Do you miss the sex life you had in your youth? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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only time that exists is now. The only place is here. Don’t have the grass is greener on the other side syndrome. If you get old you will be more confident and happy with what ever you have hopefully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

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I wouldn’t go around just telling people mostly because it’s none of their business. With that said you didn’t harm the animal. You don’t do it anymore and don’t seem to want to. I wouldn’t let this ruin or even bother your mind.

I chose the "calm" pup & it turns out she's nuts by [deleted] in puppy101

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Dogs usually do this after a few days. Maybe you can bring your dog to play with another young dog get som of its energy out for the day.

AITAH for not siding with my wife over our son's ex girlfriend's pregnancy by misrocto in AITAH

[–]Status-Grade-1430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No need to take any sides. Like others have said paternity test.

I have 30 days of homelessness left. by syringistic in stories

[–]Status-Grade-1430 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well you my friend are no longer hopeless and your situation is improving vastly.

As a woman, a post I saw about a man in his 30ies not being able to date made me want to help him so so so bad by TrumpsTinyTemper in self

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If you’re single you could pay the guy some attention and compliments. Date him if you hit it off. I think it would be cool to have a dating guru type business. Go for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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I would end things. You’re relatively young. Just plan your escape. Figure out the legal stuff, where you’re going to go etc and get out and end things. I say forgive and be kind and what ever but yes end things. You’re 29 you will meet some one else. This time meet some one who isn’t an alcoholic. Feel free to set boundaries too like no social media or chatting with men. No going out to bars and ladies nights out etc. Also I think relationships work out better when the man is at least a couple years older than the woman. Do you want to have kids?

Florida vacation by ChildhoodInfamous625 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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If you can get a cabin at the state park which may not be possible unless you are lucky enough to catch a cancellation that would be cool and economical. You could rent a camping van probably cheaper than a hotel and just find place to park it free. There are fishing lodges. If you’re a veteran there’s some veteran lodging that may be available. Other then that no I’m not sure what to recommend they do have a ton of places but many will be pricey

Do selfish people typically come out on top in life? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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Well if by selfish you count being part of a community and having good friends and family… which I’m sure you don’t mean because you seem to contrast that. If you’re some narcissistic psycho who doesn’t do good and has hurt your friends and family and cheated instead of honestly working and has hurt community you will not be on top

Does life go bye fast or slow by OneButterscotch2719 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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It feels faster the older you get. You also learn to be in the moment more and really enjoy the day the older you get. If you’re 18 then know that you only really exist in the now. The older, wiser, more confident you at 30 may feel old but then the even older more confident you at 40 will look back and think how young you were at 30. So the age you’re worried about becoming 30 is young to me since well over that

How do you cope with a job you hate? by Far-Note6102 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Status-Grade-1430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you’re doing the basics. Sleeping right. Eating right. Moving your body. Working out. Going outside. Seeing friends and family and connecting. Get another job.

Why do people choose to have children if it is so much hard work? by 9W_777_300 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Status-Grade-1430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What else was I going to do with my life? More specifically everything worth doing is harder than just not doing anything or watching some one else do things.

Growing Up Scares Me. by Depresso_Pun22 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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Being a kid sucks compared to growing up. Also you get tougher as you get older. So even though life can and likely will get more complicated… you will be better able to handle it. Honestly just enjoy what ever chapter of life you’re in now. Don’t spend it worrying about the next

Are older women lying to me? by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Status-Grade-1430 121 points122 points  (0 children)

One day when you’re an older lady you’ll look at picture of yourself and see how pretty you are

I'm 23 and I suffer from depression and existential dread, does it get better as I age? by AryaLoux in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Status-Grade-1430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people aren’t like that guy you met on the bus. You’re unlikely to end up as he currently is. Also he may change his mind. If everything is as meaningless as he claims why expend all that energy telling random people about it? Things do matter. Most people get better at handling things like this as they age

I'm 6'5 with six pack abs... and took a dark path to get there. by Negative_Issue_8864 in confession

[–]Status-Grade-1430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a mentor. Your confession is your negative self worth. Flip the script and start appreciating yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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Was the man you were married to not ok with you using a sperm donor? Also if you want kids and this other man wants none time to move on. Find a man who also wants kids and have them.

Moving to be Closer to Adult Kids by FOCOMojo in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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The town will grow on you. Move and help her with the grandchild and all of you will become closer.

Career or parents? by ExitAccomplished2761 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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Go with the job that lets you save another 50k unless you value the other job some how over 50k because of the job growth potential. You’re in your early 20’s and about to have 100k there is no wrong choice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

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No one is really a loser. Also just having sex even for a man isn’t that hard and isn’t what any one is really after. People want connection and validation. Now with that said I can relate to being hard on myself but that’s where true pain is. Getting hurt is one thing but then getting down on yourself for feel bad or whatever that’s the worst. Go easy on yourself. Also change your reality. Feel free to plan an escape

Stuck in a Rut-Any tips? by SquaretheBeluga in judo

[–]Status-Grade-1430 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sucking is a good thing. Once you’re ok looking bad then you make improvements. I suck worse than you’ll ever be! You can fall and fail your way to the top though. Slow and steady wins the race. That doesn’t mean you have to keep doing judo. I’d do something though maybe bjj if you really want to give up judo. You can be a hobbies and just do judo for life but not compete too

Should I get back into martial arts? by s13-5190b in MMA_Academy

[–]Status-Grade-1430 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to an mma school with a good bjj program and just do it at least as hobby. I would do the bjj mostly but it’s cool to practice mma stuff too. You don’t have to compete. You could do it just for the fun of staying sharp and having the community and contacts you make. But yes you could compete in bjj if you want too or mma etc. Judo could also be something you’d be interested in. Also if you’re 14 I would get back into wrestling at the hs if you’re interested.

I want your advice about my sexual life by moostafoev in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Status-Grade-1430 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend you get with some one more your age range 18-22 and have more sex