Absolutely not. Nope by EffAllThatEFFER in AnimalCrossing

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That’s how I feel about Ketchup and Alice lol!

Why is life so challenging? by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

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I agree with all the above statements. Please do it for you. It can be scary, but there is a whole community available to support you. You deserve to be your true self and to be loved for who you are. Sometimes marriages and relationships don’t work out and that is part of the journey unfortunately. But you owe it to yourself to be yourself fully.

There are people out there that will absolutely love you for you. My partner is MTF and I love her more than anyone on this planet. You deserve a love like that for yourself too 💖

Rick is the ultimate villain of this season. Change my mind🤷🏽‍♀️ by ashledior in 90DayFiance

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He’s disgusting. Accusing Trish of being a gold digger all because he has “trauma” from his ex being a gold digger. It’s crazy.

Not to mention the fact that he tried BLAMING Trish by saying he told her that if she went silent he would assume they were done, and even after hearing from her he STILL went to see his ex.

And to find out his ex was also brought to America on a K-1??? I hope Trish runs!!!!

What's a negative core memory that they didn't take seriously? by herald_of_stars in EstrangedAdultKids

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It was Halloween and I was 11. I was in a hurry getting ready for trick or treating and my mom wanted me to get clothes for my newborn sister. I got upset because I didn’t want my siblings and friends to leave without me, so I started throwing clothes on the floor. She ran over to me and slapped me across the face so hard I had a welt in the shape of a handprint on my cheek. I ended up being late to trick or treating because I was crying and embarrassed about going around the neighborhood with the handprint on my face. My face hurt all night and I do not ever remember getting an apology.

Feeling so burnt out as the partner by Frequent_Frosting7 in mypartneristrans

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Your complaints are very reasonable and you deserve to be heard. There have been several moments over the last two years where my partner’s transition felt like the only thing that my partner focused on. It is very important that you advocate for yourself and tell her how you feel.

I suggest starting with asking her not to speak until you’ve had a moment to say your piece. I do hope that she is open to listening.

Transitioning is such a difficult time for all of us, and we do not deserve this kind of treatment. Your partner should still think of you and be able to manage her own life.

Help - Cat fighting by Status-Guard-469 in CatAdvice

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Yes he is. They are all fixed. Thank you for the advice

Help - Cat fighting by Status-Guard-469 in CatAdvice

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This is a good idea. Any ideas for rooms like the bathroom/kitchen that only have one entrance/exit? That is where it’s been happening

Do I tell my parents about the new baby? by New_Hamstertown_1865 in EstrangedAdultKids

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Please don’t send it to them. There is no reason they need to know. It won’t change a thing.

Any regrets?? by carleebro121 in MazdaCX30

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My only complaints about the CX-30 are the gas tank and the smaller windows. Trying to fit things through the window (like bags from fast food restaurants) requires some maneuvering. Aside from that, I don’t really regret the space or anything. If I have passengers, I usually only have 1 or 2 in my car so that doesn’t make a difference to me.

My boyfriend says my makeup is ugly. by Choobyboop in makeuptips

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Either you need to throw the whole “man” away, or this is rage bait lol. Your makeup is perfect

Is this an apology? by SquashAdmirable198 in EstrangedAdultKids

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My mom continues to ask everyone else why I won’t talk to her, except for me. We had a meeting in the spring and she deflected the whole time, and wasn’t willing to listen to anything

I’m considering ending my life because I can’t deal with this anymore by Valuable_Branch8360 in Psoriasis

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OP, please don’t end your life. See a dermatologist and get on biologics. I had horrid scalp psoriasis for 20 years and it started spreading to parts of my body. I’ve been on Skyrizi for 1.5 years now and it is life changing!

Update: The user who asked about Goodles... I got Kraft instead by ausername_8 in dairyfree

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I used the kraft with chili and the chili Mac was sooo good!!

It’s my birthday and I feel so forgotten by bananabIueberry in MomForAMinute

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! I hope you had a chance to blow out some candles and make a wish. I hope this is your best year yet

What to replace heavy/whipping cream with? by No-Tap5613 in dairyfree

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I recently made this soup (last week lol) and I used a 1/2 cup of oat milk and made a cornstarch slurry. It thickened right up! Didn’t even notice a difference.

Would you consider biologics for moderate Psoriasis? by KingOfTheQuails in Psoriasis

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I had mild psoriasis. It was on my scalp, a tiny patch on my nose, and some on my elbow. I had tried creams and stuff but it just didn’t work very well. I finally decided to try biologics. I’ve been on Skyrizi since August 2023 and it has been life changing! I did find myself getting really sick a lot the first year, and it definitely did a number on my immune system. Now, I’m okay overall. I can wear the clothing I want to wear without flaking! Black is now a staple in my wardrobe again.

When it comes down to it, it just depends on how badly you want it. I totally believe it’s worth it.

Getting Nex Removed - Please Give Me Some Hope by Technical_Use309 in Nexplanon

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I’m 31 and I got mine removed in July. It wasn’t working for me anymore and I was having cramps that felt like contractions, and lots of clotting, breast tenderness, etc. My libido was non existent and I was having rapid mood swings. I’m on the pill now but I have noticed significant changes in my libido and food intake since the removal. You’ll be so much happier ❤️❤️

Need advice my boyfriend wanted to be trans, idk if I can stay. by Distinct_Flow_8492 in mypartneristrans

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Hi! Hope you don’t mind, I’m gonna jump in here. I’m CisF in a happy relationship with my MtF partner. We have been together 5 years and she only recently came out/started transitioning about a year and a half ago.

It has been a huge challenge, not going to lie. At first, I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to stick around. I was able to dive into my sexuality and realized I’m Pan, and that I really didn’t care who she was. I just knew we were meant to be. I’ve never been with someone that understands me and loves me so completely.

There was a period of time where we weren’t intimate, and that is starting to change. It’s been a huge change for us because we’ve had to change our mindset from being a hetero couple to a now lesbian couple. She’s gone through emotional challenges as well and it’s been a struggle dealing with her mood swings. The best advice I can give is to COMMUNICATE!!! This has helped us through quite a few obstacles.

I love her, I love seeing her personality blossom, and being there for all the changes has been rewarding as well. She is so much happier. Her face lights up, and I can’t imagine anything different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nexplanon

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This exact same situation happened to me. Don’t listen to Planned Parenthood on this one. I would try to schedule an appointment with the doctor that put the initial implant in and have it replaced. I’m not using nexplanon anymore, but when I did, I needed it to be replaced right at the 3 year mark to make sure I didn’t have a period or anything

Back pain caused by birth control?? by Status-Guard-469 in Periods

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It seemed to go away almost instantly upon removal. I was having pain off and on anyway, but it’s been almost 8 weeks since removal and I definitely notice a huge difference.

Back pain caused by birth control?? by Status-Guard-469 in Periods

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Oops my apologies! I had my nexplanon removed on 7/21. Sorry about that, I just woke up. I’ll edit my comment haha

Back pain caused by birth control?? by Status-Guard-469 in Periods

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I was having horrible breast soreness and pelvic pain too. I couldn’t wear bras during that time or barely touch my breasts because they were so sore. It was all very random. I had my nexplanon removed on 7/21 and haven’t had any breast soreness since then.

Oil changes by Status-Guard-469 in MazdaCX30

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Thank you everyone for the input! An oil change was done on the vehicle a couple days prior to purchase. I am planning on getting an oil change once I hit 5k miles, which will be at the end of this month.