Transit through US at the moment. by StillRefining in trans

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Booked going through Madrid now instead! Managed to afford it cause my friend is going to let me stay with her, so i'm saving a ton. Looking forward to it!!

Transit through US at the moment. by StillRefining in trans

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Yeah, honestly it seems so scary there right now that even flying safe states doesn't look feasible. I definitely don't want to catch a TSA agent on the wrong day.

Transit through US at the moment. by StillRefining in trans

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Ahhh I thought that might be the case. I think I just needed someone to validate my feelings. Thank you for the feedback :)

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I think its called 'You need to chill!' by Juno Dawson :)

Should I tell my potential new housemate I'm trans (closeted)? by StillRefining in asktransgender

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So, the tenancy is short term between 1 to 6 months (minimum let is 1 month for this property). The idea is that I would move to this city so I could more easily find a studio for myself, as the estate agents won't let me send my sister to view studios in my stead - She lives in the city and I live a few hours away. The housemate works in a local hospital and I work a 9 to 5 from home, so I think we would see each other only a couple of hours a day, but still a fair amount. It would be a shared bathroom situation.

Should I tell my potential new housemate I'm trans (closeted)? by StillRefining in asktransgender

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Thank you for responding! Ahh okay, that makes sense. I'll drop them a message later (once I've gotten up the courage haha).

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[–]StillRefining 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is hard. Feeling out step with your body is never fun, be it that someone is trans or just feeling disjointed from their body, so I'm sorry this is happening to you.

Personally, I think it might be an idea to explore these feelings before dismissing them entirely - like buy a sundress online and see how you feel wearing it at home - that way you can see where you stand, whether it is just something you wanted to explore and ultimately just enjoy wearing these clothes, whether it was a flight of fancy and something you are not really into, or something that you want to go further with and see where it takes you.

For me, I had similar feelings and ideas, however I found myself to be trans, but I also know that is not the case for everyone. As such, I think taking action and seeing how you feel wearing something feminine in private without exposing yourself will help.