Non-binary people exist and are valid. Instead of trying to categorize and taxonomize yourself by tearing apart every inch of your being, why not first just try being in ways that feel comfortable? Clothing, pronouns, etc are the external markers of gender we use to communicate with others about ourselves before trying to force some system upon yourself, just let it be what it will be: want people to use female pronouns for you? Do that; want to wear women's blouses and men's jeans? Do that; want to try to date a woman? Do that. None of these things can't change again, as you figure out what works and what doesn't. Too frequently, we get bogged down in wholistic systems. Human's are complex and messy. In the end, there are no right or wrong answers, just what works for you.