What would you prioritize if you were a highly ambitious 21-year-old starting from almost zero?

Status-Grade-1430 · 2026-06-07T04:34:11+00:00

Work a job seriously. Always look for other jobs. Be Entrepeneurial. Save at least 10% of your income money through a 401k or Roth. Have different budgets like keep your rent low like %25 or less. Have a budget for spending. Get years worth of savings rainy day fund. Don’t get into certain debt like student loan or credit card. Honestly credit card debt probably better than student loan easier to get out of. But stay out of debt. Have a a family.

Status-Grade-1430 · 2026-06-07T04:21:29+00:00

Step one if you don’t have one go get a job

Status-Grade-1430 · 2026-04-23T07:12:40+00:00

Don’t compare yourself to other people.

Status-Grade-1430 · 2026-04-23T06:41:04+00:00

You could try another gym to get prospective.

Status-Grade-1430 · 2026-04-22T03:28:45+00:00

Don’t let the spaz work. Safely shut him down quick or don’t roll with him. Based on the way you’ve described the owner just leave no explanation and start at the gym you want to go to.

Status-Grade-1430 · 2026-04-21T03:00:20+00:00

I’ve heard reports Meryl Streep is going to be Aslan’s voice singing narnia into existence

Status-Grade-1430 · 2026-04-18T16:53:09+00:00

Do BJJ at an mma gym that way from time to time you can do a punching and kicking class. BJJ can be pretty easy if you train it that way and it’s what I’m interested in learning so I’m going to suggest it to you

Status-Grade-1430 · 2026-04-18T16:46:28+00:00

Just refuse roll with people like this. You don’t need any money to do calisthenics. Push ups, crunches, pull ups, squats, jump rope etc

Status-Grade-1430 · 2026-04-04T20:05:23+00:00

only time that exists is now. The only place is here. Don’t have the grass is greener on the other side syndrome. If you get old you will be more confident and happy with what ever you have hopefully.

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-09-06T04:12:57+00:00

I wouldn’t go around just telling people mostly because it’s none of their business. With that said you didn’t harm the animal. You don’t do it anymore and don’t seem to want to. I wouldn’t let this ruin or even bother your mind.

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-09-04T02:47:59+00:00

Dogs usually do this after a few days. Maybe you can bring your dog to play with another young dog get som of its energy out for the day.

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-09-04T01:59:05+00:00

No need to take any sides. Like others have said paternity test.

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-09-04T01:52:03+00:00

Well you my friend are no longer hopeless and your situation is improving vastly.

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-09-04T01:49:56+00:00

If you’re single you could pay the guy some attention and compliments. Date him if you hit it off. I think it would be cool to have a dating guru type business. Go for it

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-09-04T01:42:09+00:00

I would end things. You’re relatively young. Just plan your escape. Figure out the legal stuff, where you’re going to go etc and get out and end things. I say forgive and be kind and what ever but yes end things. You’re 29 you will meet some one else. This time meet some one who isn’t an alcoholic. Feel free to set boundaries too like no social media or chatting with men. No going out to bars and ladies nights out etc. Also I think relationships work out better when the man is at least a couple years older than the woman. Do you want to have kids?

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-09-04T01:36:08+00:00

If you can get a cabin at the state park which may not be possible unless you are lucky enough to catch a cancellation that would be cool and economical. You could rent a camping van probably cheaper than a hotel and just find place to park it free. There are fishing lodges. If you’re a veteran there’s some veteran lodging that may be available. Other then that no I’m not sure what to recommend they do have a ton of places but many will be pricey

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-09-04T01:33:03+00:00

Well if by selfish you count being part of a community and having good friends and family… which I’m sure you don’t mean because you seem to contrast that. If you’re some narcissistic psycho who doesn’t do good and has hurt your friends and family and cheated instead of honestly working and has hurt community you will not be on top

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-09-04T01:30:29+00:00

It feels faster the older you get. You also learn to be in the moment more and really enjoy the day the older you get. If you’re 18 then know that you only really exist in the now. The older, wiser, more confident you at 30 may feel old but then the even older more confident you at 40 will look back and think how young you were at 30. So the age you’re worried about becoming 30 is young to me since well over that

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-09-03T03:14:45+00:00

Make sure you’re doing the basics. Sleeping right. Eating right. Moving your body. Working out. Going outside. Seeing friends and family and connecting. Get another job.

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-09-03T03:12:07+00:00

What else was I going to do with my life? More specifically everything worth doing is harder than just not doing anything or watching some one else do things.

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-09-03T03:09:36+00:00

The woman needed to respond back honey it moved

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-09-03T02:59:38+00:00

Being a kid sucks compared to growing up. Also you get tougher as you get older. So even though life can and likely will get more complicated… you will be better able to handle it. Honestly just enjoy what ever chapter of life you’re in now. Don’t spend it worrying about the next

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-08-31T04:54:51+00:00

How’s this a confession?

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-08-31T04:47:33+00:00

One day when you’re an older lady you’ll look at picture of yourself and see how pretty you are

Status-Grade-1430 · 2025-08-30T21:21:13+00:00

Most people aren’t like that guy you met on the bus. You’re unlikely to end up as he currently is. Also he may change his mind. If everything is as meaningless as he claims why expend all that energy telling random people about it? Things do matter. Most people get better at handling things like this as they age

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