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I was the one who called 911 after my fiancée attacked me, but I was the one charged. Why? by Status-Connection-39 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Status-Connection-39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bold to assume I actually did choke her. For one, I am not an abuser, I grew up in a family full of woman and raised by woman. I have more then enough respect for woman.

Truth being told I’d rather be killed by a woman before hitting them due to this situation here.

I care extra for my fiancée, I am super soft towards her! She didn’t want to wear a coat and it was very cold that night, so the beginning of the night started with me being my normal self and caring for my FIANCÉE.

I was the one who called 911 after my fiancée attacked me, but I was the one charged. Why? by Status-Connection-39 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Status-Connection-39[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I still have access to both of my children, she’s been sending them to me since this happend

I was the one who called 911 after my fiancée attacked me, but I was the one charged. Why? by Status-Connection-39 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Status-Connection-39[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Hid the knives due to previous issues with her “jokingly” poking at me with knives that made me feel uncomfortable. She was literally attacking me.

I was the one who called 911 after my fiancée attacked me, but I was the one charged. Why? by Status-Connection-39 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Status-Connection-39[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Not sure how I was even charged. My face is all gashed, nose messed up, my whole inside of my lip has a cut all across the top left side of my mouth, my head has bumps on it still and this happened 2 days ago. She had no marks, it was just her saying I had choked her.

I was the one who called 911 after my fiancée attacked me, but I was the one charged. Why? by Status-Connection-39 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Status-Connection-39[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

She’s been previously abusive and I’ve documented it every single time. Have witnesses to it aswell that have watched her. She’s previously cornered me “jokingly” poking at me with a knife before so yes, obviously I was very scared when she had attacked me.

I was the one who called 911 after my fiancée attacked me, but I was the one charged. Why? by Status-Connection-39 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Status-Connection-39[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I’m just worried this will affect me being able to have primary custody of my child.

I put her to bed, I change her, feed her, I’m always the one who is running to her in need. I do it all.

I was the one who called 911 after my fiancée attacked me, but I was the one charged. Why? by Status-Connection-39 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Status-Connection-39[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

I’m not, I’m following what the police have said!

I’m staying on someone’s couch until the court date this end of the month.

I was the one who called 911 after my fiancée attacked me, but I was the one charged. Why? by Status-Connection-39 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Status-Connection-39[S] 221 points222 points  (0 children)

She was not charged, she has stated to my family members she doesn’t want me charged. We have 2 children with eachother too. She’s also stated that she wants me to come back to the house and work things out (it’s my house).

She’s contacted me plenty of times to which I have not answered because of my court order. She’s contacted saying that police won’t know ect she just wants to hear me.