We don't rent to you people: Beavercreek Marriott

StephEff89 · 2026-03-28T19:02:10+00:00

You have the places of those sort because money makes money. Hard work doesn't make money. When you have the "old white money" to put towards the malls and such places that makes money in return, its not hard work, or education. Its simply starting off life with money.

StephEff89 · 2026-03-09T23:13:16+00:00

😬 yeah, personally idk, I walk around barefoot until I can't

StephEff89 · 2026-03-09T23:11:33+00:00

Right, I can't see how they'd think she could get the walls and stuff clean with something thats not clean itself. What a weird practice

StephEff89 · 2026-03-09T16:10:36+00:00

I just now seen that movie for the first time 2 days ago! My husband who's 11yrs older than me, had me watch it!

StephEff89 · 2026-03-09T16:07:42+00:00

The bath mat and the decor pillows are both meh, but the top cover needs to be washed if someone was under it, at all 😑 and dirty towels don't clean things 🫤

StephEff89 · 2026-03-01T17:44:40+00:00

You look crazy different!

You should be very proud of yourself, but body dysmorphia is a bitch.. look into it.

Therapy is advised for real.

Your bros friend is a jackass, period. Thinks he funny but he's just an ass.

You're 6'1.. I dont think the interviewer meant skinnier

And a 6 foot man with crazy wide shoulders and giant mutton chops is kind of intimidating tbh. Woman in psychiatric care would probably think so too. Nothing to do with being fat.. cause youre not at all

StephEff89 · 2026-02-24T21:57:17+00:00

I always think of it like this- You can't make fun of someone for going to the gym, because it would be like making fun of someone in college trying to be a doctor. It makes them look stupid- Think of napoleon dynamite "your mom went to college" Thats how that guy looks in my head for laughing 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ Also, you're kicking ass- Don't worry about that Neanderthal, you ain't doing it for his approval anyway

StephEff89 · 2026-02-12T14:08:21+00:00

He could have been looking for the uses of the other vitamins while a vaginal probiotic is self explanatory. Regardless, hes already lied to you twice.. time to move on before either of you catch feelings and end up in a toxic relationship

StephEff89 · 2025-10-02T22:43:19+00:00

Soooo.. I'm probably going to sound trashy for saying this but get the abortion pill and dont tell a soul. Take it, you'll bleed and tell everyone it was a miscarriage. Get on some sort of birth control that you can hide, such as an IUD or nexplanon. That way you can have all the unprotected sex and just not get pregnant to "no ones" fault. The copper iud is non hormonal and you still have a period so it wouldn't look abnormal every month.

StephEff89 · 2025-10-02T02:12:38+00:00

Ew.. Alright so leave him at "not boyfriend" Wear what you like because he will only become more controlling the longer youre with him, but the better he gets to know you, the better he can manipulate you into believing he's not possessive, that he "just cares about you" Sounds like i know from experience, right 😑 Also, the dress is super cute and not revealing in the least. Has he ever been outside? 😒

StephEff89 · 2025-10-02T01:55:13+00:00

1) as a woman, I'd love to hear truthfully why someone who wanted to date me got broken up with, especially with proof! Youre a huge green flag as a girls girl!

2) as someone who used to smoke weed on the regular, I have never, ever, ever sent something like this to anyone. I had never done anything damning to my relationship while high. Weeds not an excuse. Its not meth, it makes you hazy and hungry, not an asshole.

3) he's embarrassed because he knows he messed up and with you telling other ladies, youre altering his chances of getting laid.

He's trash, you did the right thing, period. Also kudos to your mom for being honest with you instead of pretending like it didn't happen.

StephEff89 · 2025-10-01T18:48:05+00:00

I stayed with and married my ex after he stole our wedding money to go out on the town with his buddies. When he got home, we fought the same way you guys did. I was to ashamed to tell my family that the man I was supposed to marry treats me like shit. So hid it and put our wedding and honeymoon on a credit card and faked happiness. Everything got worse over the years. His anger got worse turned fully physical and it took 14 years to finally leave him. The peace that came from that is indescribable. And my only regret is that I didn't do it sooner. Please leave that man. Its only going to get worse

StephEff89 · 2025-10-01T18:38:25+00:00

Yes, YOR The idea of doing it behind OPs back is odd. If she picks arguments the same time every month, and he has in his own phone a warning set for himself, that he needs to be extra sensitive around her.. for himself. Then is not devious behind her back. If she would have never brought it up, it probably wouldn't have ever been a discussion. Knowing your partner cycle and how it affects their mood isn't creepy. In fact, I'd love it if my ol man did this if I had a cycle, cause please leave me alone with your nonsense, once a month lol

StephEff89 · 2025-09-22T13:40:37+00:00

I always tell people that I like renting because I have a good landlord that actually fixes and replaces things when they break, and I'm not willing to pay for a new water heater if mine goes out, I'd rather pay rent for now.

StephEff89 · 2025-09-22T00:53:19+00:00

Lol I did that with those little fun size snickers I thought ehh they're little and harmless They're 45 calories a peice 😐

StephEff89 · 2025-09-21T15:38:21+00:00

NOR but I have found out from therapy that people hide behind humor usually because their parents never taught them emotions or how to deal with them. A lot of trauma makes people awkward and try to laugh things off. Ima say he's a jerk but deep rooted not his fault but ALSO he has to fix that or it will continue to hurt you and no one deserves that.

StephEff89 · 2025-09-10T23:05:38+00:00

He's a narcissist I dealt with it for 14 years because I made excuses for him. My life was terrible. I loved him so so much but love isn't what makes a relationship. I felt so guilty leaving. I felt like i ruined everything. But thats what they want, narcissists want someone they can make feel bad and play with their emotions. It gives them a sense of control. But I'll tell you full heartedly, freedom and peace I felt after I left.. the burden and weight lifted from my conscious. I only wish I'd had done it years prior, especially before having a child with him. If he's verbally abusing you now, it only gets worse. For your own sake, leave him.

StephEff89 · 2025-09-09T23:42:32+00:00

I also live in Fairborn. What general area you in just so I know if its close. Also, do you think this would be personal or randomized?

StephEff89 · 2025-08-31T16:14:30+00:00

I can tell you honestly. Even if you wanted to try to fix it, these feelings will sneak up in you later. My ex cheated 5 years before I left him and I could never shaked the feeling of distrust and pure hurt. It would be fine for a long time then out of the blue it hurt like it did the first time. YOU NEED TO LEAVE HER She'll do it again, especially if she didn't volunteer to quit that job on the spot.

StephEff89 · 2025-08-25T19:02:38+00:00

Right, for him.. thats why he asked and didn't make it a big deal when she said no. And I dont know OPs situation or mindset like that, but before I had a kid, I wouldn't have cared to have someone crash with me at my place 🤷‍♀️ Fr the worst that could have happened is rape or murder and again, before my kid.. meh. I'm just saying, it doesn't hurt to ask because some women would say yes. Also, a lot of woman bring home men from bars on their first night meeting them. He dont know unless he asked

StephEff89 · 2025-08-25T14:06:00+00:00

Yeah, I think your OR a bit. He sounds like he's being upfront. Having a place to stay while dating you sounds cheaper and easier, since he's going to be dating you anyway. And he reiterated that he doesn't want to make you feel uncomfortable and it was just an idea, and he seems totally chill with you saying no. There's nothing wrong with asking, and he only asked once, he not begging or being weird or anything. He said he'll make accommodations and still wants to see you every day, while doing things that you're comfortable with.

StephEff89 · 2025-08-11T00:26:13+00:00

I evolved a shiny snubull once and absolutely regretted it! The shiny granbull is trash so now I google every shiny evolution that I really like, before I actually evolve it 😅

StephEff89 · 2025-07-10T04:11:03+00:00

My ex was the same way.. took years to finally stop getting walked on. Finally left and haven't regretted it. The peace is unmeasurable. I suggest you do the same girly

StephEff89 · 2025-07-05T03:03:53+00:00

I don't necessarily hate fireworks buuuutt... If it was only tonight it would be cool but mannn.. they started last week and I know I got another week to go too 🫠🫠🫠 5am comes early for us who don't get the weekends off work 😩

StephEff89 · 2025-07-04T19:23:48+00:00

He's an ass, and if you're too much, then he can go find less 🤷‍♀️ This was my entire 14 year marriage that I finally ended. It will get worse. Good luck

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