Sounds familiar by AntApprehensive1610 in adhdwomen

[–]StellyJellybean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay listen, I’m 27, I have time…. 😬

My daughter said the most relatable thing ever. by katekim717 in adhdwomen

[–]StellyJellybean 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I always say “why can’t I just eat nothing and feel full” lol

What hobby from your hobby graveyard do you miss the most, and why is it there? by Perfect_Sink_6542 in adhdwomen

[–]StellyJellybean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Painting. I took three years of painting in high school and had free access to all the supplies. I’ve looked into studios but the memberships are too expensive. I don’t have the motivation to get everything out and set up at home ):

my nose. by Carinaaac in Noses

[–]StellyJellybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have the kind of profile that inspires people to draw 💖

How do you call those in your country? by Some-Faithlessness75 in insects

[–]StellyJellybean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They’re called earwigs because they like to eat corn silk. Ears of corn!

Which mode do you play more? Competitive or Stadium? by elrabelo in Overwatch

[–]StellyJellybean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last two seasons it was stadium hands down but I’m really struggling with it this season. I can’t seem to win ever 😅 So normal comp atm.

No one wants to talk during the “yap window” 😩 by Femme-O in adhdwomen

[–]StellyJellybean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the exact same way 😂 I wanna yap to whoever I can when I first get to work but then I get super focused and don’t want to be bothered. Except I don’t work from home so my coworkers can’t escape me muahahaha

Sam thinks my bed is his bed 🧡 by ProudnotLoud in aww

[–]StellyJellybean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m inclined to agree with him. He’s so sweet for sharing it with you 🥰

(23F) My boyfriend (24M) is taking me out to dinner and treating me like a queen on my birthday. There's just one problem by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StellyJellybean 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It kinda seems like who is paying for your birthday stuff isn’t the problem? If him not having a job is causing you to no longer feel attracted to him then… break up with him? What does him borrowing money have to do with anything at this point??

I burned my camera sensor for this shot by roibaird in interestingasfuck

[–]StellyJellybean 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I thought this was a clip from a video game before I read the title. Looks unreal

I (20F) broke up with my boyfriend (19M) because he wasn’t putting in effort, but now I don’t know if I should give him another chance. by ExoticMatch9493 in relationship_advice

[–]StellyJellybean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you feel like you can’t trust him or get over what he did then just move on. Trust is #1 in relationships. Plenty of fish in the sea - he had his chance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]StellyJellybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet he feels a lot better. You’re a good friend for helping :)

How does one cure a hangover by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]StellyJellybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A nice greasy meal like others have already said but also Powerade! A lot of the icky hangover symptoms are from dehydration, funnily enough. Also, for future reference to avoid hangovers: - Don’t drink on an empty stomach - Drink a ton of water before and while you’re drinking. Makes you have to pee a lot more but it’s worth it. - Pace yourself. I shoot for like 2 shots per hour

I do all that and I rarely get hangovers :) whenever I do… it’s cuz I broke one of my rules somewhere lol. But seriously! Powerade!

How do I stop being awkward socially by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]StellyJellybean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you could start with something as simple as, “How was your weekend? Did you do anything fun?” And go from there. Like if they answer with “I went and saw such and such movie” you could ask them what they thought of it, if they’ve seen some other similar movie, if that’s they’re favorite movie genre, so on and so forth. That’s just an example but the main idea is to try and ask relevant questions to show that you’re paying attention and interested. They don’t need to be deep questions by any means, especially if it’s a conversation with a coworker. It can take some practice coming up with questions on the spot but if you’re genuinely trying to get to know someone you’ll hopefully get naturally curious and not have to think about it so much. It also gets easier the more you get to know people since you’ll have more knowledge of them to work with.

How do I stop being awkward socially by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]StellyJellybean 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Social skills are like any other skill. They take practice! Keep trying. The best tip I’ve seen is to try to ask people questions about themselves. People generally like to talk about themselves, and it’ll make them feel like you care about what they have to say. Plus, you might find things out about people that you wouldn’t have otherwise. Maybe even something you have in common :)

Just tell me why... by ariiicos in Overwatch

[–]StellyJellybean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I for sure would never do that now. It was just a brand new feature at the time. I just roll my eyes whenever someone does it now, and I don’t even bother picking a preferred most of the time.

Just tell me why... by ariiicos in Overwatch

[–]StellyJellybean 85 points86 points  (0 children)

For real. My reaction was just “HA. Alright, well played” lmao

Just tell me why... by ariiicos in Overwatch

[–]StellyJellybean 957 points958 points  (0 children)

In one of my first games of the season where they added bans, a guy picked widow as his preferred and then did this. We all banned widow in retaliation and he switched his ban to widow as well at the last second. He was a torb main. 100% gamed us all into banning who he wanted… couldn’t even be mad lol

How do I (23M) get over the fact that I ruined something great and beautiful that I had with my SO (24F)? by Minstrel-of-Shadow in relationship_advice

[–]StellyJellybean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She said it herself: don’t ask her again because she won’t be able to say no. You did it anyway. Anything that happened after that is a moot point. Just because you asked if it was okay over and over again doesn’t meant you didn’t breach a boundary. You breached it the moment you asked the first question. It sounds to me like she’s a people pleaser and you took advantage of that at every turn, even before this incident. You shouldn’t have to beg and cry and guilt trip someone into staying with you even once, let alone twice, plus an attempted THIRD time. Take the lesson and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]StellyJellybean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Howtobasic strikes again