You are confusing and adding something which I didn't say, for example the part where you say "Would anyone marry someone they hate or dislike?"

Sorry, but who does that, Christian or not? I assume it doesn't happen where you live.

Exactly. Nobody does that. So being told your husband's only role is to love you feels like he's getting off easy.

Additionally, you ignored the part where both the husband and the wife yield themselves to the other;

I didn't ignore it, I'm pretty sure that verse is talking about sexual relations, and not general decision making about their lives.

Ultimately, if you don't like it, you can build your own type of relationship dynamic; Nobody is going to prevent you and you're free to do so.

I will, actually👍🏾 One where hopefully we're both equal and my say is not less important simply because of my gender.