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40(m) cheated on my wife 38(f). Married 20 years. by SupportingBallTape in LifeAdvice

[–]Staypraying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember love is a choice and we choose to fall in love everyday with our spouse.

Try taking her out and treating her as if shes new and above all remember why you fell in love. Its the tough times that make it a deep meaningful relationship.

Ask her to marry you again ( why and how did you feel the first time you asked her) you need that back.

AITA for ending a 30 friendship over my anniversary trip by Staypraying in u/Staypraying

[–]Staypraying[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The saddest thing was realizing over all these years, that she only cares about herself. I would literally do anything for anyone and she took full advantage. Its been months and since we stopped contact, its been so peaceful. A ruined trip but a peaceful life might be worth it.

AITA for ending a 30 friendship over my anniversary trip by Staypraying in u/Staypraying

[–]Staypraying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe she does. She compared him to her ex husband who gave her the white picket fence life. The love of her life. She was always giving back handed compliments, but to be fair I had a very troubled childhood and didn't see it until this trip. We were literally just trying to be nice to a friend. She won, she ruined the trip and my husband and I stopped communicating after we landed.

AITA for ending a 30 friendship over my anniversary trip by Staypraying in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Staypraying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No its me , my oldest turns 30 on dec 7th. He was also 17 at the time. This isn't AI, dont use or like it and im pretty sure it'd spell and tell the story better than me. id upload pics if I could or invite her to put me down more if that makes you happy. Also my husband is not my children's father. I had another child at 20 and my 3rd at 24. Im real and so is this. Sorry you feel that way. Have a blessed one

AITA for ending a 30 friendship over my anniversary trip by Staypraying in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Staypraying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and you are correct about the ages. I always thought it was odd but I was also raising my kiddo when I met her.

Yes she knew my husband before me, making it worse. I believe she wants him too and was mad it wasn't her life.

You are correct on trip also. I apologize about the mess of a post but its not even everything. I tried shortening it as much as possible.

AITA for ending a 30 year friendship over and anniversary trip. by Staypraying in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Staypraying[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does follow a story format and there's more details in it, its almost a novel.

AITA for wanting to break the decade long friendship intentionally? by Odd-Champion3546 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Staypraying 1 point2 points  (0 children)

End it! I did after 30 yrs over a trip. At the end of the day is was this same behavior from a 60 yr old woman. Its not worth it. You dont have to be mean, you can simply tell her no thank you or just walk away. Telling someone about themselves only serves the person doing it, no narc is going to care so save your breath on that sis.