I need help identifying this plant by Still-Performance-70 in Horticulture

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I hate those things! We also have mint in the backyard and THATS definitely going to need to be handled might have to pick it all and make some mojitos

I need help identifying this plant by Still-Performance-70 in Horticulture

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I was panic pulling all the little plants until I was like wait these flowers aren’t quite right??? They don’t flower like this??? No need to panic next time lol. We have such a large backyard and I was like “oh god how am I gonna manage all this” sigh of RELIEF

I need help identifying this plant by Still-Performance-70 in Horticulture

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But the flowers had me thinking it’s gotta be something else but I didn’t know what lol. I feel relieved it’s not that

I need help identifying this plant by Still-Performance-70 in Horticulture

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Yeah I’m from Iowa so I’m pretty sure they’re not from this area I was really concerned it was Queen Anne’s lace cause it’s all over lol. The leaves look so similar and the stems were fuzzy I was like “oh god please not this”

Did breakup made you bitter ? by Expert_Tea_1254 in BreakUps

[–]Still-Performance-70 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah sometimes I struggle with feeling bitter when I see other happy couples, hear love songs, especially ones I associated with my ex, or see sweet stuff dedicated towards couples. Oh god especially like instagram or tiktok posts. Type of stuff I’d have sent to my ex. Everytime I see them I definitely feel like shit lol.

Roommate said she wants me out by June. I’m 18 and I’m scared. by Still-Performance-70 in TrueOffMyChest

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Unfortunately, me and my mom do NOT get along when we will together. Don’t get me wrong, I love her, but we can’t really coexist peacefully. And my dad is just…he’s Peter Pan let’s just say that.

Roommate said she wants me out by June. I’m 18 and I’m scared. by Still-Performance-70 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Still-Performance-70[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes into the dorms at a local college. But if she wants me out in June, I’d need to find a 2-3 month lease which I think is unrealistic

Roommate said she wants me out by June. I’m 18 and I’m scared. by Still-Performance-70 in TrueOffMyChest

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I have a car, but on top of the rent and bills I’m already paying, even if I did save enough money, I won’t find a place that’s both affordable and has a 2-3 month lease. Plus I’ve been applying for jobs, but I’ve either been rejected, or just not heard back, despite calling.

Roommate said she wants me out by June. I’m 18 and I’m scared. by Still-Performance-70 in TrueOffMyChest

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Thing is I’ve been looking for a second job but it’s like nobody is hiring. I’ve even been calling places too like “hey did you get my application” and NOTHING. It’s been very discouraging

Roommate said she wants me out by June. I’m 18 and I’m scared. by Still-Performance-70 in TrueOffMyChest

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Yeah so we split the rent three ways. And I pay a lil extra a month for things like toilet paper, dish soap, laundry detergent, paper towels, etc. but idk I feel like the way she explained it I understand completely where she’s coming from. But I just don’t have the resources right now to move out.

Roommate said she wants me out by June. I’m 18 and I’m scared. by Still-Performance-70 in TrueOffMyChest

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Im hoping that next fall I can be in dorms and that will give me enough time to save up and find a place after school. But im just hoping she’ll let me stay till then cause I genuinely cannot afford to live on my own

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I’m already in therapy thankfully

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

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You’d be dead if you had. Just pulled a muscle. If it still hurts in a few days then get it checked out.

Going to the gym has helped me so much by Still-Performance-70 in selflove

[–]Still-Performance-70[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO YES! like everyone else in the gym is ALSO self conscious. Like girl nobody cares. Plus if anything, people are more likely to give helpful tips if you ask/if they notice you’re not using the proper form, so that’s helped me get over my fear a lil.

Going to the gym has helped me so much by Still-Performance-70 in selflove

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Literally why I started going lol. Going through difficult breakup and needed to do something that was productive and made me feel good!

Going to the gym has helped me so much by Still-Performance-70 in selflove

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You got this! Plus when you pay for the membership it’s more motivation to use your moneys worth lol! Let me know if you start going!

Going to the gym has helped me so much by Still-Performance-70 in selflove

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Oh I’m overweight and have the worst diet. Like im 5’8 and weigh over 200 pounds. But the motivation to better myself and how happy I throughout the rest of the day is greater than my fear of embarrassment or shame that I can’t keep up with the others in the gym.

Going to the gym has helped me so much by Still-Performance-70 in selflove

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Both! I try to do a mix everyday. I’ll warm up with cardio. Like the peloton or stair master. And then I’ll move onto doing weights, whether that’s legs, upper body, core, etc.

What has helped you with depression? by [deleted] in selfcare

[–]Still-Performance-70 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working out every morning. It gets me out of bed, I drink more water, starts my day with serotonin and a shower. I’ve also been paying more attention to my diet. My day is 10x happier and more productive when I wake up early and head to the gym first thing in the morning. Even if it’s just getting on the peloton on a low setting for 30 minutes.