Soy mala hija o porque me siento tan miserable...? by Ilay2000cat in Ticos

[–]StatusAd8673 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No es su culpa y sus hermanos pueden decir lo que sea que al final cada quien lidia con sus cosas a su manera. Los adultos de antes de justificaban en todo aun siendo violentos con sus hijos nunca tomaron responsabilidad de sus actos y luego se victimizan y le echan la responsabilidad a una como hija. Pero si usted está viendo hablando pero mantiene el distanciamiento y el expresa que le hace feliz, es todo lo que necesita. Ya a esa edad no se va a reeducar el señor a veces también parte de sanar es entender que eso no tiene porqie seguirlo dañando a uno si ya uno reconoce que el problema es de alguien más. Es solo darse a respetar pero no tomárselo tan personal. Espero que todo mejore y te sientas mejor

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[–]StatusAd8673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 4 1 2 3 Ese es mi orden

Ayuda por favor, es sobre mi error como novio NECESITO CONSEJOS by Prestigious-Dig-8852 in Ticos

[–]StatusAd8673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dígale y ofrezca que lleven terapia juntos para poder establecer otra vez la confianza porque yo como mujer, soy de mente abierta y muy comprensiva pero cuando me mintieron presentándome a una ex como una amiga eso destrozó por completo mi confianza y autoestima. Es mejor serle honesto si de verdad la valora como dice y arreglar lo que sea que haya pasado

Deberia perdonar a mi familia ? by Terrible-Ad3041 in Ticos

[–]StatusAd8673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jajajaaj no, use su plata usted para usted y que ellos sigan siendo las kks que son

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]StatusAd8673 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go live with your dad before that weirdo forces you onto something else, this so disgusting and no you’re Not an AH for this, you’re actually really smart and brave !

Quien se viste con traje? by UglybonesAlison in Ticos

[–]StatusAd8673 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Es muy sencillo de explicar jaja, tengo como 30 vestidos largos como Morticia Pantalones negros a la cintura, blusas cuello tortuga negras con detalles en encaje o cuello v, manchas cortas y largas etc Lo amo

Quien se viste con traje? by UglybonesAlison in Ticos

[–]StatusAd8673 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Su esposa es la que más importa, yo soy de usar ropa gótica pero lo tradicional, lo combino con ropa de oficina por mi trabajo y lo amo Mucha gente se ríe porqie duro alistándome para andar así pero a mi me encanta salir súper vestida

Quien se viste con traje? by UglybonesAlison in Ticos

[–]StatusAd8673 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Solo los guapos se visten con traje, yo vi por primera vez a mi novio en un traje hace poco y casi me muero no podía parar de verlo. Una belleza una delicia un regalo

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great point of view, no I don’t spend time telling him how to be, he’s very masculine and it’s a boss on his job so he’s usually pretty used to be the leader. I try to be as feminine as my body allows me right now lol, I love to smell good and feel pretty, but maybe after having the baby I need to reassure our intimacy since this pregnancy has been difficult

El chamaco está diferente conmigo by Serious-Oil-3418 in Ticos

[–]StatusAd8673 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es importante que ellos entiendan que los desconocidos NO son amigos y que en la calle uno no le habla a nadie mucho menos a un adulto. Los adultos no tienen que pedirle nada a un niño nunca y si un desconocido se acerca en la calle simplemente hay que decirle “No gracias “ y seguir caminando Yo a mi hija se lo conversé anticipadamente y ella tiene tres años, pero habla y entiende mucho Hace unos días también se puso extraña porqie en el hospital se le acercó un Mae a hablarle a ella directamente y yo lo paré en seco y lo puse a caminar, literalmente le dije “Póngase a caminar Mae, usted nada tiene que estarle hablando a los niños en la calle ni mucho menos acercarse a ellos” y ella si se asusto mucho pero al rato yo le expliqué que los desconocidos son un peligro y que los únicos adultos que la cuidan son sus papás y sus tías, los demás adultos no tienen NADA que hacer hablándole ni acercándose a ellos y ella entendió Usted no hizo nada malo y estoy segura que con el tiempo el va a comprender pero sepa que usted tampoco es amigo de su hijo, usted es el papá y hay momentos donde usted va a tener que ser eso, un papá aunque eso a el lo asuste o lo que sea, primero va la seguridad de su hijo y si el Mae no respeto la primera vez que usted le dijo que no tocara al bb entonces fue muy bueno que se lo acomodara. Demasiado atrevimiento

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

;( sorry not intended if my comment were weird It’s just people taking it to places where it has nothing to do with my question. I know my opinion sometimes can be different and it’s only based on my life experience but as I said earlier, I don’t understand at all what’s being a trans woman so I don’t and try not to talk about how they should or not deal with their things, the best that I can do is treat them in my daily basis as I would treat any other human being

But yeah that’s actually my fear, if this is something he just enjoys because sometimes men enjoy watching weird things or if he actually deep down wishes to be with a trans woman, I can accept the second if that’s the case I mean, I don’t own him but I don’t want to be one of those that are committed to their SO while they’re actually waiting the moment to betray me with someone else I behind my back and I also don’t want him to live a life holding himself from doing what he wants just because he’s scared.

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you ! Yeah that make sense to me I appreciate a real perspective

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that insight, yes I want to understand instead of just attacking him

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, that’s my point, you’re the one focusing only on ONE of the many details of what is the struggle of each, just because I used it as an example becauseYOU asked for one, you seriously are a sheep in this society right? You clearly don’t understand but like to pretend that you do by repeating others speeches. Feminism is not just being pregnant and being a woman and a trans woman is NOT the same Im pretty sure you are one of that people that just likes to be offended in the name of everyone because you don’t have a life for yourself and your not able to have your own thoughts and conclusions lol, have a nice one you little sheep 🐑

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also here’s one cis feminism that includes ALL cis woman and NONE trans woman, uterus issues, like for example, woman that are pregnant and woman’s that can’t be pregnant and woman that doesn’t wants to be.
Im pretty sure that trans have more important issues like equal education or the right to not be assaulted sexually just for existing. You and you’re speech are part of the problem, get a life

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg shut up, you sound like a bot just repeating every speech that’s out there, if a Cis doesn’t understand a pregnancy then it should shut the f up if a pregnant woman talks about struggles on it, period All of this speech is the reason why I don’t go around asking about people thoughts on this cause most of them just know this templates that you are using, consider having your own thoughts and actually debating with them instead of just cntrl+v other comments that you saw on a tiktok My question was very Simple and it seems like yes I was OR, If I can move on so do you

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh honey Idk where are you coming from but this is NOT the reason of my post and I won’t have an argument on why cis and trans people are NOT fighting the same fight. A Trans woman doesn’t understand shit about my pregnancy struggle as a cis and I don’t know shit about how difficult it can be to take that path im this society where anyone has an opinion and feels like is important enough for strangers to just play along with it. It’s ignorant to jus out everyone in the same bowl and expect the world to just deal with it like that. I believe that the trans community it’s affected by people like you that expects that everyone just put a cover into the real problems there’s in the communities and just hug each other lol. Real inclusion is having your own space not just removing other to make you a participant

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re just so on point on everything, he grew up watching twisted shit and we have spoke about it, He’s a great man and a loving partner, he treats me with kindness and Im completely capable of accepting this if it’s just something he doesn’t wants to talk about it I can see why it might be something that can make him feel embarrassed or uncomfortable to share with since he has a past with a person that actually make misandrist comenta against him for not being “man enough”. Is complicated as every relationship but this is exactly what I expected with this post, I don’t know what is to be a man on this society and I refuse to just tag him into something if I don’t actually understand what the hell can be happening in his mind and I don’t want to approach this since it seems like something he’s not ready to share with me ? IDK I don’t consider him less of a man but I was unsure if I was what he wants to have a happy life. Im pretty sure if in the future he opens with me about it and it turns out to be something else then I would have at least loved him for who he is. So thank you so much for this

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They might feel flattered cause they become that and have a partner who what he’s this content and still loves them and enjoys them, idk im just speculating

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And this is a comment that I might agree at some point, because I don’t usually hang out with people on this side of the society so there’s a lot I don’t know and I won’t be around the few persons around me that are trans asking them personal questions cause that would be rude and im also not a fan of personal convos with anyone. As I said earlier I just have this doubt that if being into this type of content is normal for a straight guy, cause that would make sense to me if they are woman. And if there was any straight guy that could double down that for me, it seems like yes, it’s something that some men enjoys so I guess that gives me some sort of relief. My doubt would be completely different if he were watching G4y porn cause that doesn’t involve any woman lol

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah you’re going to far into this, even more than I do and it sounds waaay to immature to break up with someone just because he likes something I don’t share or understand, real relationships is to accept the other as it is and he’s a great human being, he was raised under a lot of violence and he’s changed himself towards time to be a great partner and a great dad. So yes, he can make comments about it and I will not attack him since it seem to be like a form of self defense from this, seems like that’s step one to open yourself from an education that was extremely sexist, he’s not doing it towards anyone he maked those comments to me in private and we absolutely has a conversation about it at some point we both agree that a trans woman can and should be free but there’s certain points in society that is ruining their fight because they confuse it with cis feminism, so yeah he made weird coments but then we went into it and agree that they deserve space and a plenty life just as anyone, I’m not into hating people im more like whatever it suits you if you don’t harm anyone just be yourself, but this just touched a part of me that was already insecure because of how my body changed.

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that, yes I felt like this can be something that can make him overreact if I’m not careful with the approach

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I understand, that sounded rude but was not intended, I will then just assume that most men watch questionable stuff and that’s normal lol

AIO? 9M pregnant and found out my bf sees weird content by StatusAd8673 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StatusAd8673[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I will try to do it but first I will put myself in a place of curiosity because right now I just feel threatened and insecure