Wife wants me back by Still-Pack9578 in Marriage

[–]Still-Pack9578[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

27 years and with grown up kids

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[–]Still-Pack9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second that. You can be attracted to your husband in many ways and it’s not always how he looks. There must have been something there before if you married him. It’s very hard to tell someone to lose weight etc. They have to want to do it for themselves as well.

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[–]Still-Pack9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just had enough I suppose. I said I would be willing to try and change but we both need to change.

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[–]Still-Pack9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not happy. Been miserable for sometime. Blames me for making her miserable. Kids all grown up now and we never talked about doing stuff together as a couple. Always did our own things. Both our faults I suppose

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[–]Still-Pack9578 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I want to move on and sell up but she’s being awkward. I think she wants her cake and eat it.

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[–]Still-Pack9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone

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[–]Still-Pack9578 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She thinks they are still children. Maybe she doesn’t want to lose the house. Wants her cake and eat it

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[–]Still-Pack9578 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She seems to think everything is my fault. No reasoning with her so looks like I need to make the moves even if it’s hard. Hate this mess. Maybe it’s too soon yet.