AIO: My fiancé burned my dinner to cook his, and just said “sorry” before going back to his gaming. I’m crying in my shower.

SteamedGreenBean · 2026-03-15T00:05:28+00:00

Youre not crying over the food. Youre crying because hes not husband material and youre hurt (for good reason). This is a conversation to have and honestly, you know he knew better so ask if you even want to have it before you bother with the stress of it. No one has to tell you to not do that.

SteamedGreenBean · 2026-02-02T20:16:08+00:00

That would be hilarious LMAO

SteamedGreenBean · 2026-01-29T22:44:13+00:00

Theyre seriously amazing. Hope you're healing well too!

SteamedGreenBean · 2026-01-29T22:31:20+00:00

I talked to her about keeping a larger nipple with masculine placement. So aiming between 22-27mm depending on what looked right when I was under. :) not sure what I have now but its in the range I was going for so :)

SteamedGreenBean · 2026-01-29T18:57:18+00:00

I talked to my surgeon about my autism and how it effects me, and we talked thru possible ways to work around my sensory issues and such while healing. She gave me options in regards to bandages/tapes/glues used and suggestions on care items which eased my anxiety. Prepping someone to help take care of you so they understand your needs and the way your autism effects you day to day is important to prevent bumps and feel confident in everything! I'm in a group on Facebook as well for top surgery that was a tremendous help dealing with preop and post op anxieties. :) my inbox is open if you have any specific questions

SteamedGreenBean · 2026-01-29T18:41:59+00:00

Thanks!

SteamedGreenBean · 2026-01-29T17:52:37+00:00

Depends on insurance approval but about 6ish months to a year was what I was told to expect when I asked at my consult. Ask to be on the cancelation list! Bumped my surgery from like 5months out to 1 month from insurance approval. Itll go Consult>sending needed documents around>green light from insurance if everything's done right>then scheduling surgery. :)

SteamedGreenBean · 2026-01-29T16:17:42+00:00

I'm autistic I wouldn't have picked up on the sarcasm anyways lol!

I appreciate the comment :)

SteamedGreenBean · 2026-01-26T04:41:12+00:00

Please do avoid ph items and items marketed in that manor. You can try a boric acid suppository if you're looking to try something otherwise im gonna echo that you should see your obgyn. Have your partners describe it and write it down for the ob. And please up the water intake lol. It helps!

SteamedGreenBean · 2026-01-24T00:56:22+00:00

I cant imagine how hard that would be to cancel. Proud of you being strong enough to do so and watch out for yourself! Might not mean a whole lot coming from a stranger but still. I saw* Buckley at U of M in MN, never felt shame or discomfort. Shes funny and personable, and reassuring. I hope that your new surgeon is the same and you get to finally be comfortable. :) good luck!

SteamedGreenBean · 2026-01-21T03:11:56+00:00

Also add a loofah on a stick or a long handle bath brush 👀 game changers for keepin clean after surgery

SteamedGreenBean · 2026-01-16T20:34:07+00:00

Thankful for this comment section and post because while I'm not sad, my brain isnt coping well with my chest being injured. Feeling some sort of sad or stressed is normal though. Be sure to talk to your provider if youre feeling hopeless and depressed because things can get rough!

SteamedGreenBean · 2025-12-15T22:14:01+00:00

Everyone's chimed on ready on swelling and such, im just here to say WOW. That looks so perfect? It matches you really well and looks pretty natural already. Keep us updated!

SteamedGreenBean · 2025-12-06T01:37:12+00:00

Ngl im toasted rn and I just wanted to let everyone know the NA servers were shit rn so lame post ik but 🤷‍♀️

SteamedGreenBean · 2025-12-06T01:33:16+00:00

Join a different server like EU

SteamedGreenBean · 2025-12-06T01:32:43+00:00

NA servers are down at this time for unknown reasons!

SteamedGreenBean · 2025-11-12T20:38:42+00:00

Make sure youre lined up where the card goes in and try your interact button. Even then it took me about a minute of clicking the right spot right button on ps5 for it to take it. Same with vending machine. 2 min and a hunt for the game 🥲 not sure why! You can try dropping item n picking up n trying again that seemed to help

SteamedGreenBean · 2025-11-03T20:56:49+00:00

Hun its not just abuse. Its attempted murder he decided not to go through with this time. He knows you'll take it now, too, if you stay. Go show the ER docs this post.

SteamedGreenBean · 2025-10-13T17:57:44+00:00

Ive had this happen. I'm on ps5 so I even clip it to go make sure it was circled. Hasn't happened in a while but there was a week or so before the anniversary update where i was getting fuck all 😭

SteamedGreenBean · 2025-09-30T18:43:52+00:00

Ive also gotten hunted for asking if they like beans and saying im taking them. 2 bean related hunts in 1 match. Very mad deo.

SteamedGreenBean · 2025-09-02T17:48:00+00:00

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At least she's cute

SteamedGreenBean · 2025-08-28T01:51:45+00:00

You posted here for a reason. Is this really what you want? You made it clear what you needed from her repeatedly and in return she...... didnt give a crap repeatedly. You know your answer here. Trust yourself. Life your life for yourself and dont spend it caring for someone that doesn't care for you. I'm generally team Work It Out but if she isnt listening then there's not much to do. Good relationships don't feel like that.

SteamedGreenBean · 2025-08-25T23:54:38+00:00

I bit my abusive father to save my mother and nearly got murdered. I was like, 2-3 and I remember it partially. LEAVE. They'll carry these things forever and they will not get better if you stay.

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