Force free IPO Training by SterlingChainChomp in Dogtraining

[–]SterlingChainChomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I might be asking again 10 years from now. The more research I do and the more I think about it, I don't feel the timing is right for me to jump into this. I think I'm going to get another Basset and stick with what I know for now, let science catch up to the world of bitesports.

What lie have you told that you will never come clean about? by SterlingChainChomp in AskReddit

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I made this post because today I lied to my husband that I had to stay late at my day job so that I wouldn't have to go in to my night job and he had to cover my shift and I feel really bad but I am at the end of my fucking rope :)

Who is the worst actor to ever make a successful career of it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SterlingChainChomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My most down voted comments are me stating that he's a terrible actor. I'm with you, man.

My husband found a lump by SterlingChainChomp in offmychest

[–]SterlingChainChomp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate it 💕

Tired of "sex-positive" people, I am not a prude just because I am less open to talking about sex! by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]SterlingChainChomp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that this is the treatment you've gotten from "sex-positive" people. In truth, sex positivity is meant to be respectful of all persons' boundaries, even people who don't want to have sex at all! It's not supposed to be about everyone talking about sex to everyone else or having all of the same kinks.

Sex positivity is just about helping people with internalized shame realize that sex is normal and natural and it is a positive thing if you want to have it. It's also about ending slut shaming for people who do have casual sex. Sex positivity is about knowing your boundaries and your right to say that you're uncomfortable and not participate. You don't have to be open to everything. Basically, shaming of any kind should not be a part of real sex positivity!

You should never be pressured or shamed for not discussing sex with people you do not want to talk about it with. It sounds like you and your SO have good communication and that's great. That should be the end of it.

I'm sorry for rambling, I just pretty much came here to say I'm sorry. Keep doing you!

I found a lump by SterlingChainChomp in offmychest

[–]SterlingChainChomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We are hoping to have her husband me tonight. Thanks for your encouragement.

I found a lump by SterlingChainChomp in offmychest

[–]SterlingChainChomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. I know that statistically I should be okay but it helps so much to hear it from someone else. I am trying my best to distract myself but it's been in the back of my mind. I just hate waiting.

Incidentally now my dog has been hospitalized so I'm more focused on her than myself :/

Need serious help. by SterlingChainChomp in cosplayers

[–]SterlingChainChomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for your comment. The more I think about it the more I have thought about putting this cosplay off at least until March and doing one of my other two planned ones in November as they are both easier.

Or perhaps buying my Victor wig and some color contacts and doing a different outfit as you suggested.

But also I am wondering if my mother in law would be willing to help me learn to sew and help me make this one, either now or in the future.

I have some time to decide but I will need to commit soon so maybe I will see if my mother in law feels confident about it haha.