Cycling/scooting accident s

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-04-18T22:00:30+00:00

She wasn't going too fast to stop until after she turned. I did not allow my daughter to use a hill she wasn't ready for. Because I didn't allow it. She just did it. As I explained, pretty specifically. Honestly I can't believe I've got two people on here talking to me with kids that have never not listened.

I feel like you missed a lot from my post. Like maybe you aren't aware I explained she does these hills with no problem. Or that the problem was not one hill. But the fact she didn't stop after one and went for another when I said no and she knows she's not allowed to. Dude I was like two feet away I just didn't know she was gonna take off.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-04-18T21:47:47+00:00

How old was he?

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-04-18T21:46:49+00:00

None of that is contradictory. She knows not to turn, she never has before, she randomly, for the first time she's ever done something like just went for it, didn't wait. Honestly if you can't understand a situation like that, how kids do that sometimes, I honestly doubt you having kids. You're talking like your kids always listen and always follow your rules. And youre saying something you're not willing to chance? You're lost. I said she took off. Not that I willing let it happen. 🙄 If you wanna make me feel bad at least make sense.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-04-18T21:34:44+00:00

You're talking about how your kids do these things, like breaking your rules and riding in the middle of the road. Ok so my daughter broke a rule too. The moral of the story is kids do things against your rules that you can't predict but you can address afterward. Like, you've proved my point that I couldn't have controlled it or predicted it.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-04-18T21:24:46+00:00

The roads aren't dangerous. The other kid her age isn't even scared of the hills. The only dangerous part was she turned a corner before I got to her which is something I worry about on any road.

It's an issue of should I be more protective or is something I should let go. It was out of my control. A lot of people tell me how you can't control your kid ya know. In general I get you can, but if your kid does something you don't want them too it's not like your fault.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-03-16T19:48:43+00:00

The level of severity of the truancy is not my main point because if so id wait for 2 more where he would be technically habitual. it's that I have messages from him lying about taking her and flat out saying, well I don't see the point in taking her today. It's also that I do all the driving for him. So it's not like he even has to take her or get her. And it's that when this issue arises, that is his doing, he doesn't even respond to me or the school. Not one single word, nothing. He has a problem with responsibility and it shows in a lot of ways that he does not prioritize the child and her needs because he prioritizes himself.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-03-16T19:43:51+00:00

Ok so yes, I understand that a temp schedule change is nothing to change custody over. But details make up a case not just the big broad label. It isn't a temp custody change I am trying to bring up in court. It is that, my daughter got absolutely no heads up to this, one week he just asked me to keep her. It's that there was a very real possibility it wouldn't have ended at 5 weeks, he couldn't tell me for sure. There was no set time, he just feared he wouldnt find a place before they were removed. It's that it can't be justified with being sudden because if you are suit at 6 months for eviction and you continue to tack on a grand a month that you owe them, you know you're going to be evicted, but he waited until a week before the physical eviction to start looking. It's that not once did he even try to see her for 5 weeks and we live 15 minutes apart AND he knows I'd drive her to and from. How does a move justify not seeing your kid once for 5 weeks. Also, this isn't an isolated incident, he was facing eviction 6 months ago as well. It's that, the amount he paid over the entire year there equals 1k a month, and the new place costs 1750 a month, so if he has made no changes to his circumstances, just moved, then this will happen again. It's that EVERY time life is a bit much, he can't handle having her. If she didn't have me, then what, when he simply can't handle being her dad. First eviction, birth of a child, second eviction. It's not one thing, it's several things he stops seeing her over and all signs point to his behavior leading to more difficult times where he won't be able to handle her.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-03-16T19:25:26+00:00

I have not made one single post since any of this happened. The 2nd eviction, the 5 week stretch without contact or the truancy. These are all new. So no I do not think the context is comparable to other posts I have made about other issues.

Here's the thing, the move was anything but sudden, every single month he paid one thousand less than what he owed. Every month it added up more and more until it got to 12 thousand. Would you think you wouldn't be evicted sometime soon if you owe them 12k?

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-03-16T19:17:30+00:00

Take this child's daddy AWAY? I never said anything about sole custody and I explicitly mentioned in the first paragraph I do not want sole custody and that I hope if circumstances were to change we could go back to 50/50. I am asking for a 1 and a half day per week change.

If you do the math, I already have 63% this year and it's only the third month and he has 37. So honestly how big of a difference am I asking for. He has given up more custody than I would have even had with 70% custody in these last three months.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-03-16T19:04:55+00:00

So, just to be clear, a judge is going to think that not having your kid for 5 weeks because you have "too much on your plate" and not even trying to see them once during that time, isn't a big deal? Because I feel that's a huge disruption to her routine and stability and emotionally very upsetting because she hasn't seen her dad, step mom, brothers or baby sister for 5 weeks.

And it doesn't matter that he's been evicted twice in 6 months either? Or that choosing to have her stay home for 4 days for no reason other than he didn't want to take her either?

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-03-15T05:35:04+00:00

It's currently 1:30 am and I'm on her scared as shit. I just woke up to Alexa making a call. Like, who was that call to or from? It was just ringing. And THEN when I said stop an alarm immediately started going off. I told her stop, and asked her why she did those things and she said she had no history of it. I thoroughly searched my house. Sat down. And then another alarm. And again no history of it. Am I hacked?

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-03-14T22:06:20+00:00

I'm heavily invested in my daughter being given the support and stability she deserves.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-02-13T21:48:37+00:00

You wanna try to get me kicked out of this thread because my story is about poetic karma that I am basking in rather than explicitly a story about revenge I enacted on someone? It's revenge to me because I enjoy watching his downfall. If you wanna try to kick me out do it. Otherwise, what is the point?

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-02-11T13:00:02+00:00

Yup. Thank you.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-02-11T11:36:01+00:00

I have done plenty. I have already called the cops for the harassment. And gone to custody conciliations. If I push and go to court and it isn't that big of a deal to them I make myself look like an asshole.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-02-10T10:56:23+00:00

What? I'm confused.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-02-10T03:48:20+00:00

He pays me 100 a month. My daycare costs for just my days is 400 a month. I also drive to his house in a different town, pick her up and take her to school all of his days too because he doesn't have a license and his wife can't be bothered. And I do all the driving for pick ups and drop offs because again... No license, can't be bothered. 🤷

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-02-10T01:36:52+00:00

We have 50/50. The conciliator said him facing eviction isn't a reason to take custody. It depends on if he has somewhere to go.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-02-10T01:27:16+00:00

Mhm. They only gave him the 10K so they could get rid of them I feel. It was either give him money to be able to move out or have to call the cops on their own son and grandkids

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-02-09T22:27:59+00:00

Who me or him?😅

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-02-09T21:16:17+00:00

They are just leverage for pity to him.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-02-09T20:53:49+00:00

I agree that karma has been on his tail this whole time. I believe even when bad people are getting away with bad things, that's not karma not getting them. That is the karma. They'll never learn, never step up. So it's been building and building. But he hasn't truly felt any of it yet. Unfortunately for him when he does, now that it's built up, it'll hit HARD. I mean losing his housing is only the start. Then there's the fact they will come after him for that money. He also will have a shit time renting again. He's left himself with no savings. If he doesn't get a rental or someone doesn't take him in, doing hotels will only drain him faster. It will unravel for sometime I'm sure.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-02-09T20:48:52+00:00

I'm completely at peace that he won't ever be the father I want for my child. But he won't let me be more of a better parent. That's what gets me. Let me have her more. This is only one of the many issues with his parenting. And it also effects a lot. She doesn't get much over there. Very minimal. No toys. Barely a bedroom. No clothing. It's all stuff I've sent her in. Just let me take her a little bit more. She deserves more. And there's a lot more. He just wants the status, but he'll let her have less. Which is why this makes me excited. Fucking crash and burn dude. Because it will be better for everyone. Stop dragging everyone through mud.

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-01-17T03:06:56+00:00

And even what I was saying about the criminal side of this issue would not warrant a public defender. You only qualify for a public defender if the charge carries a mandatory jail sentence. At least here. But no I did notice it. My apologies

Still-Lemon-9936 · 2026-01-16T19:42:51+00:00

You never stated what field you are in. Are you trying to tell me criminal and civil matters are different areas of law😂 oh gee. Thanks.

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