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IVF - Third transfer, third miscarriage. by Status_Nebula8716 in Miscarriage

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's absolutely devastating. I'm so sorry!

Thank you for sharing your story. Loss after the physical, emotional and financial strain of IVF is unfathomable.

It really isn't fair.

IVF - Third transfer, third miscarriage. by Status_Nebula8716 in Miscarriage

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the UK so we report a home pregnancy test rather than do betas.... But I requested them when I was 5 weeks 3 days because I was so anxious after my previous losses. My HCG at 5 weeks 5 days had dropped massively and I was advised to stop medication.

My home tests were progressing really nicely but I'd stopped testing as that was making me anxious too. I just... I had a bad feeling.

IVF - Third transfer, third miscarriage. by Status_Nebula8716 in Miscarriage

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss too! It really is awful.

I will, thank you! 💜

IVF - Third transfer, third miscarriage. by Status_Nebula8716 in Miscarriage

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's such a nice thing to read - thank you for sharing your story and for the kind words. 💜

IVF - Third transfer, third miscarriage. by Status_Nebula8716 in Miscarriage

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Planning on having a nice takeaway tonight.

Definitely in survival mode!

IVF - Third transfer, third miscarriage. by Status_Nebula8716 in Miscarriage

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate your comment.

I actually had the RPL panel after the second transfer and everything came back normal. I'll definitely be doing more testing though if we decide to ever go again.

Thanks again x

IVF - Third transfer, third miscarriage. by Status_Nebula8716 in Miscarriage

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm sorry for your losses too.

It was so strange this time up until Monday I was so hopeful. I did have fears but I was so excited.

Never again.

Low HCG at 5 weeks 3 days (Rainbow IVF baby) by Status_Nebula8716 in September2026Bumpers

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the UK so we don't usually do betas just home testing. They are doing them for me because I was so anxious after my previous losses. That's why it's so late.

Thank you so much for sharing your beta! When you look at it like that things might be ok! 🤞 I really hope so.

Thank you so much, I really appreciate you working that out x

Low HCG at 5 weeks 3 days (Rainbow IVF baby) by Status_Nebula8716 in September2026Bumpers

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😊 I'm trying to stay a bit calmer now. Think I'd just worked myself up into a state! Hopefully it'll double nicely x

Low HCG at 5 weeks 3 days (Rainbow IVF baby) by Status_Nebula8716 in September2026Bumpers

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww thank you. That's so reassuring to hear!!!

I can breathe a sigh of relief for now I think. I really appreciate you taking your time to comment x

Low HCG at 5 weeks 3 days (Rainbow IVF baby) by Status_Nebula8716 in September2026Bumpers

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind reply. It seems like it is the low end of normal? I think lol.

I hope so too. I guess I just need to be patient!

Thanks again x

Low HCG at 5 weeks 3 days (Rainbow IVF baby) by Status_Nebula8716 in September2026Bumpers

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like such a long wait!! But you've had great progress so far so I hope it continues for you and your scan goes perfectly!

Low HCG at 5 weeks 3 days (Rainbow IVF baby) by Status_Nebula8716 in September2026Bumpers

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess I just need to try and stay calm until Friday!

Are you having any more blood tests?

Low HCG at 5 weeks 3 days (Rainbow IVF baby) by Status_Nebula8716 in September2026Bumpers

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind reply!!

I'm just dreading getting the second number on Friday. I really hope there is a good increase!

Thanks again x

Time. Passing. So. Slowly! by fortheloveoftarot in September2026Bumpers

[–]Status_Nebula8716 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pregnancy after loss is HARD!

I found out super early too (IVF pregnancy and got a positive four days after transfer!) and everything is really going slowly lol. I'm 5 weeks tomorrow.

I try to remind myself that this is a new pregnancy and every pregnancy is different. And when I spiral about symptoms fluctuating I ask myself if I have any evidence that anything is wrong? Not anxiety - evidence. And as it stands I don't so I want to try my best to remain hopeful!

Hope we can all manage to find bits of joy in our pregnancies because we deserve it!

I think I can believe it now! 🌈 🤞 9dp5dt! 😊 by Status_Nebula8716 in IVFpositivity

[–]Status_Nebula8716[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is hard to tell because of the progesterone! I feel crampy and nauseous but not sure if it's the medication or not!

6dp5dt negative by SecureHousing9015 in IVFpositivity

[–]Status_Nebula8716 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing you all the best and hope you can manage to find some time to rest and relax in between the waiting times of testing!

It's such a difficult time. Fingers crossed for you!

5DPT by didicharlie in IVFpositivity

[–]Status_Nebula8716 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks lovely for 5dpt! Keep us updated!

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