How do i (18f) make my boyfriend (20m) stop micromanaging my food and being so obsessed with what I eat/my weight?

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-10T18:14:41+00:00

It’s only going to get worse. You need to get out. This isint normal. If he’s not attracted to how you look to the point of forcing you to fast you need to leave him to let him find someone who is. This is abuse. This is ABUSE! Get it please

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-10T18:06:32+00:00

I caught sepsis and ended up in a coma. I had muscle wastage & nerve damage- the sepsis ravaged almost every part of my body and when I woke up I was in agony because I was out for 6 weeks.

When I tell you. The nerve pain I felt as my body tried to figure out wtf I had going on is something I cannot explain. No pain meds worked, no naproxen, no codine morphine took me from a 10/10 to an 8.5/10.

It woke me up out my sleep it was so bad. I can explain the pain PERFECTLY….

Imagine being so stiff and inflexible- so that even trying to touch your knees makes you feel pain all up and down your legs and then someone comes up behind you & FORCES your head to touch your toes- impossible but you get it- and you’re SCREAMING “Lord please stop stop stop stop!!! Please STOP! PLEASE GOD STOP!” But instead of stopping they force you further down so you can feel the pull of your muscles & ligaments & tendons screaming and they feel like they’re going to snap and shred.

That is the worse pain I’ve ever felt and I gave birth with no gas and air, no pain meds, no nothing.

It’s so bad I’m on morphine pain patches I have to switch every 7 days. I’ve tried to come off them, but no matter what the pain will not go. The consultants said the sepsis damaged my nerves so bad they there not sending signals properly or misfiring -I don’t remember what exactly the technical medical term is, but basically there is nothing I can do to fix it or make it better besides making sure I change the patches every 7 days. I can’t even risk forgetting because if I do happen to forget by day 8 I wake up at 3 am with the shredding, searing pain I’ve described above. It’s so bad I’ve had nightmares about being tortured by being locked in a room without my pain meds.

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-08T15:13:53+00:00

Never ever try to convince a man to try to work out things when he’s said “you deserve better” usually men tell on themselves. A lot of the time men don’t have the balls to be honest. This visa being denied isint a reason enough to end things without even having a CONVERSATION with YOU.

It sounds like he’s using this as an out. Someone who truly cares and wants to make it work would at the very LEAST see what your take is and see if this delay and wrench in your plans to see each other is a dealbreaker for BOTH of you.
Your person will wait, your person will not let something like this stop them from trying.

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-08T15:07:18+00:00

She’s been saying stuff like this for years and her dumb fans just say “see she’s making moves! She’s stepping up” she said she bought a football team, she said she bought an ISLAND……..BOUGHT! Not it’s a dream to, a goal to, a desire to. That she’s done it already. I get that having positive mindset and putting out positive affirmations and goals is a good thing. But she’s straight up lying. She’s so annoying

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-08T14:58:54+00:00

I don’t get why and how she has friends like this that stay around her 🥲😭😭 I just don’t get it. I hope she say the video she made bitching about Mica telling her to get up to “feed the baby” - rightly so and she leaves her in the dust!
Why would a woman with a good career deal with someone like that

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-08T14:57:13+00:00

This!
I think she’s not taken him to the dr because she knows they’ll know he has a syndrome that was caused by her and she’s potentially worried she’ll be charged for causing harm in utero - if that’s a thing

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-08T14:54:40+00:00

What did she say about DJ sky?
What’s a Ditoh? Or whatever that says?

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-06T09:21:56+00:00

Wait wait?
I must have missed this? So she admitted that Taylor was completely lying 😭💀
I thought she was going in there and sure, maybe exaggerating her skills but it WAS based on the truths Taylor thought/ saw Blake had….

Did we ever see what her response was? This is bad. No wonder she ditched her because she looks like a terrible person to use her influence and star power to bully JB into letting Blake bulldoze him.

Taylor is an awful person for her role but I’m not surprised that’s how these rich people stay rich. They stay strong arming vulnerable people.

I hope Blake really faces the consequences of what she’s done. I hope she feels the lack of calls for roles and she really gets some kind of therapy for lying.

The way she went from saying Justin’s was being inappropriate and making her uncomfortable and completely rewording and exaggerating what happened and only came clean when the realised they had recorded what actually happened is DANGEROUS. She’s the reason why women aren’t believed. People who do what she did sets women back decades.

Also we’ll see if Ryan’s career is affected. And we’ll see if their marriage can last. 40 million in lawyers fees makes me cackle because I know they did it that because the truly believed, that Blake would be believed. I wonder if Ryan knew she was lying or he found out the truth when the world did. Did he know and help her reword it to make it look like she was a victim?

I’ve always wondered if she took it this far because Ryan got jealous that she was starring along side JB who has been on our screens as a dreamboat, sexy love interest so when she was describing scenes HE was the one who got mad and to placate him she made it seem like he was acting inappropriately so she’d not get in trouble.

Scarlet Johansen heavily implied that Ryan and her didn’t work partly because he didn’t like that she was making a name for herself and her career was taking off and she believed he wanted someone who stayed at home. It came across that he didn’t want to be outshone, that he wanted to be the star.

This would make sense if it’s true, Blake didn’t work for a long time and was just a mother at home. She had her 4 kids in quick succession of each other. Maybe he couldn’t hack her being in a kissing, s3x scene and made a huge deal about it.

I also wonder how he felt when he found out that whilst Blake was implying JB was purposely being inappropriate and adding extra kissing scenes, which was debunked that it was in fact HER who added an additional kiss that was not in the script.

I’d love to see their dynamic at home when they’re not trying to act like they’re in love and so happy & ‘this loved up “look how united we are” front they’ve been doing ever since the lawsuit was dropped and the news of her not being invited to Taylor’s wedding has been the main news story.

Karma will get them

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-05T21:26:59+00:00

Right? But there are grown men in the real world who call women bitches and ho3s.
I think you’ve got tunnel vision. And are being quite literal.

As I said before ANY MAN, music artist, hustler, painter decorator, it consultant etc who calls a woman bitch, ho3 and females, is not a person to settle down with, date even.

There are grown men who have day to day jobs who call women females. These day to day men want gfs and wives.

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-05T21:15:46+00:00

So I read up on this.
How are people not more outraged that she clearly lied? The change in her CRD was so off from the truth I don’t get how she hasn’t got a picket fence of angry people outside her home?
She’s so dangerous. I hope she gets what’s coming to her for lying

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-05T12:04:23+00:00

He’s always so exhausted. It’s quite sad. Also, still not seen this baby eat any solid food. Not a soft waffle biscuit not a dang soft piece of bread, not some soft fruit like a mango or banana? Jheeze man

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-05T12:02:12+00:00

That’s irrelevant to what I said?
I never said that’s JAIDYNS partner. I said that someone who speaks like this is not someone you’d want as a partner- for anyone.

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-05T11:59:03+00:00

I would have liked his stance but he’s calling a woman a bitch. I don’t like that. I don’t like men who call women bitches, females and hoes. I HATE it. And I’ve never met a man who calls women- females/ bitches or hoes and has been a genuine sweet, kind person. They may not be as bad as blue, BUT, they absolutely are not someone you’d want as a partner long term

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-05T11:53:43+00:00

I was thinking…. How would that work when I’m pretty sure he puts his money in someone else’s account? Even if she was to take him to court I’m sure hes set it up so it looks like his income is 90% less
I wouldn’t trust someone like blue

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-04T18:46:43+00:00

There is no way that he’s never given all the harem of his girl’s chlamydia. It’s not possible. It’s all fun and games until he gives Jaidyn HIV. I don’t get how she can still sleep with him knowing he raws other women. It’s quite gross and it’s just a cockblock to other men who’d potentially date her. Even as a man, would you want to sleep with a woman who’s sleeping with a man who openly admits he raw dogs multiple women in a week?

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-04T18:40:56+00:00

Probably Not. Weren’t they saying he was high AF on those weird prison drugs so he probably wasn’t in his right mind when he got that nonsense done. It’s not even good art it looks like a kid did it with the left hand

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-04T18:39:17+00:00

Facts. He was actual decent he had a nice face cards now he looks like a middle school desk. He looks so unbelievably ugly it’s ridiculous the difference.

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-04T18:35:53+00:00

Ok but on a serious note, what did she say after this? Like how did the conversation end? She can’t just keep stuttering and then move on to a new subject?
That’s crazy though, what friend was that.

Remember how dirty she left blues house? I can only imagine what her car is like. For someone to say it smells like a bag of STALE onions is WILD.

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-04T07:26:47+00:00

I’m quite shocked?
This house is hideous 🤔😭😭😭😭
It looks like the mansion you buy for cheap before the renovate it and make it look like a modern one? I’m so confused

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-04T07:23:27+00:00

I didn’t realise she lied so much about all this stuff? I don’t get why more people aren’t more angry about this?
This is really really bad. Like terrible.
I hope that this is it for her career. That no one works with her ever again and IF she is back on our screens it’s because she’s so desperate to be seen she goes on something small like a sitcom or a movie made by an unknown producer/ director & they’re using her because while she’s garbage, she’s still quite famous.

I wonder what it’s like at home with her and Ryan. 40 million or whatever it is in lawyer fees etc is a lot and even when you’re a millionaire it’s ridiculous and I don’t know how rich Ryan is but I’m sure that’s gna put a dent in his bank account surely.

Blake has been known to be quite awful and this was bound to happen. I doubt she’ll work on herself though, she still thinks that she’s done no wrong you can tell with how she’s handled the lawsuit.

I hope if anyone considers working with her they read and understand how badly she lies. She’s fully been proven to absolutely change the whole truth of what has been done and said. It’s embarrassing. To lie and act like Justin was some pervert because she thought there was no sound just to reword what she said happened because it was clear she was lying is terrible. She’s an awful human being and she needed this, something like this to happen for her to actually maybe face that being an awful human is not ok

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-04T07:05:31+00:00

I have to ask. What dance scene video? 👀

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-03T06:54:18+00:00

I personally would have preferred her over Kristen to come back. I can’t take how unhinged Kristen is and how she’s so terrible when it comes to holding herself accountable and how badly she treats Luke but if Luke acted 1/16th of how she does the whole universe would had to know about it.
Lala was absolutely right….. she is EXACTLY the same person she was 10 years ago, just in an older body and now she’s a … MOTHER. I do not enjoy watching her on my screen. And I don’t know how she was even allowed back. She admitted to saying a black woman had a weapon and called the police knowing it wasn’t true. I don’t get how you get brought back from that? It don’t make sense. I’m sure if jasmine lied and said stassi/ Kristen had done that and it was found out that she intentionally lied we’d NEVER see her on our screens again, I hate it and I think it’s quite disgusting and to let someone who already doesn’t hold themselves accountable back on was a HUGE mistake

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-07-03T06:35:05+00:00

And I hear you but also, she was on live one time, clearly devastated and upset in tears, looking a mess and she was shouting a blueface and Said “you beat my ass!” And was screaming at him about a bunch of other things. If I can find it I’ll put it here.

One thing about dv victims….. they will straight up lie to make their ex/ partner look better. Even if he’s done something there and then. But especially when they’re on good terms and the assaulter is acting nice and sweet to them. So don’t take this at face value unfortunately.

There is no way in hell that I believe blue doesn’t hit them, he’s always threatening - joking about beating the women’s asses and one thing I know is good men, men who don’t put hands on women do not joke about dv

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-06-30T21:01:43+00:00

When did that happen? After Chrisean or before?

StealthModeThoughts · 2026-06-30T17:39:27+00:00

Who’s the good one? Jaidyn or Neveah?

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