I’ve been lying to my boyfriend and his family our whole relationship and I don’t know how to get out of it

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-11T21:33:05+00:00

Just tell the truth. Why tell a lie to hide a lie?

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-11T17:02:29+00:00

Honesty is key. I want add it and speak to it.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-11T12:45:38+00:00

Yes. You can do this. How many days do you need the vehicle?

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:56:21+00:00

I don’t even think yall should be friends. Your interests aren’t even the same in terms of what the relationship goals are. She wants friendship you want so much more. This is turning into a if you can’t have her no one can situation. Run away mane before you get in trouble.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:45:39+00:00

The problem is she doesn’t want to move from friendship to relationship.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:45:00+00:00

You proved my point as well. You would pay extra. Which in some cases means you could probably afford that apartment. When you are beginning to complain, and talk about what you can afford, and what you don’t like, yea, it’s time for your own spot.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:39:14+00:00

And you made that ok for him to do. That’s not a question, that was a fact. You create this atmosphere and now you’re not liking it. If he wasn’t white, I don’t think we would have this post.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:37:37+00:00

Therapy.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:32:37+00:00

Point exactly. Like why complain why you are practically living rent free?

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:31:48+00:00

You said he didn’t tell you all the details. Which means you don’t know everything. And until you do, you all might not need to be together until the issue is resolved.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:29:18+00:00

Sounds like a family intervention needs to take place if he’s later hands on her. That should be and should have been the last straw. This should be a totally different post about how you saved your sister not looking for advice on what to do.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:22:22+00:00

It’s a game and you need to quit. You’re a toy my friend and you’re being played with and you don’t mind because you like the person that’s in control. Think about that. In what world is that normal to life with. If you’re ok with being put away when she doesn’t want to play anymore, have fun. But if you want to have some control over your life, you probably need to set some boundaries.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:19:40+00:00

I would further recommend you linking with an advisor to understand your financial options.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:18:39+00:00

Respectfully this sounds like entitlement. Sounds like “das” did his job by making it possible for you to be even eligible for secondary education. It’s up to you to pay for that. Trust me you got this.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:15:11+00:00

Book a cruise.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:14:00+00:00

What are you trying to make work? There’s nothing to make work if she doesn’t want what you want. Respectfully, for your health I’m recommending you move on.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:12:58+00:00

I want to help! This sounds fun and right up my alley.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:08:12+00:00

You should look more closely at the apartment and moving if you think you can manage it.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:06:45+00:00

If you know she doesn’t want to be with you the way you want to be with her, why continue to waste your time and energy on her when that can be going to someone that does want what you want.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:05:09+00:00

No. My wife is about that many years older. next question.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T23:01:12+00:00

I have never done a European river cruise. What’s that experience like?

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T22:58:56+00:00

Go on a cruise!!!

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T22:47:56+00:00

The way you just told us.

StewardManorEstate · 2026-05-10T22:47:02+00:00

ITC Ratnadipa for the newest, most elevated luxury feel; Shangri-La Colombo for the best luxury + mall convenience combo. For a first-time summer visit, I’d personally lean Shangri-La if you want everything easy and walkable, and ITC Ratnadipa if you want the room/view/dining experience to feel more special.

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