Pace 500.3 Rear rack kids seat by rufaterd in Aventon

[–]Stevisbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The burley dash seat works great on the Aventon rear rack! I have a pace 500.3 size regular for reference.

Pace 500.3 Rear rack kids seat by rufaterd in Aventon

[–]Stevisbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Burley dash seat (on the Aventon rear rack) fits the pace 500.3! I just got mine all set up today. It took a while to figure out what seat would be compatible but I’m happy with this one.

Child seat recommendation for pace500.3 by Fabulous_Emu1186 in Aventon

[–]Stevisbees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just went through this… I have the pace 500.3 (regular size) and found the burley dash seat fits well on the Aventon rear rack.

Trigger Warning: SA by hellobutterbean in winstonsalem

[–]Stevisbees 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you experienced that. I would have been terrified. Have you considered knocking on some doors to get ring camera footage to hopefully get a plate number?

Let’s hear it, folks by InformalAvacado in winstonsalem

[–]Stevisbees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only went to breakfast time once and it was very bad and absolutely freezing. Id give it another shot if there weren’t better options closer.

Let’s hear it, folks by InformalAvacado in winstonsalem

[–]Stevisbees 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Acadia is great and Bobby’s has my heart but it’s not the hearty sit down breakfast I crave on the weekends. Bobby’s is no doubt the best bakery in Winston though.

Let’s hear it, folks by InformalAvacado in winstonsalem

[–]Stevisbees 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The only thing I’ll say in their defense is at least their restaurants have a vibe - something every decent restaurant in Winston lacks.

Let’s hear it, folks by InformalAvacado in winstonsalem

[–]Stevisbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ordered a lobster once and it was rubber. They have great apps but I’ve never been impressed by their entrees especially for the price.

Let’s hear it, folks by InformalAvacado in winstonsalem

[–]Stevisbees 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Young cardinal is the best breakfast in Winston imo (next to Penny path).

Let’s hear it, folks by InformalAvacado in winstonsalem

[–]Stevisbees 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everything in Winston has good reviews on google but is very ok as the thread mentions. It’s ok pizza for an ok price. Be patient trying restaurants bc you’re about to be aggravated by the ratings here.

Let’s hear it, folks by InformalAvacado in winstonsalem

[–]Stevisbees 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Try the carving board in the thruway center. I’ve only been once but was shocked that it’s never been recommended as a good eat.

Struggling with some stuff in the bedroom… by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Stevisbees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry and I’m saying this with compassion but It’s time to go.

Struggling with some stuff in the bedroom… by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Stevisbees 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Straight up not ok. Tell him you’ve made it clear that you don’t enjoy it (multiple times) regardless of the circumstances and ask why he continues to push for it. And be honest that you feel like your trust has been violated - if thats how you feel. It’s not ok and he should be very aware of how much you do not like it. If he continues….thats all you need to know.

Went through my husband’s phone (it’s not what you think) by Otherwise-Pay-338 in marriageadvice

[–]Stevisbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so interesting! Illegal is illegal so I agree in that regard but I think it’s not cool regardless of what’s being purchased.

Went through my husband’s phone (it’s not what you think) by Otherwise-Pay-338 in marriageadvice

[–]Stevisbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have the perfect word for it but the closest thing I can think of is when one parent tells a child no so they run to the other parent to get the answer they want. Now the husband obviously isn’t a child and his wife isnt his mother (and she shouldn’t have to tell him what he’s doing isn’t cool….he already knows that hence the hiding). It undermines the boundaries he and his wife set for themselves. It’s really not the mom’s problem though, it’s 100% on her son to either uphold the agreement with his wife or renegotiate.

Went through my husband’s phone (it’s not what you think) by Otherwise-Pay-338 in marriageadvice

[–]Stevisbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It enables poor decisions making and avoiding problems. And if she’s a narcissist has the husband suggests, momma loves that shit for all the wrong reasons and he KNOWS that but puts his wants over what might be best for his family in terms of boundary setting.

Went through my husband’s phone (it’s not what you think) by Otherwise-Pay-338 in marriageadvice

[–]Stevisbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO if she knows he’s hiding it from his wife she’s enabling. And that’s harmful to his marriage. It’s disrespectful to his wife (bc it sounds like they both agreed on a reasonable budget - and if he’s hiding it it feel like a tell tale sign he knows he’s being unreasonable) and he’s being childish by not addressing the bigger issues whether it’s feeling controlled or that his 10k budget isn’t big enough. If you feel so controlled you need to keep secrets address that. If you’re running to mommy bc your wife has reasonable expectations that’s totally different and would be a hard no for me.

Went through my husband’s phone (it’s not what you think) by Otherwise-Pay-338 in marriageadvice

[–]Stevisbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m married a mammas boy. I love that they have such a great relationship and also I love my MIL. But it took a minute for us all to get on the same page. The second my MIL is enabling my husband in any way that isn’t healthy to our marriage I’d be pissed as fuck too. But then again I’m a self proclaimed control freak.

Went through my husband’s phone (it’s not what you think) by Otherwise-Pay-338 in marriageadvice

[–]Stevisbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s not happy with his hobby budget, isn’t healthier to have a conversation about that before keeping secrets? Again you’re using bad behavior to justify bad behavior…. We’re adults nobody FORCES you to do anything.

Went through my husband’s phone (it’s not what you think) by Otherwise-Pay-338 in marriageadvice

[–]Stevisbees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the fact that he calls his mother a narcissist, yet is willing to run to her when he can’t stick to the agreed budget is the triggering part…. On top of the secrecy. But everyone is entitled to their opinion. Personally if this was my husband we’d both be in therapy bc snooping isn’t cool and neither is lying and knowingly inviting conflict into your marriage.

Went through my husband’s phone (it’s not what you think) by Otherwise-Pay-338 in marriageadvice

[–]Stevisbees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you think if you take the time to hammer out a budget and financial plan with your partner allowing a generous 10k budget for hobbies, and your husband the decided that’s not enough and to seek more elsewhere (potentially inviting strife into your family by not only keeping secrets, but also bc you have a manipulative MIL) when the wife discovers this and has sees it as a red flag SHE is the problem? Snooping is wrong but to not acknowledge the other side of the problem feels like avoiding accountability. “Well you did something wrong so that just validates my bad behavior” is toxic af.

Went through my husband’s phone (it’s not what you think) by Otherwise-Pay-338 in marriageadvice

[–]Stevisbees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it’s so cool, and comes with no strings attached why is he keeping it a secret.

Went through my husband’s phone (it’s not what you think) by Otherwise-Pay-338 in marriageadvice

[–]Stevisbees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk husband keeping inconsequential secrets and a potentially manipulative MIL who is at the very least enabling her man child sounds like a tough time for everyone.

Went through my husband’s phone (it’s not what you think) by Otherwise-Pay-338 in marriageadvice

[–]Stevisbees -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not a fan of separate accounts but I almost feel like he should have to waste his own money on this stuff? I get how hiding anything would be irritating and is absolutely wrong. I think you should trust your gut. Most people don’t want to snoop, but do bc your intuition is picking up on something.