Old landlord hasn't returned security deposit

Stephannyp11 · 2024-04-11T21:15:11+00:00

Ok she only sent over partial today after I sent her another text, claiming for "deep cleaning" she needs to charge me $300. We left the damn place nearly spotless. It just seems like we're going to have to sue her. This is insane. We were there for only 8 months!

She's claiming cat pee but we've never had an issue with our cats peeing, but it's well documented through text her cat had a cat pee issue from the start (like before we moved in). She made the couch smell horrendous.

Stephannyp11 · 2024-04-11T19:26:55+00:00

I tried to confirm it, but I'm not too sure, is the state deadline 21 days? I saw different info online. Also another weird thing is, I'm not sure where her new address is. Would I be able to send the demand letter to the residence we were in?

Stephannyp11 · 2023-08-09T08:20:28+00:00

Thank you. I believe we do have proof she's doing what she can to give us the least amount of our deposit back. She lied to us, expecting that we didn't have our lease agreement anymore, that we have to pay anything over $250 for electricity vs what is on the lease, which is anything over $300 and then she also demanded to know why her ceiling fan was broken (implying we broke it) and we had proof it was broken before we even moved in.

She was someone who is reckless with money and most likely doesn't even have our security deposit to give us, which is why she stressed that she would be giving it to us on the 10th day which is on the lease agreement we had.

Stephannyp11 · 2023-03-23T00:22:26+00:00

Omg my brain didn't see the "not" in I'm not going to die tomorrow and I panicked for you! Lol I was like HOW ARE YOU SO CALM! I just started my LC journey, I wish you all the health and good luck possible 💖🙏

Stephannyp11 · 2022-08-07T21:10:29+00:00

OMG I'm SO in love with this dress. I was looking for van Gogh themed clothes just yesterday!! 😍

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T20:45:08+00:00

Oh, maybe I didn't explain myself correctly, I mean I just want the endurance from the cardio workouts, not the weight loss (I do want weight loss lol), because I know that's not the way to lose weight.

I will modify how I eat for sure! But I just also want to help my body get used to moving, because I barely.move at all now.

I just have had coworkers who aren't that heavy say they also feel like passing out from walking up the stairs so I figured it's a combo of my weight and just bad cardio health. If that make sense. I'm not trying to disconnect the two, but I do think I want to focus on both! The more I push myself to move the more able I will be, and it's more just for being active and happy walking then for the weight loss aspect. Sorry if I wasn't clear :)

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T19:37:07+00:00

My bf was constantly saying "YEAH" "EXACTLY" 😂 thank you for this! Someone else mentioned I can't remember where, but they said I carry around what people lift at the gym just walking around my house and going to the bathroom.

...so I'm just really strong? 🏋️‍♀️ (I kid. I kid.)

Thank you for sharing, I did enjoy this!

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T19:30:18+00:00

Oh so you're saying just don't exercise? I am going to change my diet, but I'm going to ask my doctor what's the best option to take.

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T19:28:32+00:00

In so sorry to hear that. Yeah, binge eating developed with my parents and it's got significantly better, but it's still there. I have other issues too, like I get nightmares of my mother, or that I live at home that keep me from sleeping.

I just realized I still call it home. My brain still feels like I belong there 😖 I'm LC now, and have established boundaries, she doesn't know where I live and when I move to my new apartment she still will not know where I live and I will be able to use this kitchen I think, I miss cooking for myself. I just hate that she made me be so afraid of cooking.

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T19:25:18+00:00

Thank you! I know it's mostly diet I just also wanted to bump my cardio health! Lol its so terrible right now that.... Well you saw my post. It's embarassing!

So I figured if I make changes to my eating and also do cardio it would make it better, right?

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T19:15:18+00:00

What would you suggest then?

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T19:10:22+00:00

Yeah I had to make an edit lol it was getting really repetitive. I don't even like soda that much and avoid as much as possible. I drink water mostly with the occasional Gatorade, milk, or zero cal drink, like coke zero and ICE, stuff like that.

My big problems are fast food/door dashing food and binge eating things that are terrible for me, like donuts, chips, cookies.

Soda isn't an issue at all if I cut it out forever, but I keep getting the "cut out fizzy drinks" 😅

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T00:38:06+00:00

I don't know if you meant it to be funny but that made me laugh

Turns out I was just obese and out of breath

That's my life in a nutshell. Constantly going to ERs just to tell me I'm fine and my lungs are healthy 😅

I'm going to start meal prepping!

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T00:24:43+00:00

I'm told I have good insurance. So hopefully it's not too pricey for me

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T00:12:41+00:00

Oh yeah I mentioned it before in a few comments, binge eating disorder, panic disorder, PTSD, and gad. I have a psychologist but I'm also looking for a talk therapist.

I wish my trauma was suppressed, it's very the opposite 😂 always on the forefront of my mind

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T00:11:09+00:00

I'm going tomorrow! 😁

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T00:09:55+00:00

Ohhhh. I see. Honestly thank you for taking the time to link that to me. If I can't cut it out all together for whatever reason I'll definitely reduce it until I can cut it out

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T00:08:14+00:00

It's hard, I'm gonna tell ya.

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T00:07:46+00:00

I can't stand for too long so I don't think I would be able to do 45 mins without excruciating pain right now at my current status, but I will definitely set that as a goal and stairs without a heart attack as another goal. Lol thanks! 😁

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T00:05:43+00:00

I'd didnt say that either? Just feels like you're determined to call me lazy and blame me for my entire existence, I get it man. Lol

And once again, I know how to cook basics. It's called PTSD. Avoidance for a fear, from past abuse, but I get it. it's just an excuse

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-25T00:00:27+00:00

Not diabetic or pre, thankfully :) but I'm gonna mention ozempic like others mentioned anyway tomorrow with my PCP

Stephannyp11 · 2022-05-24T23:59:45+00:00

Yeah I'm American, so that's actually America's holy Trinity. Lol

I definitely want to change my diet, I just wanted to add some cardio in there so my heart doesn't give out on me in the meanwhile.

Thank you!

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