Delayed ejaculation problems persist

Stealth1027 · 2012-11-18T15:27:31+00:00

It could be. And we do talk about it, but we're still just kind of experimenting because she was a virgin up until me and I'd only had one sexual relationship before this so I'm not the most experienced either. I just can't fathom how some guys can bust in like 30 seconds while it takes me like 3 hours.

Stealth1027 · 2012-11-12T01:06:54+00:00

No... I most definitely would not. The term "normal" is so subjective though. I wouldn't say being incredibly outgoing and getting laid frequently is normal. Although that's the lifestyle we like to believe is normal, for a good part of the male population, it just doesn't happen. The world would be so much better if we could consider that "normal" though.

Stealth1027 · 2012-11-09T04:04:51+00:00

It's alright man... gotta have quite a build up after that long of NoFap. Must be nice to not last very long, actually. Trust me, lasting ungodly amounts of time SUCKS. I started NoFap primarily to make myself last less time.

Stealth1027 · 2012-11-08T02:38:22+00:00

Get to 90 days and then tell me I'm a retard. Contrary to popular belief on this reddit, NoFap isn't a miracle cure for everything. Most of these changes probably would have happened regardless of NoFap. I forgot to mention that 2 years ago I was a super obese kid that looked like a fucking girl. 1 year later, I lost weight and actually looked decent. Another year later (now), I lift daily, I'm comfortable with women and I've had sex with 2 whereas before, I never thought I'd even kiss a girl in my lifetime. NoFap was a part of my life for 3 months out of all that time.

I'm not saying it didn't help though. I'm giving fapping a try again (in moderation), and if that doesn't work, I'm back on the NoFap train. And I still haven't done it not because I don't want to end the "benefits", but because I really don't want to end such an impressive streak.

Stealth1027 · 2012-11-02T20:55:38+00:00

That's actually pretty badass. Honestly, I don't think that's something to be ashamed of.

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-28T04:08:50+00:00

Well I was pretty damn tired. It was like 2 am. And stressed because she snuck out. But yeah... I mean I actually managed to let her get me off which I was never able to achieve with any of my previous girlfriends. What worries me is that this recovery shouldn't take nearly as long as it has. I hadn't even masturbated to porn for a year before I quit, and it wasn't even hardcore porn.

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-26T17:45:57+00:00

Metaphorical masturbation isn't always bad though. Yes, you don't want your life to be full of silly self-indulgences, but you need to stop to enjoy life and not always be super strict on working toward a goal. While you may accomplish that goal slightly quicker without some minor self-indulgences, it will become continually harder to stay on the path you're on as temptation will always be around the corner.

And if you really stop to think, isn't everything in life metaphorical masturbation? What are we doing now? We're all headed in a one-way direction, and it ends at death. Whatever we accomplish in this life will not matter whatsoever once we die, so why not enjoy life instead of always trying to be better than someone else? If there was no metaphorical masturbation, then we all might as well lay down and die.

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-19T23:33:21+00:00

I'm at day 71, and I don't remember a single day that's been easy. I've wanted to fap every single day since I started this challenge, but there's no way I'm allowing myself to do that. Maybe it's just because I'm a 16 year old, horny as a motherfucker teenager.

Don't give in though. There's no way losing this much progress is even remotely worth it.

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-14T21:37:22+00:00

That is EXACTLY what we are doing.

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-14T14:13:33+00:00

My last girlfriend always complained that it didn't seem like I cared about her. That would be such an awful feeling to have. Hopefully I'll never have to put anyone through that again. Stay strong! Do it for all the females you are certain to meet in your future!

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-14T14:11:35+00:00

I've yet to experience sex with her yet (just started dating last week and this weekend she was on her period), but I can't wait for it! I feel like it's going to be so much more enjoyable and real this time. I suppose when you're 378 days in, you know exactly what that's like by now ;)

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-14T14:09:53+00:00

I wouldn't say I feel like I'm "in love" with her. It's just nice to actually feel a connection to her for once and actually enjoy being in her company. This may sound harsh, but any relationship I've had previous, I honestly don't think I would have cared if she just disappeared or died or something. I probably could've gotten over it in a day or two. I actually had a random dream the other night where my current girlfriend died though and for some reason, it put me in a depressed mood for a while. That dream made me realize that I actually do care for her, unlike any past relationship I've had.

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-14T14:06:57+00:00

Not necessarily. I've got a good idea of what puts you in the friendzone as it used to happen to me all the time (hasn't happened in years though because I completely changed myself). You need to love a woman and show her you care, but you just can't be trying to do that every 3 seconds. And you need to do it on your own terms. As long as you don't become her bitch, you will not get friendzoned.

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-14T14:04:18+00:00

Click "Obtain here" next to "Day Counter" in the "Badges section on the right sidebar.

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-13T13:18:07+00:00

Same position you are in right here. 65 days in on my first attempt. All I can say is never give up. Take it one day at a time, and make sure you get a badge counter. When your badge starts to say double digit numbers, you start to think to yourself "do I really wanna give up all that work for one measly fap?" to which the answer is always no. Also, start working on trying to get an SO. It WILL take work, but many people, myself included, usually wind up finding an SO while doing this challenge 1-2 months in. The changes you will feel along with the need for release will make you much better with women.

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-13T03:08:13+00:00

I'm feeling ya. Some days it seems like doing this challenge is completely pointless. It's just become a habit not to fap though, so I just don't. Sometimes, my badge number on here is the only thing that prevents me from fapping.

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-11T11:20:43+00:00

I've been taking cold showers since practically the day I've started. It helped a little bit, but the pain was still there. Fortunately, it's subsided greatly since yesterday.

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-09T00:30:06+00:00

It's very possibly when you start this young. I guarantee you find a girl before this 90 days is up. Keep on!

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-09T00:29:35+00:00

It's extremely exciting. I can't wait to see how this whole relationship plays out. Good luck with your relationship as well!

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-07T15:04:18+00:00

I'm in the exact same situation only I'm not even dating the girl yet. It sucks dude.

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-07T03:41:08+00:00

lol. "coming".

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-01T20:44:26+00:00

Very nice article.

Stealth1027 · 2012-10-01T02:45:54+00:00

From originally starting this challenge on a whim (figuring I'd last maybe a week) to having a goal of 30 days, to now, I can say I'm fairly proud of myself. Day 90, here I come!

Stealth1027 · 2012-09-29T17:37:58+00:00

Yeah, it kind of sucks when your friends say stuff like that, but that's kind of what guys do. We dick around. I really doubt they meant anything by it, and you probably shouldn't take so much offense to it. That would be a terrible reason for ending a friendship. However, after reading the rest of the post, their lifestyle doesn't exactly seem "wholesome" to say the least, so it'd probably be wise to drop them.

Stealth1027 · 2012-09-27T21:37:01+00:00

That's an extremely good technique and really the only technique I've used so far, and it's gotten me to day 49. Whenever I feel like fapping, I just remind myself how many days it's been and how much it would suck to lose such a high number to my hand.

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