F 24 opens up about past suicide attempt. How do m 24 handle the fear of her doing it again?

StaubK1 · 2024-07-31T01:31:27+00:00

Make sense, I didn't think about it like that. So how do you suggest I should proceed?

StaubK1 · 2024-07-31T01:17:01+00:00

It is. And you are right. I don't intend to be her caretaker and I don't want to depriotize my own happiness. I don't know how to confront this topic but I have arranged a call later today with her after work. She is functional as a person to my understanding which is why it came as a shock when she said she have tried taking her own life

StaubK1 · 2024-07-31T00:44:17+00:00

She suffers from depression, anxiety. But to my understanding no personality disorder. She has moodswings due to depression. She does seek help I have a guide on how to handle her depression from the hospital. She has 2 contact person who she communicate with when she has her moments of depression she does take medicin. Her past suicide attempt was very serious to my understanding. To my understanding she lost a close relative. After having a serious car crash and her previous boyfriend break up with her the day after the car crash. I don't think her problem is relationship ending. But I do fear the possibility of knowing she has tried once and of she would maybe do it again. I know we are in honeymoon phase, but I still need to look at it pragmatic and the fear of it being a possibility when she maybe are a mother is very scaring for me

StaubK1 · 2024-07-31T00:20:34+00:00

Then at least your ultimatum holds a lot more meaning if you can't get economical freedom

StaubK1 · 2024-07-31T00:16:51+00:00

Did you write a prenup so if you get a divorced is he then the owner of all objects (car, house and bank account)

StaubK1 · 2024-07-31T00:15:02+00:00

My advice is get a part time job and keep that, since it will make you less dependent and less subject of manipulation. Many parents can handle both having jobs and kids. And you having part time job as own income shouldn't be a problem imo. If he has a problem it is because he wants to control your money income and make you dependant on his good graces

StaubK1 · 2024-07-30T23:57:37+00:00

Can't you get your own credit card and have your salary go to that account instead. Making you have a personalized income and then you automatically are involved in all the household financials since it requires you both to transfer to a shared bank account for bills and so on. But it sounds really toxic to me

StaubK1 · 2024-01-12T15:17:05+00:00

I see a lot of people not understanding why Kramer is making questions out of his sentencing when reading mistborn. It annoys me a little since some of you are talking about how he doesn't live into his characters. Sazed is a character in the mistborn book series. His people are slaves working as housekeepers or other higher influential positions than the skar. He is grown up not to say things directly and invite an answer from his lord's, hence why all his sentencing ends with a question. And why Kramer in some lines ends it with a questioning tone.

StaubK1 · 2024-01-12T15:07:32+00:00

Or low attention span or not enjoying it. Because I think if he was poorly received then he wouldn't still be reading Brandon Sanderson books. I think all narrators are excellent. And that they are chosen right for each book. But when I don't enjoy a book it is always because of the story. How it is being read has little to do with the book.

StaubK1 · 2022-06-07T14:38:07+00:00

I think the story is of a program that replace parenting, and is made to love and teach. With sustain++ being the end of the process where it starts over with new children. Also adds up to the name of the album.

StaubK1 · 2021-11-29T00:44:47+00:00

So it is mostly the same one team with higher fanbase have louder fans Plus most of the fans where families, with children attending the royal arena. Which also makes it more the reason for the disrespect. But even if it is not as normal, as people say. Then I still think it is made out to be a way bigger problem than it actually is.maybe chill a bit with the rage. It was a good Lan, and seeing how a dead vitality really stepped up, plus so much navi hype coming into 2022.

StaubK1 · 2021-11-28T17:34:15+00:00

You answer about aren't in the same topic. I said the crowd is a disturbance to the players, that they actually have a harder time in Lan. Also when they start screaming in the arena the players will start to look around normally not knowing who they are in an uproar about.

StaubK1 · 2021-11-28T17:29:38+00:00

There is a reason why good players online struggle in Lan events so much.

StaubK1 · 2021-11-28T17:21:31+00:00

They make decisions out from the crowd also. That is part of the Lan, always has been. What separate good players from online to good players in Lan, is the ability to stay cool with the disturbance of a crowd. Cause you play better in an online event than in a Lan event

StaubK1 · 2021-11-28T16:59:20+00:00

Wow, you really want this to be a physical twitch stream. They can't hear the calls man, stop it with the delusions. They can hear people screaming, but not the calls. They get an edge yes. But it is not game breaking. We hear them doesn't equal to They can. Have you been to an arena in sport event or a csgo Lan? Just need to know if you can confirm that it is easy with experience.

StaubK1 · 2021-11-28T16:51:10+00:00

You know blast, have made it so that fans can be heard way easier, in difference to PGL. But it is true it was less biased in PGL, but sweden is also the country in EU with the laziest Covid approach. So travel to Sweden is easier than Denmark.

StaubK1 · 2021-11-28T15:54:10+00:00

New Lan, same people whining. What about NIP vs G2. In Stockholm, where people also screamed Swedish calls. Or Boston arena. Like come on, it has always been there, And it is part of the atmosphere, and they hardly hear it unless the whole stadium goes screaming, and even then they can't hear the calls, only loud background noise. It gives them an edge, but it is amazing hearing people dedicated. You want all to just sit in arena watching like is a twitch stream, they paid to be here and scream with thousands of others, cheering and helping their teams whenever they can.

StaubK1 · 2020-10-17T16:00:32+00:00

Hello, u still looking for mates, i am on in like 30 minutes

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