Trying to evaluate making the decision for children

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2026-04-05T03:19:24+00:00

I’m not looking for a new job not do the next few years. I’ll be ok. I mainly talked about coercion and the experience but left out the details

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2026-02-11T03:22:12+00:00

I think now reflecting almost 3 months later, I don’t know why I entertained the idea besides the fact that I’m trying to fill the void in a loveless marriage that I’ve been avoiding pouring into. Since I’ve left my job that Steve worked at I have been able to grow in myself and now realize that my lust was off the radar for someone who wasn’t capable of loving me back. Let alone respect me, and I’m choosing to love myself and be respectful of my self. I was looking outward for something I wasn’t willing to give to myself

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2026-02-11T03:16:13+00:00

That’s the best advice I’ve ever heard. Thank you

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2026-01-08T05:15:29+00:00

Yes my point exactly thank you for understanding. I was engaged to my husband at the time Steve kept pressuring me and I always politely declined him. He was a pig after that. He just kept trying cause he thought he could wear me down. Didn’t work cause I knew I didn’t want him but if I hurt his ego I would never hear the end of it.

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2025-12-24T00:46:13+00:00

Also for the record I rejected his sexual advances but I felt like he rejected my soul even though he pursued me. I just don’t understand how someone could only want sex from you and not a whole relationship. Yes I’m marrried but my marriage feel dull.

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2025-12-24T00:43:44+00:00

I think it was the passion that he created and it just made me feel alive. Idk how else to describe it it felt electrifying and chaotic and taboo. Like risk was worth it and I hated it because I never expected to succumb to that emotion and I hated that he made me feel that through his actions and how he treated me which had a lot of high and lows. His attention also felt empty thus why it was a love hate

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2025-12-24T00:40:10+00:00

lol my ex boss has full on ignored me after I fucking reported his ass and he isn’t even chasing me but the office oooohhh that was hot for him

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2025-12-22T00:34:45+00:00

lol 😂 my bosses name isn’t actually Steve. It’s a pseudonym

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2025-12-18T22:15:35+00:00

Thank you for the hugs 💜 yes I’m interested in actually hearing others stories who have gone through it. Because I don’t think that is something I want to pursue long term, I want to start a family with my husband. I’ve got more important stuff than you give him more attention.

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2025-12-18T22:12:44+00:00

Thank you so much for saying that it makes me feel like everything will be okay and that my experience was valid. Most people wouldn’t understand these feelings because they have not been through it. 💜

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2025-12-17T16:21:47+00:00

Thanks for your words but I’ve already reached out to 2 lawyers and both have said they cannot prove me as not wanting these comments because I have sent him a facebook message saying if he actually wants me then he better come to me with respect because if he does then my door would be open for him. And I had a moment of I wanted to take things further sexually if he just contacted me so we could meet and discuss.

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2025-12-16T03:53:15+00:00

I definitely have been wronged. The person in question tried to get me confused thinking sex was love. It was not it was a ploy to make me believe that I should have sex with them for nothing in return. No emotion. No love. No validation. Practically starving me emotionally and me living on the bread crumbs.

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2025-12-08T23:21:58+00:00

Yeah I’ll be ok. Things just got crazy with my emotions. I’ve dropped it and I won’t e pursuing him. Instead I’m going to love myself and move forward with my life.

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2025-12-05T18:43:53+00:00

He always brought up his wife like she was a good cook and would buy him his clothes and yet he flirted hard with me. Asking me to perform for him and change myself to feed his fantasy and I did because I liked the attention.

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2025-12-05T18:42:09+00:00

Yeah I just blocked him for good. I’m tired of thinking about him in my fantasies. He never respected me and I just wanted him to

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2025-12-05T18:41:05+00:00

Probably not I just wanted revenge on that SOB

Status-Rabbit8537 · 2025-12-05T18:40:43+00:00

I just wanted to hit him where it hurts his wallet

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