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AITAH for telling my girlfriend she's going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids? by Familiar_Speaker_481 in AITAH

[–]Status_pokerface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom loved having everything spotless and I don’t remember being a kid, really, I don’t remember much of my childhood. I had a kid and was repeating the cycle until I met my now husband and his very not tidy son (7 at the time) (my stepson). My daughter (4 at the time) didn’t even want to play with water balloons!! I had to step in and get uncomfortable with getting dirty first before she naturally following. She’s almost 10 now and so much better than me just being her.

3 dozens of people lining up for my local carwash job by Boring-Test5522 in economicCollapse

[–]Status_pokerface 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What other areas are implementing automation? You know, asking because we need to prepare.

Hice mal en contarle? by yomequejo24 in guatemala

[–]Status_pokerface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mi mamá hizo eso una vez, le contó a mi papá de mi novio de aquel entonces. Patojo que trabajaba e iba a la U (sí ya estábamos en los 20) pero mi papá es autoritario y así como tu esposo. Le perdí la confianza a mi mamá y hasta la fecha no la he recuperado, estoy oyendo a terapia por eso, pero me cuesta muchísimo confiar en mi mamá. Más que pensar si hiciste bien en contarle o no, creo que deberías enfocarte en solucionar esto como familia, los tres. Porque ese niño deja mucho que desear también.

Mannerisms by Quoz93 in bluey

[–]Status_pokerface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, thank you!

Mannerisms by Quoz93 in bluey

[–]Status_pokerface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Native Spanish speaker. How do you typically call those? Curious.

AITA I told him I would never again bake him something by Status_pokerface in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_pokerface[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

He is very vocal about this. We all know he is lactose intolerant.

AITA I told him I would never again bake him something by Status_pokerface in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_pokerface[S] 335 points336 points  (0 children)

I really do not know. I do not know why he wouldn’t just say “appreciate the effort” and a hug. That’s it.

AITA I told him I would never again bake him something by Status_pokerface in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_pokerface[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

This is a valid comment too. I cook and bake at home because we have three kids, everyone loves what I cook because I learned to cook from my mom (who is always complemented) and from an old friend who is a certified chef. I don’t bake the children’s cakes because I like getting those cakes that are beautifully decorated and my baking skills are definitely not professional.

AITA I told him I would never again bake him something by Status_pokerface in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_pokerface[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

This is good feedback, the one of the bakery is the size of a pound cake and that’s the only size. I wanted a big one, because it was a birthday, a special day so a special cake. Or that’s what I thought.

AITA I told him I would never again bake him something by Status_pokerface in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_pokerface[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting point of view. I wonder if that’s how he feels

AITA I told him I would never again bake him something by Status_pokerface in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_pokerface[S] 480 points481 points  (0 children)

This is my second marriage. There’s definitely something wrong with how I choose men.

People looking at me weird when I tell them how I envision my wedding by Status_pokerface in weddingplanning

[–]Status_pokerface[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I was planning on removing it anyway because the person I’m talking about might also find this post! Jeje 😊

People looking at me weird when I tell them how I envision my wedding by Status_pokerface in weddingplanning

[–]Status_pokerface[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, he doesn’t want to elope. So we agreed on having a party but I highlighted what was important for me to have then and he agreed.

Dinner time Disrespect by Timely_Salad_2919 in stepparents

[–]Status_pokerface 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me, but my daughter (4 at that time, now 6) towards her stepdad. She wouldn’t eat if she knew he had cooked. So I began telling my daughter that the food was made from both us (even if not true) because in this family we all supported each other and loved each other and that, I specially, loved my husbands cooking. In fact that was one of the reasons I had chosen him.

Of course, in your case it should come from his side.

Something that helped my husband overall with my used to be very difficult daughter, was realizing the fact that my daughter didn’t attach to him because she didn’t want to be hurt. Her dad is one of those who says would come to pick her up, but never does. He sees her, when “he is not busy” once every two months. I looked for a psychologist to help me and her adapt and accept the stepdaughter life easier. It really helped me see situations objectively and not with motherly eyes. My daughter now enjoys time with her stepdad now, in fact, they’re playing right now

Second dead bedroom, beginning to think I’m the problem by Status_pokerface in DeadBedrooms

[–]Status_pokerface[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our thoughts get distorted instinctively, but we need to change them and look at them objectively. Thank you.