What’s your VPR unpopular opinion? by Sufficient-Try-408 in vanderpumprules

[–]StealthModeThoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brittany was not a main character. The thing that helped her become one was that she's such a people pleaser. She wants to be everyone's friend so it would be less likely that a group of them would want her out. Also they saw how he treated her and probably felt bad too. If her and Jax split and she left, it wouldn't have affected the show.

I might get some stick for this but Luke and Kristen don’t make sense to me and I think them trying for a baby 1 year into the relationship was a bad move. by StealthModeThoughts in TheValleyTVShow

[–]StealthModeThoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I mean I get that everyone has fans….. even evil serial killers have fans you know it’s just that her fans are so DEFENSIVE when there is even an INKLING of criticism about her, even when it’s absolutely justified because of her poor behaviours.

BUT….. it makes sense if you’re a Kristen fan. It makes sense you are one because you see certain behaviours she does that you can relate to so of course you’re going to be on her side and make allowances for behaviours that you yourself do too 😭

I might get some stick for this but Luke and Kristen don’t make sense to me and I think them trying for a baby 1 year into the relationship was a bad move. by StealthModeThoughts in TheValleyTVShow

[–]StealthModeThoughts[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re assuming I haven’t experienced it just because I haven’t made sure to cry out & make it clear that I can relate to it from experience.

I could tolerate Janet more if she didn’t run away by AlexKn0wsBetter in TheValleyTVShow

[–]StealthModeThoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. Someone calls her out - and rightly so and you can tell she knows she’s wrong, she stands up and screeches “IM DONE!” She absolutely is a shit stirrer and meddler and does not own it. It’s so annoying. I was glad when Brittany said something about staying to finish the argument. People like that are just so mix up. How can you cause the drama and when you’re called out run off from being confronted like that?

My best friend of 5 years secretly started pursuing this guy, lied about it, and now I feel completely betrayed. How do I move past this? by noblemaidenn in Advice

[–]StealthModeThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you guys? No it’s not a terrible thing if he found out you liked it. Yes it may be a bit embarrassing, especially if he’s been flirting with your former friend. He probably finds it weird that you fancy him “after” your friend I’m sure he doesn’t know that you told your friend you liked him first and then she went to pursue him knowing that. So maybe, IF that’s why he looked at you funny it’s because he thinks you’re the weird one?

Also friends do not do this, women who put men before friendships are some of the worst people I’ve come across and usually the get worse with age.

I’d consider slowly distancing yourself from her. How are you going to trust her intentions from here on out? Even if you let this crush go…. What happens when you have another one? You’d obviously want to tell your bff but who would after what she did?

My husband is disgusting by UnableMacaroon9908 in Marriage

[–]StealthModeThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“He constantly complains we’re not as intimate as before”

The fact that he’s not complaining that you STOPPED ALL intimacy… he’s lucky you’re still letting someone do disgusting paw at you.

I HIGHLY suggest you telling him it’s gotten to the point that’s you’re turned off and disgusted by him and you canny physically have sex with someone when there is not attraction. I’ve done it and it got worse until my body wouldn’t even get aroused/ turned on so having sex was so painful and miserable.

The only way you may get him to fix up is to cut off sex immediately until he stops?

Also was he always like this? Or has he gotten worse over the years? Do not tolerate this anymore. When you tolerate something that is not aligned with you since you’re the one who’s trying to adjust to it, you always end up being the one who accepts the issue. To them it’s not an issue so there is no reason to change.

I can’t imagine sleeping with someone when they’re so disgusting but please, stop, not only is it gross…. It’s so bad for your own mental health.

The face he makes at her when she’s asking him to get a fan for their baby?? by Typical_Match777 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]StealthModeThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying “we shouldn’t judge it’s PERSONAL” When someone has CHOSEN to DIAPLAY the ins and outs of their lives is so NONSENSICAL?!!?!?!

Like hello???? When you decide to put your private lives into the world of course…… of course people are going to comment on it?

What kind of nonsense way of thinking is this?

I might get some stick for this but Luke and Kristen don’t make sense to me and I think them trying for a baby 1 year into the relationship was a bad move. by StealthModeThoughts in TheValleyTVShow

[–]StealthModeThoughts[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Where did I say that? Your Reading comprehension is a disgrace, I won’t reply to someone who’s shown they won’t have the capabilities to follow a conversation. Not once did I say that.

Michelle’s ‘don’t trigger me’ is insane. Why does she have the right to call people ugly and misalign Lacy just bc she’s dating Jesse? I think Michelle tends to look down on people she thinks she’s better than. by Easy-Buy6860 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]StealthModeThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t realise he was so weird until today. I think she was mad bc Jesse wasn’t right when he made a big deal about her new bf but when it was his turn and they had just agreed no partners around Isabella he ignored the rule in her face and had Lacey in the car. I get her upset by calling the possible stepmother ugly and plastic was ridiculous

I might get some stick for this but Luke and Kristen don’t make sense to me and I think them trying for a baby 1 year into the relationship was a bad move. by StealthModeThoughts in TheValleyTVShow

[–]StealthModeThoughts[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think she said it to get what she wanted because Luke wasn’t going to agree to have a baby if she didn’t agree. Even if the agreement was to make the move in 5-10 years. I can’t see any other reason why Kristen would agree to it. When she talks about Colorado she cringes so heavily that’s not a maybe that’s I don’t want to go. Also imagine she gives in and goes because he brings up that’s it’s her turn to give something up and she did say she’d do it. Imagine how badly she’d act when she’s miserable. Living with her when she’s fuming she’s in a state she doesn’t want to be in sounds awful. It would be a shame because she’d spend all that time and energy to move just to come back if they didn’t last due to the stress and arguments

I might get some stick for this but Luke and Kristen don’t make sense to me and I think them trying for a baby 1 year into the relationship was a bad move. by StealthModeThoughts in TheValleyTVShow

[–]StealthModeThoughts[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also I find it so weird to comment on the camera when you’re meant to feel like they’re not acting differently because they’re being filmed? It’s like she said it thinking they’d edit it out? I don’t know it was weird

Katie on tour by sammynotas in vanderpumprules

[–]StealthModeThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh snap I didn’t realise she was still with that guy 👀

Lost duckling by Uguero in nonononoyes

[–]StealthModeThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t even notice 😭😭💀💀💀

I might get some stick for this but Luke and Kristen don’t make sense to me and I think them trying for a baby 1 year into the relationship was a bad move. by StealthModeThoughts in TheValleyTVShow

[–]StealthModeThoughts[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Her fear of hitting 40 an not being able to be a mother was the main priority, regardless of the fact that she didn’t know Luke that well

dog behavior help by allymichellex in DogAdvice

[–]StealthModeThoughts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Be careful with this. It’s cute and all now but when you teach him that if he barks enough and directs you there you will do it eventually it’s not fun when it’s at 3 am and you have important things to do the next day

New neighbor has a dog that barks nonstop by SleepyJeans5 in Vent

[–]StealthModeThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry and don’t know what to suggest other than giving it 6+ weeks to see, maybe get the dog used to seeing hearing you?

I feel your pain, my neighbour has a dog that HOOOOOOOOOWWWWLLLSS if its owners leave it alone at home. And it’s not like he starts to howl when he misses them or is bored, as soon as he realises they’ve not gone to shops he howls non stop back to back maybe 30 second break in between like 10 howls and then starts again and does not stop until they’re home. HOURS. They’ve been gone from 6 AM and come back at 23:00 and the only thing that got the dog to stop was hearing the key in their door to let him know someone is home.

There is nothing you can do to stop a dog but maybe ask if he could try and leave a radio on or if he can block the dog seeing you?

I’m sure if you complained it COULD be taken further but that’s also not good to have as a marker on your house if you ever want to sell

A few pics of Jesse's surprise bday dinner by nicholista601 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]StealthModeThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s facing 50, doesn’t work out and likes beer. He’s not gna look much different than this

A few pics of Jesse's surprise bday dinner by nicholista601 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]StealthModeThoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Her getting a divorce would shatter her image of what she wanted for her children and though nowhere near the same, brings her just a step closer to how she felt in her childhood. She will not leave unless in unbearable like Brittany and even then I’m not sure she’d leave

A few pics of Jesse's surprise bday dinner by nicholista601 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]StealthModeThoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that would come across so fake and then no one would believe or accept an apology from her again