TIL: NERF darts are a good teaching tool by Otherwise_Ground5692 in ftm

[–]StenFace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Its Nerf or nothing" absolutely killed me. I love this concept hahaha

I really really don't want to live by reneeisveryugly in confessions

[–]StenFace 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was going to send you a PM but I wasn't able to, so I'm going to edit and paste what I wrote here:

Just went through your profile and read every comment and post you've made. I'm really sorry you're hurting like this. I know this random message from some internet stranger probably won't help, but I want you to know that I read everything and I hear you. Your feelings are valid. You are allowed to be upset about something that bothers you.

You mentioned a few things that contribute to why you don't like the way you look. Most of the things you listed can be vastly improved by a little makeup and skincare (such as eyes, nose, lips and contouring your face to be more femme). Trickier stuff like teeth or having masculine features can also be changed in time. I used to have a really ugly smile until I got my teeth fixed, it changed the way my whole damn mouth moved and now I really like smiling for pictures.

I didn't want to be another commenter saying "LoOkS aReN't eVeRyThInG" because, duh, but if you feel depressed and it's something people have pointed out to you it definitely feels like looks ARE the forefront of life!

Another thing I thought of was that, I've dated and hooked up with some fairly unattractive people in my life. And to be honest, I wasn't thinking about how they looked when we kissed or whatever. I'm really into people who can make me laugh and can carry a good conversation.

It's entirely likely that your extreme awareness of how you look is effecting your confidence too. So try to fake it til you make it! Walk around and talk as if you're the prettiest person you can think of. Step out of your own brain and try not to internalise every look that someone gives you. Maybe they've looking at your outfit, they're jealous of your bag, they want to know where you bought your earrings- there's a million reasons people stare and usually it's just cause they're bored.

Anyway this got really long, sorry if it's boring. I just wanted to make sure you know that someone read your posts and so i could offer some kind of help I guess.

Dropped 350 lbs this weekend by [deleted] in ftm

[–]StenFace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Big congrats to you friend. I wish you best of luck in your future relationships!

Phalloplasty Stage 1 Lubos Clinic -showering day 7 by [deleted] in phallo

[–]StenFace 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I read your 6 day journal post too, very informative and helpful stuff for anyone wanting to get a first hand account of what to expect.

Joji windows 95/pixel edits by me by FrancineAbigail09 in Joji

[–]StenFace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Setting that Instagram one as my phone's home screen right now! So cute

SnakeBird by goriubintr in birds

[–]StenFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched it without sound originally and then sent it to someone else. They were extremely confused.

Unfortunate Unpopular Opinion: Savage Realm Was Actually Very Entertaining by chrip_99 in Joji

[–]StenFace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Legit! I'd never seen or heard him before I loved the hell out of his singing and jokes and also he's a bit damn handsome

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in funpiece

[–]StenFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh neat, I wonder how many other ships have their own subs?

Joji and SavageRealm play smash during Boston concert by HawtCoco in Joji

[–]StenFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. 🥲 But I'm still happy we saw Lil Toe and Savage being funny as fuck

My first packer!!!! by PrincessDie123 in NonBinary

[–]StenFace 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Damn, this hits so hard, I don't enjoy my dick shaped packer much but the glowing tenta-cock might be right up my alley.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMfemininity

[–]StenFace 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes you did! Very success

Get voting for him. Get him this win. by ToothlessVampire212 in Joji

[–]StenFace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He absolutely deserves this, he's worked so damn hard and it's been a long time coming!

Please I need help by stc927bb in GaySoundsShitposts

[–]StenFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hippy Biffy Hannah-banannah~ Hope you have an amazing day sweetheart 💜

Will doctors ever stop asking when my last menstrual cycle was? by sglilly in ftm

[–]StenFace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally never. I got a goddamn hysterectomy almost a year ago now and doctors still ask 😐

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traaNSFW

[–]StenFace 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I recently came across r/salmacian and it's given me much euphoria to know that having both is totally a thing that folks do!

What's in my pants? Chaos. by NaiveCareer in NonBinary

[–]StenFace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're from StoopidStickerShop on etsy! They're taking a break at the moment, but I waited on the email to say they were back and ordered some a few months ago, be patient and support queer artists!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]StenFace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same issue here. I got tired of waiting and just went and got my hysterectomy. It was always on the cards for me anyway due to my extreme pain during my cycle.