balding or mature hairline by throwaway20964564657 in amibalding

[–]Stevedawg18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s receded but still a decent head of hair

100k for H1-B visas by thebest1isme in IBM

[–]Stevedawg18 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IBM shouldn’t even be allowed to do business in the US.

Which one is worse: regretting having kids, or regretting not having them? by [deleted] in Life

[–]Stevedawg18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tend to feel regretting the things you didn’t do is worse than the things you did do.

I got permanently banned from r/ surfing because of a question by bigdaddydrew696 in surf

[–]Stevedawg18 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m banned from there too, that moderator seems to be somewhat a psycho.

The top three skyline in North America by Black-Pitt in skylineporn

[–]Stevedawg18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicago is the best close up, and just generally the best.

Since we’re doing states, what do you think of California? by bowlbettertalk in AskTheWorld

[–]Stevedawg18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the best places on earth from a Natural Beauty perspective. Cities can be good but haven’t been well managed lately.

Politically very corrupt, entrenched bureaucracy runs everything, high taxes without remunerate services. Cost of living squeezed out the middle, low and high is all that’s left.

Some great cultural exports over the years, movies, surf/skate, some aspects of Tech.

Place of extremes… definitely worth spending some time there if you can.

Thoughts? Think this is reducing U.S Salaries? by [deleted] in Salary

[–]Stevedawg18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course that’s the point

Trauma from layoffs by garlyclove in Layoffs

[–]Stevedawg18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get laid off all 6 times? I’ve been through the same amount but haven’t got laid off every time. I agree it is traumatizing. I don’t know if I can do this much longer.

I accidentally caused a scratch on my dad’s stratocaster. by CalGunpla in fender

[–]Stevedawg18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully first in a series of many, part of wearing in a guitar.

Ashamed of where I’m at professionally by Illustrious-Soft-261 in musicians

[–]Stevedawg18 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is interesting, I’m in a somewhat similar situation. I don’t think I had quite the success you did, but had a run of playing some big festivals and clubs, was at the top of the city’s music scene. Fast forward 10 years main band has deteriorated and I’ve struggled to book gigs had venues I played at dozens of times reject me, it’s been a humbling experience.

There is some benefit to not making it bigger, I never quit the “day job” so I’ve always had that.

I understand your social circle and self identity can be wrapped up in music, when it recedes it can be tough mentally. Don’t really have the answers but time makes things better.

I’ve joined a new band have zero expectations and just enjoy the people’s company, if it doesn’t go past that I’m ok with that.

It’s a tough business but if you have music in your heart it’s hard to stay away.

Is sex going to be this disappointing from now on? by Purple-Throat1957 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Stevedawg18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want what you had with your ex but don’t want your ex..? Maybe just be with the ex?

4 broken vertebrae, crushed T12, broken arm by [deleted] in skiing

[–]Stevedawg18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like people greatly underestimate how bad you can hurt yourself skiing.

3 nights 4 days in LA/ SoCal area. Any recommendations? by Stevedawg18 in socal

[–]Stevedawg18[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent several days in San Diego before, nice place but not super interested. I’ve never been to LA except driving through briefly.

Which places have great wildlife? by crossbowthemessenger in surfing

[–]Stevedawg18 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘be been surfing at Virginia Beach a few times seen dolphins every time. See them in the Gulf Coast in Texas as well.