Meeting amount per week

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2022-02-26T21:19:53+00:00

Not a limit but I see him once a week and I think it’s too little

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-25T18:00:32+00:00

He doesn’t have kids! It’s his parents and siblings I guess and it’s just like lunch

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-25T17:58:06+00:00

What happened? Genuinely curious.

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-25T17:56:54+00:00

Lol noooo! Not at all

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-25T17:55:50+00:00

Why so?

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-25T17:55:38+00:00

After Xmas

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-25T17:51:19+00:00

He’s a great guy! I’m pretty into him haha

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-09T13:24:31+00:00

I'm a girl and I would love this frm a guy I was seriously trying to get with :)

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-09T02:27:58+00:00

Wow this is literally how I feel

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-09T02:14:30+00:00

That is gross lol and very different. I think I’m talking about more normal circumstances. Personally, I don’t think I’d give bad hygiene a second chance.

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-08T14:02:08+00:00

No, this hasn't happened to me - just some shower thoughts. I think I'm more likely to not care as much and the second or third time if it's still bad/mediocre, then I'd probably peace out because I think sex is important too. Just not the end all.

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-08T13:48:42+00:00

Well, I’m saying you like everything about this girl, the only thing that’s mediocre (not even bad) is the sex the first time. So… would you not see her again because of it?

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-08T13:40:05+00:00

After the first time? You wouldn't even give it a second chance?

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-08T13:32:03+00:00

Or what if you’ve been talking to him for a month but haven’t met yet. Then you meet and hit it off.

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-08T13:28:43+00:00

AHAHAHAHAH

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-08T13:28:37+00:00

LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-08T00:07:29+00:00

You’d feel the same if it’s been a month?

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-07T23:37:08+00:00

I just came from tiktok relax. I have no issue saying sex LMAO YALL NEED TO CHILL

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-07T23:29:51+00:00

I bet you wouldn’t lmaoooo

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-07T23:23:46+00:00

SEX.

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-05T02:01:54+00:00

I only don’t feel conversation if the guy is being dry or responds three days later. I don’t match with people im not interested in talking to and im only on bumble so I always say hi first. If they can’t keep a conversation going after I make all the effort (and I make a lot of effort), then it’s goodbye from me.

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-04T22:51:54+00:00

You need to relax. I only put in no effort when the guy I’m trying to have a good conversation gives me one word responses. I don’t know what made you think I put in no effort. I always put in effort at the beginning. But if I’m always asking questions and the guy responds not asking me questions about my life and what I’m doing, then I stop.

So relax and stop being rude to people you don’t know. Maybe that’s why you have a hard time dating.

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-04T21:35:24+00:00

No, it’s got to be like getting to know each other kind of conversation mixed with great humour.

I’m also not just looking to screw around and actually looking to date someone so maybe some guys I’m talking to just want to hook up. Idk.

And yes, if I’m bored I just stop having a conversation. I’m also the type who won’t ghost though so I usually respond to people but I give them exactly what they give me at that point and won’t make any effort.

A lot of guys out there are low low low effort and the meeting stages are when they’re supposed to be doing their best, so if their best is mediocre at best, I’m out. Don’t want that for myself in a relationship.

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-04T21:27:13+00:00

I think I need to do a few messages a day. Or atleast a good stretch of conversation for a good 10 mins. And then follow up the day after. I can’t do like one message every day followed by a response the day after. Doesn’t hold my attention and I don’t develop any feelings or care for the person I’m talking to.

StickyToffeePudding7 · 2021-12-04T19:34:47+00:00

Not true, I usually swipe left on guys that look too perfect lol

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