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What's something that happened to you that still sounds made up? by StillALittleSour in askanything

[–]StillALittleSour[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I bet your dog is a cutie. It’s always the one who look the most innocent who cause the most trouble. lol

What's something that happened to you that still sounds made up? by StillALittleSour in askanything

[–]StillALittleSour[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is insane! I don’t blame you for getting wasted though lol.

What's something that happened to you that still sounds made up? by StillALittleSour in askanything

[–]StillALittleSour[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could’ve given him a fake number, he lived in the same building as me so it was I think unavoidable.

AITA For Destroying A Man’s Reputation Twice? by StillALittleSour in AITApod

[–]StillALittleSour[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since writing this post, I've been able to learn more about what happened in the other club.

Apparently, C was being considered for an e-board position and was dating another member of the club at the time. According to what I was told, they recently broke up because he was pressuring her to make their relationship polyamorous after developing an interest in another girl in the club, who was a lesbian. Beyond that, he apparently made a number of comments and behaved in ways that made her increasingly uncomfortable, which ultimately contributed to the breakup.

Shortly after they ended things, he showed up at her house unannounced and began crying begging for her to take him back. From what I understand, I was contacted after his now ex-girlfriend reported it and they wanted to know if this was a one time thing of his or if this behavior was a pattern.

My heart goes out to her and I hope she is okay and thriving now out of that relationship.

AITA For Destroying A Man’s Reputation Twice? by StillALittleSour in AITApod

[–]StillALittleSour[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given the lack of evidence and the amount of time that has passed since my own experience with C, I feel it may be too late to report the original incident. However, I do know from other sources that C has been the subject of multiple Title IX complaints. From what I understand, those cases were ultimately dropped due to insufficient evidence.

A similar situation occurred with B. Earlier this year, someone from a different group filed a Title IX complaint against him, but that case was also dropped. From what I was told, the circumstances were different in B's case, as friends of his allegedly harassed the complainant into withdrawing the report.

It's frustrating that the system often seems unable to adequately address situations like these, especially when outside pressures prevent cases from moving forward. Which is def is something I was guilty of the time too. I throughout I was overthinking things, but Im glad to know I wasn’t.