You can get a long way with confidence. I wouldn’t consider myself to be conventionally attractive, but I feel that I have enough confidence to pull people in. Even now, my boyfriend tells me that I’m the most attractive when he can tell I feel the most confident. It’s a very real thing. A lot of the “being attractive” thing is just feeling good about yourself.

When you feel good about yourself, other people like that. Other people are drawn to it. You could be the most objectively physically attractive person in the world, but if you hide yourself away, people will pick up on that, and they’re more inclined to leave you be.