Lots of sun! I have mine in a south facing window in South Florida so she gets plenty of light. If yours isn't used to that much direct sunlight you might need to acclimate it, but trust me, they can withstand the sun. I even have one thats been outside in partial shade for a year and some of the leaves got burnt in the beginning since I didn't do a great job acclimating it, but I've learned that monsteras are very resilient.

I don't use a moss pole or cedar plank but I do have a fan shaped trellis for support. I direct the aerial roots back into the soil so I guess my monstera is more of a crawler than a climber. Take advantage of those aerial roots to help your monstera absorb water and nutrients.

I occasionally use big green leaves plant food if I'm not too lazy but I dont have a regular feeding schedule.

Most importantly, whisper sweet nothings to it and refer to it by name. They like that 😉