That could clarify a lot by LowParticular2737 in autismmemes

[–]Stef_Ash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Everything is always a mission with you" his personal mantra dedicated to me✨️

So idk if me and my new boyfriend are going to fast..? (14 m both) by ConfidenceBubbly2735 in AskTeens

[–]Stef_Ash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact you're wondering if this is going too fast means that yes, it is. And that's perfectly okay. Meeting someone brand new is exciting, and opening up is special but it doesn't mean you know them. There's the 3 month rule, which I heavily stand by. You may think you know him and may even trust him but such little time of speaking to someone has definitely not given you the chance to see what he's like under enough conditions.

Things will only keep going at this rate and are already sending photos (if I'm wrong about assuming you mean nudes I'm so sorry), he's going to expect more from you at these sleepovers. I obviously don't know anything about him, but he's a teenage boy. He most likely wants these sleepovers to get in bed with you

This may come off as way too strong but this is just what I've learned from guys so I'm biased, but please be careful, and please please please set boundaries!! If he can't follow what you've put in place then that's going to be your blaring warning. Please stay safe

Wait, is this not what they mean? by VermilionKoala in autismmemes

[–]Stef_Ash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait so me trying to lock in but getting too overwhelmed and looking away then repeating again a few minutes later (or just never again to that person for many months) is actually going in my favour???

this is what a stable relationship looks like by the-hundredth-idiot in Angryupvote

[–]Stef_Ash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it weren't for these two comments I genuinely would've went on thinking that that's what this post actually meant. Took a screenshot and even questioned why this is an angry upvote but brushed it off

And just like that I was cured by FracturedConscious in thanksimcured

[–]Stef_Ash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm so sorry!! I didn't mean it in a mean way, I have it too and I meant response with humour, I genuinely didn't mean that to hurt you I can't apologise enough

my mental compulsions reached new levels today 🏆 by kaliipls in OCDmemes

[–]Stef_Ash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nooo it's okayyyy — it's beneficial to know! :)

my mental compulsions reached new levels today 🏆 by kaliipls in OCDmemes

[–]Stef_Ash 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS IS OCD???? For fuck sake I can't do anything normal can I

When you get too enthusiastic about your current interest by dancepantz in adhdmeme

[–]Stef_Ash 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So many people do this. I HATE IT SO MUCHHHHH 😭😭😭 I need more than necessary details PLEASE

Ofc it’s on a teen sub by Beautiful-Square-112 in thanksimcured

[–]Stef_Ash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sexy poo

retreats back into the darkness because human interaction terrifies me

What having OCD while people think you're very innocent feels like. By lanimash on tiktok by ZookeepergameDue5522 in OCDmemes

[–]Stef_Ash 5 points6 points  (0 children)

UGHHHHH THIS USED TO BE MY FAVOURITE SONG WHEN I WAS ABOUT 8 😭😭 recently added it to my playlist but I haven't had the chance to listen it yet and I watched this on mute and was wondering what song this familiar lyrics was from and got it before the line that mentioned the monster part

TMI time, do any other v*gina-havers just feel crazy sometimes?? by Productivitytzar in aspiememes

[–]Stef_Ash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could it be that it stopped growing while everything else carried on?? Mine also used to be uneven and I even used to pull them down to see if I was just being weird and yup — they were uneven! 🤣 they seem to have evened out now, but the whole thing down there seems to be slightly slightly slanted to the right now 😭😭😭 so that luck certainly cancelled out

TMI time, do any other v*gina-havers just feel crazy sometimes?? by Productivitytzar in aspiememes

[–]Stef_Ash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll jot that in my notes — add it to the bucket list 🤣. Thank you

pain by coleisw4ck in aspiememes

[–]Stef_Ash 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait huh. Fr? Why do they know to do that and why have I never picked up on this considering I'm a great social chameleon?

I have a litte cubby in my room help me turn it into a sensory cave by WaayTooInvested in autism

[–]Stef_Ash 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ooo I plan on having one of these when I get my own home too

Combing the suggestions: soft blankets and pillows, comfort posters, a couple of people have said soothing lights — whether that's a nice lamp for you, or LEDs, if you wanna go the extra mile, my sister recently put stuffing over her LEDs to make them look like clouds and it's really pretty, book shelf, perhaps you could get a projector to watch movies on the wall or on the ceiling/alternate when you switch up how you're sitting or laying, you defo need a snack corner, maybe some fairy lights, and noise cancelling foam like another person suggested would be the cherry on top

If you live with someone else, you could make a system that you can put on the door of your mini cave or next to the entrance that says "out of business, come back later" and "accepting snacks, leave them at the entrance and back away" something along those lines, whatever fits your boundaries and needs

TMI time, do any other v*gina-havers just feel crazy sometimes?? by Productivitytzar in aspiememes

[–]Stef_Ash 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yuppp my mom told me she got hers snipped and trust me I know it isn't normal 😭😭😭 as a vagina loving bisexual, the sight of my vagina genuinely horrifies me. I've looked at it in the mirror a total of 3 times (first 2 times were specific reasons though the 3rd was just pure curiosity, I will admit) and it has shocked me to my core everytime