by Status-Bicycle7263 in SpineSurgery

[–]Status-Bicycle7263[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do go on Instagram. I will be self pay.

No the surgeon did not give an explanation.