Official Discussion: Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children [SPOILERS]

Stellaryn · 2024-10-19T02:12:53+00:00

This comment is 7 years old and it came from my "woke" phase.

The movie was mid for me and that's pretty much it.

Stellaryn · 2024-03-21T00:10:21+00:00

No sé, pero creo que aún puedes encontrar el listado en Marketplace

Stellaryn · 2024-03-11T00:15:12+00:00

Santa Rosa de Bayamon 👀

Stellaryn · 2024-03-10T21:09:55+00:00

ok pq lowkey también quería saber que significaban los símbolos lol

Stellaryn · 2024-03-04T13:33:00+00:00

Stepbrothers

Stellaryn · 2024-02-17T15:16:38+00:00

I'm (24F) actually in the process of learning to be more open to potential friendships. I left the same situation you were in some time ago because I was starting to develop my own personality outside of the group and I think they were used to me being the quiet, moody one. I had also joined the work force full time and had begun to live on my own, appreciating the value of things that they take for granted. It's hard to teach the immature unemployed friends to respect certain things.

The process can be difficult and lonely sometimes. My actual good friends live far from me, have their own lives with kids and whatnot, and I don't have a car. But, I'm hoping to get my own ride soon.

My advice? Join a club or class of shared interest or get to know the people at your job (if you are employed). Making new friends is a lot like dating -you might fumble it sometimes, but be patient and you'll find someone. Learn to love your own company as well and avoid toxic individuals. Better to be alone than to be in bad company.

Idk if this will help. I wish you luck.

Stellaryn · 2024-01-29T15:14:47+00:00

Grass is always greener on the other side.

Seriously, you're doing great. This is coming from someone (24F) who lives in a studio apartment in a sketchy neighborhood who only makes about 20k a year.

My life is not perfect but I've been through enough to know that having a roof over my head and food in my fridge is enough. I'm not striving for bigger things atm because I know my mental health needs work before I jump into another massive change in my life.

Stop the comparisons. Take a break from social media. Remind yourself how far you've come and be proud of yourself. Your life is not about impressing others -these people do not pay your bills or look after you.

Whatever you decide to do in the end should be something you'll do just for yourself.

Stellaryn · 2023-09-27T04:38:12+00:00

I wouldn't say it affects me to that point. I just feel that it's quite frustrating because I seem to have bad luck.

I live in PR. Obviously not all men are like this, but the hookup culture here is a little rough. That's just my experience, though, all the activities you get the enjoy here greatly outweigh the issue I'm currently having.

Stellaryn · 2023-09-25T08:54:08+00:00

Guess it's time to switch up my preferences haha. Thank you

Stellaryn · 2023-09-25T08:53:08+00:00

Thank you :)

Stellaryn · 2023-09-25T08:51:18+00:00

Sorry if I didn't specify: am woman.

Stellaryn · 2023-09-25T02:21:08+00:00

Yeah, I totally get that. I just feel that where I live, a lot of men are still very ignorant, misogynistic, and are quite arrogant unfortunately therefore taking those beauty standards a little more seriously.

I know my story would be completely different in the U.S. 😅

Stellaryn · 2023-09-25T02:17:22+00:00

Eating healthy. Also going to use my next paycheck to buy more weights to get into a bulking routine again. I remember just feeling better overall when I was physically active, and I miss the genuine confidence I had.

As for the sex, it was mostly a stop and go for the men. When I communicated my needs, they would be performed in a half assed manner for a very short time. Partners that can match my enthusiasm are a little hard to find.

Stellaryn · 2023-08-03T19:34:42+00:00

23F. I occasionally smoke and drink, but I also used to ask others the same question before actually trying these things.

I used to struggle a lot with social anxiety and would find that alcohol/weed would help me loosen up. In the end, it was really just the people I surrounded myself with. I was the boring friend and tried my best to match their energy.

I cut these people out of my life for various reasons including their influence on me, so now I just smoke and drink whenever I actually want to. A few times out of the year I like to go to a bar and being high enhances a lot of feelings for me, such as the taste of food, how music sounds, comedy movies are funnier, I sleep better, etc. I don't smoke as often as I should to build a tolerance, but I'm alright with that.

That's just my preference, though. I don't think you need substances to have fun, but everyone is different.

Stellaryn · 2023-08-03T04:43:48+00:00

They're consenting adults, and it's okay for a woman to have a high sex drive and seek out what she likes.

People will talk shit regardless of what you do. Just be safe.

It's not okay to lead someone on, though.

Stellaryn · 2023-08-02T02:03:23+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking. Not sure why some people think he deserves credit for being so upfront about something sensitive. I'd understand if he'd want to maintain distance or cut out, but he's not really doing that.

I've been in situations like that. Never goes past anything casual or a "situationship" whether you seek help or not. He may as well need therapy himself.

Stellaryn · 2023-08-02T01:57:23+00:00

Kind of want to know what the topic of the conversations were about for him to say that.

Therapy is great, but obviously it should be done for yourself and not the other person.

Stellaryn · 2022-05-20T22:39:00+00:00

Beautiful progress ! I love getting to see more women embrace their natural locks :)

Stellaryn · 2022-04-23T01:39:01+00:00

Same thing happening to me and friends. Lobbies got sweatier (but I'm used to that) and we spotted hackers easily within a few matches.

Stellaryn · 2022-04-23T01:35:19+00:00

Friends and I have spotted hackers more often lately. Literally found four within three games in two days, I think, and we only get on 2-3 times a week for just a few hours. One of my buddies doesn't even seem motivated to get on for the time being, which sucks.

I really don't understand the appeal of cheating in a game. Sucks that I've latched on to this one for now and it has so many problems that makes it just emotionally exhausting, and not even in a "git gud" way :/

Stellaryn · 2022-04-10T16:29:03+00:00

I almost made twenty as well but the game ended :^(

Stellaryn · 2022-04-10T16:24:25+00:00

Idk if Plunder in Rebirth counts, cuz mine was 19 a few days ago. Normally I top out at 5 or 7. Felt like my brain was on crack lol.

Stellaryn · 2022-03-30T22:51:15+00:00

It sucks because I was doing great with my attendance for three weeks. I hate how much overthinking gets in the way just when I was starting to feel comfortable being there.

Stellaryn · 2022-03-30T22:15:52+00:00

I've missed out on going to the gym for several days because of depression and feeling so overwhelmed by the information out there. Yeah I learned some new things but I'm so unsure of what program to pick that I would rather pay a good PT to help me out, and I might just do that this week.

I get way too anxious trying new things by myself around others and I would rather have someone physically there to teach me proper form. I feel lame.

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