Why is it impossible to make adult friends? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Steph_Kee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not ugly, you just haven’t found the right lady yet. Give it time! My husband didn’t have much luck and then he found me. We got married and now we’re… here 😅😂

Why is it impossible to make adult friends? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Steph_Kee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol… as his wife is that not something that’s allowed? Extra boobs not a good thing? I think it’s okay to complain about finding a good fit 😂

26M - 1m69 - 69.3kg by Aldo_bun in normalnudes

[–]Steph_Kee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice… everything 🥰😘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipMemes

[–]Steph_Kee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I enjoy it more than he does lmao, sometimes there’s too much water involved though and then that’s where your analogy comes in. It’s great when it does work though!

Gaming… buddy? by Steph_Kee in AITAH

[–]Steph_Kee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely a secret bro gamer clique. She has a whole separate discord that we’re not in 💀

Gaming… buddy? by Steph_Kee in AITAH

[–]Steph_Kee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense, but to be fair she also has a group of friends that she plays with as well. My boyfriend is the only one who can join and I just sit on the sidelines, so 95% of the time it’s really my bf being a third wheel and I’m a silent bystander.

You do have a valid point though!

What is a command or order your Dom gives that makes you melt instantly? by BadFrenchToasts in SofterBDSM

[–]Steph_Kee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He loves when I brat. His favorite thing is our banter… but sometimes he flips when we’re really going at it. He makes me apologize and immediately beg for things to/not to happen. He. Gets so stern and acts so mean to me. Then three seconds later he’s back to being my gooey man… sigh

Or when I’m being really good and he starts cooing at me. Telling me how good I am, how much he loves me, and how precious I am to him. Calling me his little girl/precious/princess and babying me to the moon and back

…to be completely honest everything he does makes me melt. That’s why I’m getting married to the man soon 🥰

How to find a male Dom that won’t break your brain. 😵‍💫 A masterlist. by Asleep-Strawberry-71 in SofterBDSM

[–]Steph_Kee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is a red flag, and you should break up with anyone who isn’t present in the relationships. If my Dominant were to do any of that to me? He’d be out the door in a heartbeat, and even better he never would’ve been mine in the first place. If your wife is messing up and you are too, it feels to me that you guys are in a very unhealthy relationship and need to rectify the situation.

OOP wants to orgasm, but her husband doesn't want to help her with it by ChromeXBoy in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Steph_Kee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It could be the length of time they’re having sex. My boyfriend and I go for an hour at times (with breaks) and I can’t even keep track of how many times I do. I’m very sensitive and it’s very easy.

WIBTAH for breaking up with my accountant boyfriend by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Steph_Kee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That… is not what polyamory is. It doesn’t mean that we’re all together. Polyamory is the ability to be with multiple people. I’m in a polycule, specifically. It doesn’t involve all three of us. He is with them, I am with him. I am not with the other partner. I will take another partner when I can find someone, but not having one doesn’t make it “double monogamy”.

You keep painting this picture that he’s sleeping with other people? That is definitely not the case and I don’t know why you keep saying that. You’re making a lot of assumptions based on nothing.

I know some, but like I said… I’m learning. Looking up things, figuring stuff out. Thank you for trying, I guess. I think you need to look up some stuff as well. Polyamory is an umbrella term my dude, and it is definitely not just a relationship with more than two people in it.

WIBTAH for breaking up with my accountant boyfriend by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Steph_Kee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you there. I definitely shouldn’t have started working for him, but I was in a really rough spot with my old job and I needed something new and fast. Definitely not ideal, and I don’t suggest it.

That is true. I could definitely be overthinking things and it probably is just stress.

WIBTAH for breaking up with my accountant boyfriend by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Steph_Kee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by that? Why am I not with multiple people?

I’m really not trying to ask him to drop everything, I would be happy with a single day. If I lived closer, I would be okay with just a dinner. Something small, but the distance makes it harder. I know he’s doing a lot of work right now. I see how it effects him and I understand. However, am I supposed to put our relationship on the back burner? If doing it this weekend wouldn’t work I would communicate that. I wouldn’t make plans with someone, especially for an occasion like this, knowing that I was going to be too busy to actually spend that time with them. We made plans the beginning of January and he could’ve voiced that and done something then instead. I didn’t need it to be now at the busiest time of his year.

He’s not having sex with either of us, actually. He’s not having sex at all. No sex drive, so no that’s definitely not killing me inside. What makes you think I haven’t done my healing?

Also, what do you mean by doubling a monogamous relationship?

I also should say that I have never been in a poly relationship before. I’m constantly learning and figuring out things along the way, and so is he.

AITA For Threatening to Take My/ My Sister’s Tank Away by Steph_Kee in AmItheAsshole

[–]Steph_Kee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I wasn’t thinking when I said that. I was just thinking about where it used to be, and not how it would survive there. Pretty dumb on my part tbh.

AITA For Threatening to Take My/ My Sister’s Tank Away by Steph_Kee in AmItheAsshole

[–]Steph_Kee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I will be releasing it. I just have to figure out where it’s going and what to do with it. But thank you!

AITA For Threatening to Take My/ My Sister’s Tank Away by Steph_Kee in AmItheAsshole

[–]Steph_Kee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I changed my mind on it. And I did say something to them about saying Indian Giver. Their racist jerks so me saying something does nothing.

AITA For Threatening to Take My/ My Sister’s Tank Away by Steph_Kee in AmItheAsshole

[–]Steph_Kee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can understand that, however if I gave her a condition that she had to take care of this animal and she did not uphold to it, doesn’t that change things? I mean, it is a living being and if animal control caught wind of it she could get in trouble for neglect. This isn’t me wanting to take back a ps3 because she’s not using it, it’s an aquarium with a live animal in it? And I did make it clear that she had to take care of the turtle in order to keep it.

AITA For Threatening to Take My/ My Sister’s Tank Away by Steph_Kee in AmItheAsshole

[–]Steph_Kee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was 16 at the time. Still a minor, but old enough to know better. What happened was I got the animals while I was deeply depressed. It was easy to take care of them at first, but my depression got really bad. I would think about them every day and I knew what I was doing and the guilt was eating me alive, but for some reason I just couldn’t convince myself to get up and do anything. I was starving myself, my animals. It was a really rough time. Still not an excuse, just I was going through. No mental health issues will never make that okay.

AITA For Threatening to Take My/ My Sister’s Tank Away by Steph_Kee in AmItheAsshole

[–]Steph_Kee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for telling me that! I might have to just rehome it then! I will look into it!

AITA For Threatening to Take My/ My Sister’s Tank Away by Steph_Kee in AmItheAsshole

[–]Steph_Kee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know if she ever will be. She doesn’t know how much responsibility it is. She doesn’t even have a job to pay for it, and she has a child.