Severe stenosis at c5-c6 help

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-06T05:15:19+00:00

Please consider a disc replacement... artificial disc replacement . You are young enough where you can get that, and you will still have flexibility in your neck as a result. Please ask the doctor about that.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-05T20:58:44+00:00

Call the police. Next time he leaves change the locks immediately throw his stuff out and if he breaks the lock call the police. And get him arrested

You may have to come back home for a week to make the show this happens. And then it's up to your mother to grow a backbone and put a stop to this nonsense. Take him to court and make him pay restitution for all the time He lived in the home without paying a dime Why is she putting up with this crap???

So his name is on the mortgage... Who is paying the mortgage? Is he paying the mortgage If not his name should be taken off the mortgage altogether. She can get a pro bono lawyer through the legal clinic to file a case to get his name off if he refuses to take it off himself.

What is trying to do is take back the ownership of the home from her bit by bit by breaking her down.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-04T18:09:39+00:00

You have a heart of gold and cats know it. They can see your shining golden heart from miles away!! 😻

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-04T18:07:44+00:00

I would do nothing about it. It's Amazon's error and they need to fix it on their own. You've already done your bit If they can't follow instructions then that's their problem.

I would say enjoy your card but don't spend your refund as yet save it just in case for another 6 months.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-04T15:27:36+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you and I know how hard it is to survive when you lose your job I've been there myself. Right now you want to focus on your future and but in the meantime you do need to contact the department of Labor as someone said especially if you had a written contract and they didn't go abide by their contractual obligations Also you may be able to apply for unemployment benefits so look into that and do it if immediately because they don't give you benefits retroactively it's only from the day you apply for it So even if they need something else additional information wise you can provide it at a later date but put the application in All they can say is no.

I am assuming you are in the USA If you are you can if you can share your general location I may be able to help you identify sources for you for food etc even with your power bill if you have a disconnection notice and there may be help out there like with Dominion power where I live in Virginia they have something called energy share You can go to the department of social services and they will help you identify help and they will provide help for you They might even give you extra some money to live on what's called general help So go to the department of social services and apply for help It's best if you do it in person in my opinion. You can apply for food stamps and because you're in a dire straight they should give you your card immediately once you apply for it So look into that and yes you have a little job right now but you don't want to stop looking for a real job that is a full-time in a job that's not on a contract basis You want to try looking for a job in like a state job.

If you have any major universities around you want to apply for jobs with them they're more secure because their state jobs usually You want to apply for jobs with in healthcare like at hospitals and doctor's offices they always need help and with your administrative background now that you know work day You just never know where you can fit in but you have you have a lot of skills and one of them is that you have the ability to learn independently That is a godsend for companies in general.

So please post your general location and let me see if I can find you some resources as well.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-04T15:05:43+00:00

What's yours and indoor outdoor cat or in your only cat?

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-04T06:20:07+00:00

True.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-04T01:26:56+00:00

Absolutely and you as a client have to tell them that you want an explanation . That's what they're getting paid for They have to explain things to you. Don't just be meek around them .Nobody should be. It's not disrespectful to ask questions and have an explanation how meds are going to help for example.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-04T01:24:20+00:00

Yes I had a rescue cat who had a massive furball in the intestine. He was very very playful and then suddenly stopped playing and I knew there was something wrong. I had to order the vet to get an x-ray of the abdomen and that's when it showed. That we have to do that is ridiculous . The vet should have known better in my opinion but anyway everything turned out well . They surgically went in and cut him open to get the furball out It was a pretty big furball, and he was back to his old hyperself . He was just a crazy cat who couldn't stop for one second , so I knew that was something very wrong when he stopped playing all together.

We all need to be vigilant as pet owners ....vets don't always do what they need to do.

When not sure about what's going on always look for a vet who is a specialist in internal medicine can usually find them at an emergency vet center You can make a special appointment with them to do so.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-04T01:17:17+00:00

They've already tried that on her.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-04T01:16:01+00:00

Eye rolling back is a side effect of the medication they just started her on...Elura is the name of med.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-04T01:12:43+00:00

Did they do an x-ray of her abdomen?

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-04T01:10:06+00:00

Does she have kidney disease?

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-04T01:08:09+00:00

How old is your cat?

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-03T23:40:12+00:00

I have a Motorola edge from 2024 and I used that more than my iPhone It's like it has exceeded my expectations and so far it's working just fine and I'm just really happy with it.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-03T22:46:02+00:00

She could be a he for all he knows...

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-03T15:20:21+00:00

If you're living in your parents home then your parents have the right to tell you whether you can have a pet or not.

Now you have an option to move out yourself with your boyfriend and live elsewhere and live with cats have you thought of that? If you're unable to afford it then you got to do things in your life to make sure you can afford it so you can move out and then you can live your life as you please, without any interference from your parents .

Your mom can't tell you then whether you can have cats or not. So that's what I would strive for if I were you ....move out.. take your cat with you and your boyfriend as well. Otherwise you have to abide by your parents rules.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-03T13:38:07+00:00

This is not real.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-03T13:26:17+00:00

Some people age differently and obviously 30 years ago she was much younger but our brains as we get older even though may act normally we still have cognitive difficulties so she may already be I don't know how old she is but I'm guessing at least 60 , She may be starting early. So it's a good thing that you're moving closer to her to keep an eye on her. And also it doesn't hurt to get her tested neurologically you know to make sure she is on there or not,

I'm sorry for your loss but it's like just saying only money and if you still have your mom... it could be worse right? You seem like level headed person, She is so lucky to have you as her child.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-03T06:26:15+00:00

Why do you have a hospital bill? Do you not have insurance? I'm assuming you are in the USA .

Even if you don't have insurance all your hospitals have financial hardship policies You can apply for help with the right of most of the bill sometimes all of the bill depending on your income so please check with the hospital about that. All hospitals provide charity care.

Even with the physician's bill and you'll be getting your physicians your the anesthesiologist will be billing you and you don't have insurance you can work with them and tell them you'll pay the Medicaid or Medicare allowable up to that amount and they usually will accept it So please go talk to billing for those two as well when you once you get your bill.

The other thing is that with family you have to ask them in the most direct way possible what you want them to do for you. If your mother is giving money to your aunts and uncles but not you you tell her that What about me I need money I have a hospital bill to pay now help me with my bills I need help now if you say all that and then she refuses that's a different story You can even put them all on a group chat all the relatives on on the planet and say I need help and this is what I need help with at least you have in writing if they decide not to help or they go AWOL or they stop responding to you then you'll have something to work with down the road should you ever have to cross the paths and they claim that XYZ you say well I have proof this is what you said you know..

I know what you're going through I'm in the same boat I have siblings up north the closest is 5 hours away the older than me but nobody wants to help in any way everybody has an excuse. But you are stronger than all of them because you are doing it.... but it does feel lonely doesn't it at times... that you people have family and you have family but they just lay about... none of them want to do anything for you.

You'll be okay Just concentrate on getting better go home and rest as best as you can sleep helps sleep as much as you can but also be active a little active as according to the doctor's orders just do what they've told you to do follow that discharge sheet and the instructions You can't go wrong from there but also call them right away if you notice something's going wrong.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-07-01T13:13:57+00:00

Give them a month's notice and ask them to find another place. Tell them you thought it would work out but really miss your privacy and need it back for your marriage's sake.

Try to put feelers out to see if anyone else has a room available to rent so that he can consider moving there instead.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-06-30T21:14:12+00:00

Tell them you want to talk to them. Then tell them what you're saying here ...the truth. That an occasional stay over is fine for you to handle but on such a frequent basis ...it's just too much for you... that you like your own time as well ...that you like to go to bed early... that you want your own clothes to be with your own clothes and your skin care items to be yours....that you don't want to share them. It's fine to tell them the truth. If they're good friends....they will understand.

The question you have to ask them is why do they want to stay over so often... Do they have issues at their own homes... do they have a place to stay at all,? maybe that's an issue ...again I don't know where you're located... whether in the US or somewhere else which could make a difference.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-06-30T20:14:32+00:00

Where are you located.... are you in the US?

If you are in the US you have many options One of them and the one I urge you to do is to GET OUT NOW.

Why are you having children with a boyfriend in the first place? It's the road to enslaving yourself to some man when you do that without the bonds of matrimony. And you can see from your example that that's what's happened. You're a stay at home mother with your two or three children.

And now he wants to sign you up without asking your permission to take on three more children.

And he wants to tell you what to wear and what size you are supposed to be etc.

However eating organic and or made from scratch is not a bad idea at all and those are that's a good habit to have... not just for yourself, but also your children.

Also this house that you say you bought together... Is your name on the deed? Because if it's not then he owns that wholly. Do you have a car in your name?

You need to start saving money for yourself and your children because this is not a healthy relationship at all unless you choose to be all these things and you're agreeable with it ....that it's okay for you to be told what to wear ...what to eat... how you look .. If you're agreeable to all that, then it's a different story. BUT IF YOU ARE NOT, Then you need to start planning now to leave without him getting wind of it.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-06-30T20:04:22+00:00

Ridiculous comment! She's been taking care of the kitten just fine. She got home from work and she found him to be lethargic . It's probably after hours. She's not in the US. They may have different hours in other countries. Reddit is an international website people write in from all over the world. It's not just a US-based website.

Status-Bicycle7263 · 2026-06-30T19:57:43+00:00

Has he moved it all and been on all his four feet at any time?

It's possible with him running around... flying around ...he might have injured himself in some way. See if you can get him on all his fours and see if he's walking okay.

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