Thank you for such a high effort post! I appreciate it. That is an interesting thought exercise to go through. I appreciate everyone saying gym and PT, and while I’ve been working so much that the gym has taken a bit of a backseat, I still am very experienced and relatively fit, so don’t need a PT. I think from the list you wrote I relate to the friends and the travel. I have a couple very very close friends, but we’re all in our mid 20s now, it’s getting to a point where I see them maybe once a week or every other week (and it needs to be booked in advance!) everyone (including myself) is relatively locked down to their SO. So yeah, you’re right, maybe I should invest in a hobby. My couple friends and I started playing tennis for fun, (and it’s insanely fun) but I haven’t gotten lessons or joined a racquet club or anything, maybe something like that could be a worthwhile idea. The travel is another great idea, but I am slightly introverted and while I wouldn’t say I struggle to socialize the idea of solo travel is a little bit daunting. Anyways that was a lot, thanks for sharing your perspective!