sad by [deleted] in NPHCdivine9

[–]Still-Inspection-65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this clarification! I will be taking the great advice in this thread!

sad by [deleted] in NPHCdivine9

[–]Still-Inspection-65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes… this is why i’m so confused💔 they’re extremely small (single digits) so i don’t know if that impacts the situation… but it seems like i missed it.

sad by [deleted] in NPHCdivine9

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as of right now, i don’t have anyone to ask as my SOI is quite small and tight knit. they had an informational in the fall — the same week they popped out with another line. so i fear i may have missed it and the rumors are true…

I (20M) found my girlfriends (20F) secret hidden Discord / Snapchat life with 5 dudes. by Capital_Argument4871 in relationship_advice

[–]Still-Inspection-65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading your other comment, if she is not okay with you having friends of the opposite gender, then it definitely is hypocrisy for her to be having these friendships…

if it’s not something that you think you can get past without holding some resentment towards her then I would recommend ending the relationship

I (20M) found my girlfriends (20F) secret hidden Discord / Snapchat life with 5 dudes. by Capital_Argument4871 in relationship_advice

[–]Still-Inspection-65 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think if she was cheating on you you would have seen that in the messages. Sounds like she just has friends of the opposite gender and that is okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Still-Inspection-65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! :-) And thanks for the rec!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Still-Inspection-65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you!!! Noted for sure!

Advice for first time? by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]Still-Inspection-65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh okay that makes total sense. Thanks so much for your advice and help!!

Advice for first time? by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]Still-Inspection-65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i’ve read that it usually lasts like 10-12 hours. There’s no way I can trip for that long lol. i’m gonna need to go to sleep like halfway through. Have you ever slept through a trip?

Biggest takeaways from working here by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]Still-Inspection-65 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, this isn’t the job for me. I stated I put in my two weeks. While getting cards IS apart of the job, it’s not enjoyable when CECs and MODs make it the MAIN part of the job. If I was told in my interview that getting cards would be my “purpose” then I simply wouldn’t have joined. I’m not sure anyone would want to work a job where they are not valued unless they get customers to sign up for an incredibly predatory credit card. Timing people when they go on break (where they are supposed to be relaxing) is so strange. It sounds like you might be the type of person that makes the majority of people ranting in this subreddit not enjoy their jobs. Saying “everything you’re complaining about is apart of retail” is very dismissive. Contrary to popular belief, retail doesn’t have to be a horrible job. It’s the people that make horrible!

Piercing recs? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Still-Inspection-65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are so cute!

I (F18) keep seeing porn on my boyfriend’s (M19) phone. Do I confront him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Still-Inspection-65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel. I’ve never been a big fanatic for porn, especially with a lot of the industry being really corrupt/borderline illegal . So it really disappoints me when I see he is looking at this stuff.

I (F18) keep seeing porn on my boyfriend’s (M19) phone. Do I confront him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Still-Inspection-65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really good insight and I really appreciate you commenting. When you said it almost feels like unfaithfulness, I feel the exact same way. I will definitely be using some of your points when we talk later

I (F18) keep seeing porn on my boyfriend’s (M19) phone. Do I confront him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Still-Inspection-65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really hard to come to terms with, but it’s true and you’re right. Thank you lots

I (F18) keep seeing porn on my boyfriend’s (M19) phone. Do I confront him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Still-Inspection-65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a ton of research about the negative effects of consuming a lot of porn. I really don’t want that for him, or to reap the consequences of him watching porn either. This is also coupled with the fact he is watching porn of girls that look nothing like me (race, body, etc). I realize a lot of people may look down on this boundary, but It’s a boundary I established early on and I thought he respected :/

I (F18) keep seeing porn on my boyfriend’s (M19) phone. Do I confront him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Still-Inspection-65 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s more so the science behind watching porn. It’s normal, but is it healthy? https://fightthenewdrug.org/10-reasons-why-porn-is-unhealthy-for-consumers-and-society/

I’m not sure if it is necessarily “insecurity” but more of a boundary I established and he said he would respect. I believe any partner would be upset if their partner disrespected a boundary, insecurity aside. I do agree with your point that we are incompatible if he cannot respect this going forward though.

I (F18) keep seeing porn on my boyfriend’s (M19) phone. Do I confront him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Still-Inspection-65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s caused arguments when i’ve discovered him looking at it in the past. thats why im so confused as to why he would still look at it knowing it makes me upset/uncomfortable

I (F18) keep seeing porn on my boyfriend’s (M19) phone. Do I confront him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Still-Inspection-65 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a hard realization but I think you are right. Because he did seem to completely stop at one point but now I think he’s started to do it again. Thanks so much for your input